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Title: Sex since starting t
Post by: mynameisjacob on January 06, 2015, 06:10:09 AM
Post by: mynameisjacob on January 06, 2015, 06:10:09 AM
just lookin for some advice around the topic of genital growth on T. Two months in and I have around 1cm of growth. My girlfriend and I had sex for the first time yesterday since achieving that growth, and it kinda made things awkward. My girlfriend identifies as lesbian with me being the exception because we were together for 1.5 years before I came out so we had the really deep love for each other as people. So for her, seeing my growth made her uncomfortable. It was a bit of a shock to her I suppose, but its only going to grow bigger so we need to work out our issue. She said its going to take time for her to get used to it, which I understand. I tried telling her that even cis women can have this growth. She said its different though because she sees me 100% as male and therefore sees my growth as a tiny penis. She can't look at it, and me jerking myself off doesn't quite feel as good as her giving me a handjob. Does anyone here have any tips on how I can help her get more comfortable with my junk? She even has problems stroking it. She reckons it will just take time by I feel I need to discuss it wit her. Any ideas guys? I was thinking of getting The Bro Sleeve so that she could jerk me off with that rather than looking and touching my dick. But with a cm of growth I don't know if its going to feel any good?
Title: Re: Sex since starting t
Post by: NathanielM on January 06, 2015, 11:52:52 AM
Post by: NathanielM on January 06, 2015, 11:52:52 AM
Maybe she's right and she just needs a little bit of time to get her mind wrapped around it? I wouldn't pressure her too much, but I think you can talk about it with her.
You could ask her if she has any ideas on making it work for you two? And ask her if she sees the bro-sleeve as an option? It sounds like she's willing to make it work but it is possible she just needs a little more time. If that's the case maybe you'll just have to give that to her.
You could ask her if she has any ideas on making it work for you two? And ask her if she sees the bro-sleeve as an option? It sounds like she's willing to make it work but it is possible she just needs a little more time. If that's the case maybe you'll just have to give that to her.
Title: Re: Sex since starting t
Post by: mm on January 06, 2015, 12:07:34 PM
Post by: mm on January 06, 2015, 12:07:34 PM
I agree she will need more time to adjust to your new size and in all likelihood will increase more in the future. If she really loves you and wants to stay with you; she will adjust and hopefully she will learn to like your increasing size. Try to talk with her to see what her real problems is.
Title: Re: Sex since starting t
Post by: mynameisjacob on January 06, 2015, 05:18:19 PM
Post by: mynameisjacob on January 06, 2015, 05:18:19 PM
Thanks guys, that's reassuring. I was just having a lot of anxiety around this. I'll just give her time