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Title: I have returned! Hello everyone
Post by: jaybutterfly on January 30, 2015, 05:40:54 PM
Post by: jaybutterfly on January 30, 2015, 05:40:54 PM
Well everybody, hello. It has been a while ;D
I stopped coming around here some time ago all that often. Life, my gender and various other things going on left me in such a debilitating state of anxiety I've been in high intensity cognitive therapy and been trying to stay off the computer and doing other things to help keep me active.
This is sort of a re-introduction for me, because quite a lot has changed with me since I was last here. I've gotten a bit more of a solid grip on my gender since I was last here. At times I was questioning if i was bi-gender, gender queer or just a crossdresser. Now I'm really solid I'm an androgynous gender fluid. One of the biggest things that has helped has been my third cbt therapist, who unlike the others, listened to me and has tried to help me. And while I have yet to see a therapist specifically for dealling with how I feel, I have begun to educate my mother on the subject with the intention of coming out to her in the near future.
Im currently working on a short film as well as an independant animated film about a transgender character in the process of exploring their identity, which is helping me massively.
Anyway, I should be much more active on here as of now. See you around the board guys :)
I stopped coming around here some time ago all that often. Life, my gender and various other things going on left me in such a debilitating state of anxiety I've been in high intensity cognitive therapy and been trying to stay off the computer and doing other things to help keep me active.
This is sort of a re-introduction for me, because quite a lot has changed with me since I was last here. I've gotten a bit more of a solid grip on my gender since I was last here. At times I was questioning if i was bi-gender, gender queer or just a crossdresser. Now I'm really solid I'm an androgynous gender fluid. One of the biggest things that has helped has been my third cbt therapist, who unlike the others, listened to me and has tried to help me. And while I have yet to see a therapist specifically for dealling with how I feel, I have begun to educate my mother on the subject with the intention of coming out to her in the near future.
Im currently working on a short film as well as an independant animated film about a transgender character in the process of exploring their identity, which is helping me massively.
Anyway, I should be much more active on here as of now. See you around the board guys :)
Title: Re: I have returned! Hello everyone
Post by: Devlyn on January 30, 2015, 07:23:43 PM
Post by: Devlyn on January 30, 2015, 07:23:43 PM
Welcome back Jaybutterfly! Glad you're making progress on knowing yourself. It's half the battle. Grab some snacks (nectar for you, right?) :laugh: and I'll see you around the site!
Hugs, Devlyn
Hugs, Devlyn
Title: Re: I have returned! Hello everyone
Post by: V M on January 31, 2015, 12:14:11 AM
Post by: V M on January 31, 2015, 12:14:11 AM
Hi Jaybutterfly :icon_wave:
Welcome back to Susan's :) Glad to have you here again, join on in the fun
Here's some quick links to help you along
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Hugs
V M
Welcome back to Susan's :) Glad to have you here again, join on in the fun
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Hugs
V M
Title: Re: I have returned! Hello everyone
Post by: Cindy on January 31, 2015, 12:20:15 AM
Post by: Cindy on January 31, 2015, 12:20:15 AM
Welcome back! Hugs and great to hear you are coping better.