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Title: hello to everyone here
Post by: Stanna on February 15, 2015, 08:22:32 AM
Post by: Stanna on February 15, 2015, 08:22:32 AM
Been lurking for a couple weeks now, thought I might share. I came out to my lovely wife last night, and I was very nervous and not sure how she would take the news. The only side of me she has seen for the 10 years we have been together has been the masculine part of me, suffice it to say I blew her mind! She looked at me and smiled, and said, is that all, I thought you were going to tell me you are going to leave me. It took her awhile to wrap her head around what I just told her, but then told me how much she loved me and will always be here for me no matter if or when I choose to transition. She is the most wonderful women and human being on this planet! How am I so lucky? bye for now, and thanks to everyone on this board, reading your stories helped me to realize who I am, A GIRL!!
Title: Re: hello to everyone here
Post by: jeni on February 15, 2015, 08:33:08 AM
Post by: jeni on February 15, 2015, 08:33:08 AM
Welcome, and congratulations on taking that first difficult step. I'm so glad it turned out so well! It's not something one can take for granted. Good luck on your journey.
Title: Re: hello to everyone here
Post by: Myarkstir on February 15, 2015, 08:40:07 AM
Post by: Myarkstir on February 15, 2015, 08:40:07 AM
Hey!
Welcome to Susan's
Welcome to Susan's
Title: Re: hello to everyone here
Post by: Stanna on February 15, 2015, 09:38:16 AM
Post by: Stanna on February 15, 2015, 09:38:16 AM
Thanks for the welcome!
Here is a little about me; I started cross dressing as teenager, and it felt wonderful every time I did, but always was scared and ashamed of what I had done. I was always attracted to women, and got married to a wonderful girl that I did not confess my hidden secret. She found my stash 3 years latter and we soon got divorced. Move forward a few years, and met my 2nd wife, but this time confessed to her before marriage and she seemed ok with it, but I kept it mostly closeted to her. We had two wonderful boys who are grown now! After 20 years of marriage she decided I did not fulfill her needs and we divorced. Throughout this time I thought it would be wonderful to be a women, but knew that could not be right because I was a man
(guilt, shame). So I suppressed my thoughts and desires and proceeded on with life, and then met the love of my life. I did not tell her of my secret because I thought I had pushed those thoughts away. ( it seems stupid now that I could think that). About a month ago the light came on! I finally understood, that I am not a man who likes to wear women's clothes, I am a women who likes to wear women's clothes. Then a wonderful thing happened, I accepted myself for who I am and all the guilt and shame I carried from my past went away!! Wow an amazing feeling!!
thanks for listening, Stanna (btw i'm 58)
Here is a little about me; I started cross dressing as teenager, and it felt wonderful every time I did, but always was scared and ashamed of what I had done. I was always attracted to women, and got married to a wonderful girl that I did not confess my hidden secret. She found my stash 3 years latter and we soon got divorced. Move forward a few years, and met my 2nd wife, but this time confessed to her before marriage and she seemed ok with it, but I kept it mostly closeted to her. We had two wonderful boys who are grown now! After 20 years of marriage she decided I did not fulfill her needs and we divorced. Throughout this time I thought it would be wonderful to be a women, but knew that could not be right because I was a man
(guilt, shame). So I suppressed my thoughts and desires and proceeded on with life, and then met the love of my life. I did not tell her of my secret because I thought I had pushed those thoughts away. ( it seems stupid now that I could think that). About a month ago the light came on! I finally understood, that I am not a man who likes to wear women's clothes, I am a women who likes to wear women's clothes. Then a wonderful thing happened, I accepted myself for who I am and all the guilt and shame I carried from my past went away!! Wow an amazing feeling!!
thanks for listening, Stanna (btw i'm 58)
Title: Re: hello to everyone here
Post by: Devlyn on February 15, 2015, 09:54:24 AM
Post by: Devlyn on February 15, 2015, 09:54:24 AM
Hi Stanna, welcome to Susan's Place! I'm a (snowbound) Bostonian. I'm glad you found us, and by the way, you're
not 58, you're 29 x 2! ;D That's a little trick my mom taught me! See you around the site.
Hugs, Devlyn
not 58, you're 29 x 2! ;D That's a little trick my mom taught me! See you around the site.
Hugs, Devlyn
Title: Re: hello to everyone here
Post by: mrs izzy on February 15, 2015, 10:44:46 AM
Post by: mrs izzy on February 15, 2015, 10:44:46 AM
Welcome Stanna to Susan's Place.
Soon one of the GM's will be stopping by and giving some important site links.
Lots of topics to explore and post to write.
Safe passage on your path.
Hugs
Soon one of the GM's will be stopping by and giving some important site links.
Lots of topics to explore and post to write.
Safe passage on your path.
Hugs
Title: Re: hello to everyone here
Post by: LordKAT on February 15, 2015, 11:22:10 AM
Post by: LordKAT on February 15, 2015, 11:22:10 AM
- Hi Stanna and welcome to Susan's.
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Title: Re: hello to everyone here
Post by: MelissaAnn on February 15, 2015, 11:38:38 AM
Post by: MelissaAnn on February 15, 2015, 11:38:38 AM
Hi Stanna!
A big warm welcome to Susan's place! It's always nice to welcome another sister to our ever growing family. You will find a lot of brothers and sisters that are either going through or are going through the same things as you. There are a lot of fantastic people here and some great resources available here. Everything is right at your finger tips so pull up a chair, relax and let your fingers do the walking. Don't be shy... When you are comfortable feel free to stop in our kitchen and get yourself some coffee or tea! I look forward to seeing you around the forums. BTW congratulations on the first huge step you've taken and I'm so very happy for you. You have a very loving wife there. You are truly blessed! I wish you nothing but the best of luck on your journey and may the Angels always look upon you and guide you on your journey!
Love,
Melissa Ann
A big warm welcome to Susan's place! It's always nice to welcome another sister to our ever growing family. You will find a lot of brothers and sisters that are either going through or are going through the same things as you. There are a lot of fantastic people here and some great resources available here. Everything is right at your finger tips so pull up a chair, relax and let your fingers do the walking. Don't be shy... When you are comfortable feel free to stop in our kitchen and get yourself some coffee or tea! I look forward to seeing you around the forums. BTW congratulations on the first huge step you've taken and I'm so very happy for you. You have a very loving wife there. You are truly blessed! I wish you nothing but the best of luck on your journey and may the Angels always look upon you and guide you on your journey!
Love,
Melissa Ann
Title: Re: hello to everyone here
Post by: V M on February 15, 2015, 06:56:02 PM
Post by: V M on February 15, 2015, 06:56:02 PM
Hi Stanna :icon_wave:
Welcome to Susan's :) Glad to have you here, join on in the fun
Hugs
V M
Welcome to Susan's :) Glad to have you here, join on in the fun
Hugs
V M
Title: Re: hello to everyone here
Post by: Stanna on February 18, 2015, 08:19:22 AM
Post by: Stanna on February 18, 2015, 08:19:22 AM
Thanks again for all the warm welcomes! This place is truly a godsend, knowing there are others out there going through life with similar struggles about who they are and deciding which direction life will take them, makes me feel not so out of place.
Devlyn, funny, I feel like a 29 year old girl trapped in this 58 year old mans body, but I am determined to let her out! Can't wait to see where this goes!
Hugs, Stanna
Devlyn, funny, I feel like a 29 year old girl trapped in this 58 year old mans body, but I am determined to let her out! Can't wait to see where this goes!
Hugs, Stanna
Title: Re: hello to everyone here
Post by: Devlyn on February 18, 2015, 08:48:16 AM
Post by: Devlyn on February 18, 2015, 08:48:16 AM
24/7 live transgender support is what we do, Stanna! :)
Hugs, Devlyn
Hugs, Devlyn
Title: Re: hello to everyone here
Post by: Mariah on February 18, 2015, 12:36:45 PM
Post by: Mariah on February 18, 2015, 12:36:45 PM
Welcome to Susan's Stanna. I'm glad to hear things went well. I look forward to seeing you around the site.
Mariah
Mariah
Title: Re: hello to everyone here
Post by: gennee on February 19, 2015, 02:24:27 PM
Post by: gennee on February 19, 2015, 02:24:27 PM
A hearty welcome to Susan's, Stanna.
:)
:)