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Title: Bra size - I think I've been measuring wrong (again)
Post by: Violet Bloom on February 20, 2015, 02:47:45 PM
Post by: Violet Bloom on February 20, 2015, 02:47:45 PM
Bra sizing has been discussed at length before on Susan's but I realized something today that changed my mind about how I've been measuring myself. I'd always been having trouble getting any online bra size calculator to spit out anything close to what actually fits me properly. I attributed this to my incomplete development and slightly disproportionately large ribcage. This was a good hypothesis but not exactly what was going on.
I have a very comfortable bra with a tiny bit of room to spare in the cups. It is 34C and padded at the base of the cups for a bit of a push-up effect. When I've measured my under-bust in the past I'd done what I thought was correct and wrapped the tape around immediately under the curve of my breasts. This resulted in a 35" figure and pushed up the band reported by the calculators which was way too loose. More recently I measured the same way again and got 34" which I guessed must be muscle loss on my back.
Then it clicked what I was doing wrong. The growth of my breasts was pushing the position of the tape down lower on my ribcage over time. Due to the taper of my ribcage this quickly shrunk the band size with only a small shift downward. I should have been measuring the under-bust based on where the actual bottom of the bra band was intended to lie (pretty much a static figure), not where the bottom of my breast was (a moving target). If I measure around where the bottom of the underwire sits properly on my padded bra the figure comes out at 33", a full two inches less than what I had initially believed! It is very clear now that I was also trying to wear the bras too high up my chest when I really should just have had a smaller cup with more bottom padding.
The calculators are still oversizing me slightly now but it's nowhere near as ridiculous as before. I also feel better knowing that my ribcage isn't as big as I thought. It's just my shoulders that are a bit wide. The bigger my breasts have gotten, the better everything seems in visual balance however.
I have a very comfortable bra with a tiny bit of room to spare in the cups. It is 34C and padded at the base of the cups for a bit of a push-up effect. When I've measured my under-bust in the past I'd done what I thought was correct and wrapped the tape around immediately under the curve of my breasts. This resulted in a 35" figure and pushed up the band reported by the calculators which was way too loose. More recently I measured the same way again and got 34" which I guessed must be muscle loss on my back.
Then it clicked what I was doing wrong. The growth of my breasts was pushing the position of the tape down lower on my ribcage over time. Due to the taper of my ribcage this quickly shrunk the band size with only a small shift downward. I should have been measuring the under-bust based on where the actual bottom of the bra band was intended to lie (pretty much a static figure), not where the bottom of my breast was (a moving target). If I measure around where the bottom of the underwire sits properly on my padded bra the figure comes out at 33", a full two inches less than what I had initially believed! It is very clear now that I was also trying to wear the bras too high up my chest when I really should just have had a smaller cup with more bottom padding.
The calculators are still oversizing me slightly now but it's nowhere near as ridiculous as before. I also feel better knowing that my ribcage isn't as big as I thought. It's just my shoulders that are a bit wide. The bigger my breasts have gotten, the better everything seems in visual balance however.
Title: Re: Bra size - I think I've been measuring wrong (again)
Post by: Stephanie2 on February 20, 2015, 03:59:32 PM
Post by: Stephanie2 on February 20, 2015, 03:59:32 PM
Those calculators can be very tricky. I gave three or four calculators the same measurements and came up with three or four different sizes.
Title: Re: Bra size - I think I've been measuring wrong (again)
Post by: Lady_Oracle on February 20, 2015, 06:34:30 PM
Post by: Lady_Oracle on February 20, 2015, 06:34:30 PM
Online calculators aren't very accurate at all honestly. There is one I found that's pretty accurate however you should take it as a guideline at best. Another important thing to keep in mind when it comes to bra sizing is that the band measurement is relative to cup size so make sure to check sister sizes too, they might even fit better.
http://www.brasizecalculator.tk/
Be on the look out for my bra sizing thread I'm gonna make soon. I've been researching the crap out of bra sizing for awhile now and there's so much info on how to find the right fit.
http://www.brasizecalculator.tk/
Be on the look out for my bra sizing thread I'm gonna make soon. I've been researching the crap out of bra sizing for awhile now and there's so much info on how to find the right fit.
Title: Re: Bra size - I think I've been measuring wrong (again)
Post by: JoanneB on February 20, 2015, 08:48:11 PM
Post by: JoanneB on February 20, 2015, 08:48:11 PM
A primary point I've found buried in some "Measurement" guides buried in the fine print is along the lines of "In a bra that kind of sort of fits"
I have a biggish barrel chest. Move a tape measure 1" up or down and get a 2" difference right there. I've been on HRT for 5 years. My boobs, for lack of a better word, are "Wall Eyed". Being nearer to the outside of my rib cage and point out towards the "walls". Measure me every which way from Sunday according to any/all the charts I am maybe, maybe an AA to an A cup
Put me in a non-padded bra "close" to my size and.... Viola. I get what I am. A for real B.
Measurement "Guides" are just that, a guide. Different manufacturers, styles, types, all fit differently. Perhaps they are correct. But Im not one for always following rules. I am an empiricist, I go with what works.
Band size - Well, it's what I measure. Not that 2" over it. My chest is 36, my bras are a 36. By "Their" method at 1-2 inch maybe... A cup. I fill a B. Maybe it's since I have a bit of a collection since age 16 I sort of know my "comfort" zone? What works. (OK bra size... Life? well another night :o )
I have a biggish barrel chest. Move a tape measure 1" up or down and get a 2" difference right there. I've been on HRT for 5 years. My boobs, for lack of a better word, are "Wall Eyed". Being nearer to the outside of my rib cage and point out towards the "walls". Measure me every which way from Sunday according to any/all the charts I am maybe, maybe an AA to an A cup
Put me in a non-padded bra "close" to my size and.... Viola. I get what I am. A for real B.
Measurement "Guides" are just that, a guide. Different manufacturers, styles, types, all fit differently. Perhaps they are correct. But Im not one for always following rules. I am an empiricist, I go with what works.
Band size - Well, it's what I measure. Not that 2" over it. My chest is 36, my bras are a 36. By "Their" method at 1-2 inch maybe... A cup. I fill a B. Maybe it's since I have a bit of a collection since age 16 I sort of know my "comfort" zone? What works. (OK bra size... Life? well another night :o )
Title: Re: Bra size - I think I've been measuring wrong (again)
Post by: lilredneckgirl on February 21, 2015, 09:31:47 AM
Post by: lilredneckgirl on February 21, 2015, 09:31:47 AM
arghhhh. Tit Slings. they are the dangdest things ever invented. i am as a rule of thumb, 38 C. yet often they fit to tight, too loose, or not at all. i have some 36 C that fit well, as do some 40 C, so go figure. the worst ones are where the cups dont set where the girls do, so you get smooshed together or spread apart.
the best options ive found, is when bra shopping, do it in a store and try it on. nothing says " it fits", like the girls snuggling in and the straps not cutting groves into your back or sholders.
i dont do under wires. you get stuck once, that stops that.
a big plus in wearing/buying bras, find and stock up on them lil 'bra extender' things. they give the chest strap a schooch more length by adding in perhaps an inch or two of strap. hooks on one end, eyes on the other, 2 bucks at most stores for a 3 pack.
mostly these days, i opt for the sports style, stretch fabric, racer back design so no straps on the sholder sliding down the arm, no under wire pinches or mis positioned cups. they provide compression support that makes running and excersize comfortable, and all day wear at work a bit more bearable.
best advise, not trying to be redundant, try them on in the store. sans that, buy and take them home, and try them on BEFORE you remove the tags so they are returnable.
the best options ive found, is when bra shopping, do it in a store and try it on. nothing says " it fits", like the girls snuggling in and the straps not cutting groves into your back or sholders.
i dont do under wires. you get stuck once, that stops that.
a big plus in wearing/buying bras, find and stock up on them lil 'bra extender' things. they give the chest strap a schooch more length by adding in perhaps an inch or two of strap. hooks on one end, eyes on the other, 2 bucks at most stores for a 3 pack.
mostly these days, i opt for the sports style, stretch fabric, racer back design so no straps on the sholder sliding down the arm, no under wire pinches or mis positioned cups. they provide compression support that makes running and excersize comfortable, and all day wear at work a bit more bearable.
best advise, not trying to be redundant, try them on in the store. sans that, buy and take them home, and try them on BEFORE you remove the tags so they are returnable.
Title: Re: Bra size - I think I've been measuring wrong (again)
Post by: Violet Bloom on February 21, 2015, 10:44:03 AM
Post by: Violet Bloom on February 21, 2015, 10:44:03 AM
I should note that I'm not so much interested or concerned with the online calculators any more. While I can now get them to reproduce more realistic results, my point was that I've learned to physically measure myself in a way that's going to take a lot of the guesswork and inaccuracy out of bra shopping because I finally understand where the band-size measurement is supposed to land on my ribcage. It also resulted in measurements that make me feel better about my body size.
I'm wondering if anyone else was measuring their band-size too high on their chest since an inch or two or three extra might have had a similar psychological impact.
I'm wondering if anyone else was measuring their band-size too high on their chest since an inch or two or three extra might have had a similar psychological impact.
Title: Re: Bra size - I think I've been measuring wrong (again)
Post by: BlonT on February 22, 2015, 05:46:15 AM
Post by: BlonT on February 22, 2015, 05:46:15 AM
Yes bra size is a can of worms :D No suprise as we have various forms of ribcase and breasts.
The calculator at : http://www.brasizecalculator.tk/ : gives a reasonable picture of the basics,
but make and model of a bra has an effect on the fit. The width of the center gore moves the center of the cups.
So if your breast are more on the outside you need to look for a wider gore.For that is it nice to try a front closure
bra. I found it great to find a fitting cup size.
The calculator at : http://www.brasizecalculator.tk/ : gives a reasonable picture of the basics,
but make and model of a bra has an effect on the fit. The width of the center gore moves the center of the cups.
So if your breast are more on the outside you need to look for a wider gore.For that is it nice to try a front closure
bra. I found it great to find a fitting cup size.
Title: Re: Bra size - I think I've been measuring wrong (again)
Post by: Violet Bloom on February 22, 2015, 09:51:14 AM
Post by: Violet Bloom on February 22, 2015, 09:51:14 AM
Quote from: BlonT on February 22, 2015, 05:46:15 AM
Yes bra size is a can of worms :D No suprise as we have various forms of ribcase and breasts.
The calculator at : http://www.brasizecalculator.tk/ : gives a reasonable picture of the basics,
but make and model of a bra has an effect on the fit. The width of the center gore moves the center of the cups.
So if your breast are more on the outside you need to look for a wider gore.For that is it nice to try a front closure
bra. I found it great to find a fitting cup size.
I LOVE front closure! It's easier to get into and out of and it does help draw the breasts inward without much encouragement or fiddling when putting it on. The only problem I've found is that some front-closure hook-and-loop designs tug at the loop fabric oddly and skew the hook. The shorter the height of the hook and loops, the better in avoiding this problem. My favourite bra has a two-part metal clasp that is very small and it doesn't suffer from any of the problems with the hook and loop design. Interestingly, I have another bra with a similar two-part plastic clasp, but the clasp is so tall that it distorts the fabric worse than any other one when under tension. The other potential downside of the front-clasp design is lack of adjustability.
I'm working on an ideas for creative use of a little extra thread binding to eliminate the problem with the loop fabric on those designs.
Title: Re: Bra size - I think I've been measuring wrong (again)
Post by: ImagineKate on February 22, 2015, 11:59:37 AM
Post by: ImagineKate on February 22, 2015, 11:59:37 AM
Yeah so there is a lot of variation.
Vassarette from Amazon fits me perfectly. 36A is loose in the band but 34B fits just fine.
The cheap basics $3 bras from walmart, ugh. Don't fit properly at all. Meanwhile large no boundaries "best bra ever" junior's bras? They fit nicely.
In general, underwire bras have not been kind to me. I don't like them.
I will buy a few good ones but that's not really my priority right now. Actually I have to be cautious with clothes as my body is changing very rapidly.
The calculators seem to be all over the place. I have stopped relying on them. I want a pro fitting one day soon. However I will wait for HRT to work a bit. I'm sure my boobs aint done yet, lol.
Vassarette from Amazon fits me perfectly. 36A is loose in the band but 34B fits just fine.
The cheap basics $3 bras from walmart, ugh. Don't fit properly at all. Meanwhile large no boundaries "best bra ever" junior's bras? They fit nicely.
In general, underwire bras have not been kind to me. I don't like them.
I will buy a few good ones but that's not really my priority right now. Actually I have to be cautious with clothes as my body is changing very rapidly.
The calculators seem to be all over the place. I have stopped relying on them. I want a pro fitting one day soon. However I will wait for HRT to work a bit. I'm sure my boobs aint done yet, lol.
Title: Re: Bra size - I think I've been measuring wrong (again)
Post by: Violet Bloom on February 22, 2015, 12:04:51 PM
Post by: Violet Bloom on February 22, 2015, 12:04:51 PM
Quote from: Lady_Oracle on February 20, 2015, 06:34:30 PM
Be on the look out for my bra sizing thread I'm gonna make soon. I've been researching the crap out of bra sizing for awhile now and there's so much info on how to find the right fit.
I eagerly await the fruits of your labors!
This morning I've been thinking a lot about what size I am and why one or another of the various bras I have lying around fit or not. I've ended up with many that aren't right because I wasn't exactly picky about how I got hold of them earlier on - I just felt so lucky to own any at all and at the time had no boobs yet anyway. I just compared everything I have to sort out the differences. I own all of the following:
- two x 34B
- two x 34C
- two x 36B
- one 38A
The only ones that fit well are the 34C's. This seems to be purely a fluke because they're the only ones with a wide-enough cup spacing and corresponding cup width. The 34Bs were bordering on okay but I seem to be pushing the upper-limit of the cup volume. (Yay!)
This has me wondering if certain brands cater to my specific needs more consistently than others. The one that fits best is H&M brand and the next best is missing the tag. I'm not exactly sure how old they are as both were given to me second-hand. The H&M one is about as correct and comfortable as I think I could ever expect to find, which is amazing considering it has under-wire cups. I could be very sad if I out-grow it because it could be quite difficult to duplicate. I'm so happy with the size and how it makes me look I almost don't want more development! Unfortunately this bra doesn't have removable padding so it can't 'grow' along with me. There's a little room to spare before I get into spillage territory. (Hah, I never thought I'd have to be concerned about spillage!)
Title: Re: Bra size - I think I've been measuring wrong (again)
Post by: mrs izzy on February 22, 2015, 12:12:08 PM
Post by: mrs izzy on February 22, 2015, 12:12:08 PM
You still heading over this way soon?
We can go out and get you professionally measured if you wish.
Do a girls day out....
Hugs
We can go out and get you professionally measured if you wish.
Do a girls day out....
Hugs
Title: Re: Bra size - I think I've been measuring wrong (again)
Post by: Violet Bloom on February 22, 2015, 02:18:33 PM
Post by: Violet Bloom on February 22, 2015, 02:18:33 PM
Quote from: mrs izzy on February 22, 2015, 12:12:08 PM
You still heading over this way soon?
We can go out and get you professionally measured if you wish.
Do a girls day out....
Hugs
That sounds nice. We'll see what happens - I'm still sorting out my travel plans around my FFS date. If I have enough time ahead of the surgery that would probably be the best time. It might help settle my nerves a little.
Title: Re: Bra size - I think I've been measuring wrong (again)
Post by: CaptFido87 on February 22, 2015, 02:25:33 PM
Post by: CaptFido87 on February 22, 2015, 02:25:33 PM
Quote from: Lady_Oracle on February 20, 2015, 06:34:30 PM
Be on the look out for my bra sizing thread I'm gonna make soon. I've been researching the crap out of bra sizing for awhile now and there's so much info on how to find the right fit.
Wow awesome. I could use a forum dedicated to that. Would be so helpful.
Right now my current problem is trying to find a bra that fits, seeing as I'm still a guy at the moment and measuring and figuring out everything is difficult. I can see that I have some fatty breasts at the moment so I thought my bra would fit it like a normal breast. Boy was I wrong. Not even close and they don't hold their shape like normal breasts do. So I'm back to the drawing board. I've been taking measurements everyday as a part of my weight loss spreadsheet. Though it's hard to come out with great or excellent results. If I can get professionally measured, I'm sure I would have a better understanding myself.
I'm sure it's way easier when you actually have something to work with.
Title: Re: Bra size - I think I've been measuring wrong (again)
Post by: Violet Bloom on February 22, 2015, 03:29:23 PM
Post by: Violet Bloom on February 22, 2015, 03:29:23 PM
Quote from: CaptFido87 on February 22, 2015, 02:25:33 PM
Wow awesome. I could use a forum dedicated to that. Would be so helpful.
Right now my current problem is trying to find a bra that fits, seeing as I'm still a guy at the moment and measuring and figuring out everything is difficult. I can see that I have some fatty breasts at the moment so I thought my bra would fit it like a normal breast. Boy was I wrong. Not even close and they don't hold their shape like normal breasts do. So I'm back to the drawing board. I've been taking measurements everyday as a part of my weight loss spreadsheet. Though it's hard to come out with great or excellent results. If I can get professionally measured, I'm sure I would have a better understanding myself.
I'm sure it's way easier when you actually have something to work with.
When I started I was ribs-flat and almost zero body fat - different circumstances, even less to go by. I know your pain. It was a hell of a thing learning the ropes of bras at the beginning. Thankfully I feel like I'm getting the hang of it just in time because I'm crossing beyond the point right now where I've gotta have support.
Title: Re: Bra size - I think I've been measuring wrong (again)
Post by: ImagineKate on February 24, 2015, 08:02:31 AM
Post by: ImagineKate on February 24, 2015, 08:02:31 AM
For me it isn't really support as much as it is sensitivity. Going without one tickles (the best word I could use) me all day. It's honestly very distracting. Containing them so they don't brush up against my clothes is the goal and why I primarily wear padded bras.