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Who was the first person you kissed and what were the circumstances?

I'm not talking about kissing your aunt or cousin either. Who was the first non-relative girl or boy you kissed on the lips.

I am wondering this because it was in Dear Abby today: A mother was distressed because her son had his first kiss and it was with another boy.

So I will go first. When my very first kiss occurred there was a boy and two girls present and we kissed each other. So I sort of had my first kiss with a boy, although I do not remember if I kissed the boy first or one of the girls first.

I also don't remember exactly how old I was but it was before junior high school I know for sure. It was at the later grade school level.

I remember it was snowing out and we were in the back yard of one of the girls and we were playing in the snow -- throwing snowballs and building a snowman, that sort of thing. What started the kissing I also don't remember but I kissed the girls, I kissed the boy, the girls kissed the boy, the girls kissed each other. I don't think I felt the girls kissing was hot back then like I would do now!

I went on to kiss other boys and also girls as well. And I went on to give lots of oral pleasure to both too.

But what were the circumstances of your first kiss?

i remember my first (and only lol) kiss, but i kinda really regret it too, and sorta feel embarrassed about it now, but was good at the time. i was 18 and drunk, and kissed a girl who was also drunk, she said was that the best i had, so i sorta kissed again but alot more into it lol, and she seemed happier with that.

i hate it though as i really wanted a first kiss that was more romantic or more, well less drunk and more feelings of love behind it. so i sorta count it and sorta discount it as my first kiss as i really want a passionate love kiss. lol

I kissed the girl down the street when I was 6 and she was 7.   We also got naked and fooled around.  I guess I needed to see what I was missing?

She joined a convent, but I heard that she later left and had a family.  I wonder if she heard about me through the grapevine...

I had small smacks with my childhood "girlfriend" but the first real kiss (with tongue) was my first wife, and she initiated it.

My first kiss that I can remember was with my friend in middle school, and that was because I begged her to kiss me, so she gave me a peck on the lips just to shut me up.

I am hoping that my first *real* kiss will be with my future wife on my wedding day.

My most recent ex. I was 15 at the time. And it's nothing but regret.

It was kindergarden..her name was Amanda..they forced us to do it on the bus..after that it was 6th grade...boy was I bad at it...

My first real kiss was when I was 18 with the gal that became my wife 3 1/2 years later.  We will celebrate our 50th anniversary tomorrow.

It was with a girl that I later dated (now my ex). We were just hanging out in her uni room as usual and we never had the courage to kiss each other. Then out of the blue while we were jokingly argueing with each other she kissed me. I remember saying 'what the hell was that' afterwards. She still hasn't forgiven me for saying that  :D

My first kiss was in kindergarten with a boy I used to play with. Though my first real kiss was when I was 16 with a girl while we were both quite drunk.

I was 13. There was a boy in my class that I REALLY liked and I used to babysit for his Dad on occasion.

It was fall, it was late in the evening, the young kids were in bed, and he and I were laying on the living room carpet listening to the radio. "Deep Purple" (by Nino Temple and April Stevens) came on the radio. He gave me a LONG look, then took me in his arms and kissed me. Not a 'peck' but a long passionate kiss. OMFG! I had never experienced feelings like that before.

Unfortunately is was the early 1960s and he was 'straight' so it never went any further than that first kiss  :( :( :(  It is a memory I will never forget!

Quote from: mac1 on March 11, 2015, 07:41:40 AM
My first real kiss was when I was 18 with the gal that became my wife 3 1/2 years later.  We will celebrate our 50th anniversary tomorrow.

Sweet! Congratulations, Mac!

My first kiss was a week after last Christmas. It was a first date with my current boyfriend, Cohen, who is also a transman.

I was 15, he was 18. We spent the day shopping, buying milkshakes, sat in McDonalds (neither of us have much money) and then we went to the cinema to see Dumb & Dumber Too.

*Spoiler Alert* We spent the whole movie cuddling, and when we finally kissed it was the moment right before the part of the film with the, uhh, 'incident with the older woman in a care home'. If you don't know what I mean, you don't want to :)

It was an interesting moment and funny, but it broke the tension and we were both totally relaxed.

my first kiss was at 7 with a girl that lived across from my uncle and when they decided to
look for me they found us behind the door with our faces locked lol, after that it was probably
around age 14 or so with a girl at school

Quote from: StrykerXIII on March 10, 2015, 09:18:06 PM
My most recent ex. I was 15 at the time. And it's nothing but regret. I wish I'd never met that filthy harlot.

It's one thing to be less than amicable with an ex, but slut-shaming and misogyny are not cool.

Quote from: MugwortPsychonaut on March 11, 2015, 12:53:12 PM
It's one thing to be less than amicable with an ex, but slut-shaming and misogyny are not cool.

You're right. I apologize. I'll pull the post.

Quote from: StrykerXIII on March 11, 2015, 12:55:50 PM
You're right. I apologize. I'll pull the post.

A rad person is somebody who can honestly recognize their mistakes and learn from them. You're awesome. Now if I could stop being so damn stubborn...

It was 4th or 5th grade and Phyllis ran me down on the bus and kissed me. She was a friend of my little sister and I and lived across the cornfield from us in Georgia.

Quote from: marsh monster on March 11, 2015, 04:53:40 PM
It was 4th or 5th grade and Phyllis ran me down on the bus and kissed me. She was a friend of my little sister and I and lived across the cornfield from us in Georgia.

Mine was very similar.  A girl named Terry, from the Chippewa Tribe in Michigan, pinned me against the bleachers in 4th grade and laid a liplock on me.  I friended her on FB a couple years ago. LOL

Quote from: ImagineKate on March 10, 2015, 08:20:52 PM
I had small smacks with my childhood "girlfriend" but the first real kiss (with tongue) was my first wife, and she initiated it.

And I was 22 when that happened.