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Title: New to this
Post by: Xxula on March 10, 2015, 05:44:02 PM
Post by: Xxula on March 10, 2015, 05:44:02 PM
Hello,
I have been visiting this site for answers for a while, but decided to join just a few days ago. I have actually been struggling my entire life with "urges" and these have increased in the last 10 years. I am not yet out but I think I want to go in that direction. I am seeing a therapist about the possibility of transitioning to female. I frightens me but I need to find out so that those who are close to me do not feel it is their fault. I dress female under my clothes and no one at work knows. My spouse knows a little about my past, but the extent of my leanings have really increased. I am seeing the therapist to find out if any of this is not real and to tell those I am close to in the most diplomatic way possible. After that, I need to take further steps. Perhaps I would take hormones and then further permanent hair removal and the rest of the steps which I can only imagine. I suppose what this is all about is to be able to express what I feel and know on the inside to the world. In any case I look forward to exploring more of this site and thanks in advance for any of your input.
Love and Blessings
I have been visiting this site for answers for a while, but decided to join just a few days ago. I have actually been struggling my entire life with "urges" and these have increased in the last 10 years. I am not yet out but I think I want to go in that direction. I am seeing a therapist about the possibility of transitioning to female. I frightens me but I need to find out so that those who are close to me do not feel it is their fault. I dress female under my clothes and no one at work knows. My spouse knows a little about my past, but the extent of my leanings have really increased. I am seeing the therapist to find out if any of this is not real and to tell those I am close to in the most diplomatic way possible. After that, I need to take further steps. Perhaps I would take hormones and then further permanent hair removal and the rest of the steps which I can only imagine. I suppose what this is all about is to be able to express what I feel and know on the inside to the world. In any case I look forward to exploring more of this site and thanks in advance for any of your input.
Love and Blessings
Title: Re: New to this
Post by: Jill F on March 10, 2015, 05:47:18 PM
Post by: Jill F on March 10, 2015, 05:47:18 PM
Hi Xxula,
Welcome to Susan's Place and congratulations for finding us.
Here's some quick links to help you along
Please be sure to review
Hugs,
~Jill
Welcome to Susan's Place and congratulations for finding us.
Here's some quick links to help you along
Please be sure to review
- Site Terms of Service and rules to live by (https://www.susans.org/forums/index.php/topic,2.0.html)
- Standard Terms and Definitions (https://www.susans.org/forums/index.php/topic,54369.0.html)
- Post Ranks ( including when you can upload an avatar) (https://www.susans.org/forums/index.php/topic,114.0.html.)
- Reputation rules (https://www.susans.org/forums/index.php/topic,18960.0.html)
- Photo, avatars, and signature images policy (https://www.susans.org/forums/index.php/topic,59974.msg383866.html#msg383866)
Hugs,
~Jill
Title: Re: New to this
Post by: Devlyn on March 10, 2015, 05:55:45 PM
Post by: Devlyn on March 10, 2015, 05:55:45 PM
Hi Xxula, welcome to Susan's Place! I'm from Boston. Job #1 is going to be keeping your spouse in the loop with open, honest communication. Get busy posting and I'll see you around the site!
Hugs, Devlyn
Hugs, Devlyn
Title: Re: New to this
Post by: V M on March 10, 2015, 06:16:04 PM
Post by: V M on March 10, 2015, 06:16:04 PM
Hi Xxula :icon_wave:
Welcome to Susan's :) Glad to have you here, join on in the fun
Hugs
V M
Welcome to Susan's :) Glad to have you here, join on in the fun
Hugs
V M