Community Conversation => Transsexual talk => Male to female transsexual talk (MTF) => Topic started by: Rudy King on March 24, 2015, 02:53:58 AM Return to Full Version
Title: I think it's that time to say............
Post by: Rudy King on March 24, 2015, 02:53:58 AM
Post by: Rudy King on March 24, 2015, 02:53:58 AM
This has been a long time coming. I've tried really hard to fit in with the crowd here, but it's just not working. It's has nothing to do with anyone here, it's just the support I need, I will never truly find, because what I have and what I'm going through is extremely rare. And for me, I'm detransitioning from male to female.
Lastly, I just wanted to give my two cents on the whole using the word transgender instead of transsexual thing.
Think of the term Transgender as the Electromagnetic Spectrum. For example, you have colors, and radio frequencies. Each belong in the same spectrum, but each is so uniquely different. Colors don't act like radio frequencies, and visa-versa. And yet we don't say things like, "oh, red is electromagnetic!".
The same is true with Transgender. for example, Drag queens, and Transsexuals. Both fall under the same spectrum, but each is uniquely different.
Yes, I know these "labels" can limit you, but if you embrace them and make them your own, and teach people the difference, they can set you free.
For me, I am a proud, nerdy, geeky, dorky, Albino, hermaphrodite.
Anyways, I wish nothing but the best for everyone!
So, Good-bye!!!
Lastly, I just wanted to give my two cents on the whole using the word transgender instead of transsexual thing.
Think of the term Transgender as the Electromagnetic Spectrum. For example, you have colors, and radio frequencies. Each belong in the same spectrum, but each is so uniquely different. Colors don't act like radio frequencies, and visa-versa. And yet we don't say things like, "oh, red is electromagnetic!".
The same is true with Transgender. for example, Drag queens, and Transsexuals. Both fall under the same spectrum, but each is uniquely different.
Yes, I know these "labels" can limit you, but if you embrace them and make them your own, and teach people the difference, they can set you free.
For me, I am a proud, nerdy, geeky, dorky, Albino, hermaphrodite.
Anyways, I wish nothing but the best for everyone!
So, Good-bye!!!
Title: Re: I think it's that time to say............
Post by: Cindy on March 24, 2015, 03:00:25 AM
Post by: Cindy on March 24, 2015, 03:00:25 AM
Hugs Darling.
Safe journey. maybe keep your account open and pop in every now and again?
Cindy
Safe journey. maybe keep your account open and pop in every now and again?
Cindy
Title: Re: I think it's that time to say............
Post by: Dee Marshall on March 24, 2015, 06:43:42 AM
Post by: Dee Marshall on March 24, 2015, 06:43:42 AM
Bye, Rudy! We'll miss you.
Title: Re: I think it's that time to say............
Post by: Jen72 on March 24, 2015, 07:39:05 AM
Post by: Jen72 on March 24, 2015, 07:39:05 AM
You shall be missed but wish you well and hope you find some peace sooner then later:) Your perspective is a different for sure but in ways not all that different either. I will miss that and like Cindy said keep it open maybe just take a peek after some time:)
Title: I think it's that time to say............
Post by: ImagineKate on March 24, 2015, 07:48:31 AM
Post by: ImagineKate on March 24, 2015, 07:48:31 AM
Hi Rudy, if I understand it, you're a ham radio op too? So best 73 and see you down the log I suppose :)
Title: Re: I think it's that time to say............
Post by: Rudy King on March 24, 2015, 12:46:49 PM
Post by: Rudy King on March 24, 2015, 12:46:49 PM
I'll keep my account open, and check in froM time to time, but I won't be posting in here very often.
I've already had cut down on my posts, because my transition is atypical, even for someone who is intersex. Plus, mine mirrors a teen's transition rather than an adult's.
Anyways, thanks everyone!
I've already had cut down on my posts, because my transition is atypical, even for someone who is intersex. Plus, mine mirrors a teen's transition rather than an adult's.
Anyways, thanks everyone!
Title: Re: I think it's that time to say............
Post by: Mariah on March 24, 2015, 01:03:14 PM
Post by: Mariah on March 24, 2015, 01:03:14 PM
Rudy we will still be here when you do come back. I'm glad to hear your at least keeping your account open. Good luck and hugs
Mariah
Mariah