Susan's Place Transgender Resources

My name is Melissa (Missy) for short, and for a better part of my life was a part time trans. At work I was the feminine gay guy. And at home and weekends I was Happy, Caring, Loving Missy. Then I met this bisexual girl 27 years younger than me, who excepted me for just me.  Encourage me to live 24/7. We had our trouble in years together till she left and moved to Idaho married a guy she barely knew and got pregnant. Then called me in tears, we'll she left him and returned home. I was now in a undetermined point of knowing what identity I was, but with a child on the way and her asking to pick an gender identity.  Uneasy, I picked a male that matched the body, but never giving up the feminine side.  We married and over the next four years I suffered with making the wrong dession. She at points of me expressing that I couldn't stand being a fake male, she said you can't change because of our four year old son wouldn't understand. I  wanted Missy so bad I was to the point I had divorce paperwork to file. And one night out of the sky blue she said I want Missy  back all of her. I was so confused, we sat up all night talking and over the next few weeks   we have slowly transitioned Missy and our son says I have a daddy mommy well we do see a therapist to help with the transition. So Missy is back happy loving and caring, my marriage back on track as my wife says in freedom I love Missy and we are a loving lesbian couple. You do like it then we don't need you.  I'm the luckiest girl alive. [emoji7]

Hi Missy, Welcome to Susans. I'm glad things are working out now between you and your spouse. I look forward to seeing you around the site. Hugs
Mariah

Hi Missy,

Welcome to Susan's Place and congratulations for finding us. 

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Hugs,
~Jill

Hi Missy  :icon_wave:

Welcome to Susan's  :)  Glad to have you here, join on in the fun

Hugs

V M

Hi Missy, welcome to Susan's Place! I'm from Boston. Get busy posting and I'll see you around the site!

Hugs, Devlyn