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Title: "You spoke like a man during your sleep" (CLOCKED during sleep)
Post by: Evolving Beauty on April 07, 2015, 02:03:56 AM
Post by: Evolving Beauty on April 07, 2015, 02:03:56 AM
My man who still doesn't know what I am told me that during my sleep I talk like a man. :o I have no control, and don't even remember what I do/say in my sleep. I kept denying but I am soon going to thrash the truth to him anyways. I don't even know how to deal with this, maybe voice surgery would be the last resort now. This is a problem with somniloquist girls.
Were you ever clocked during your sleep? :o
Were you ever clocked during your sleep? :o
Title: Re: "You spoke like a man during your sleep" (CLOCKED during sleep)
Post by: Ms Grace on April 07, 2015, 02:24:33 AM
Post by: Ms Grace on April 07, 2015, 02:24:33 AM
That's a novel way to unintentionally out yourself I suppose...
Title: Re: "You spoke like a man during your sleep" (CLOCKED during sleep)
Post by: Cindy on April 07, 2015, 03:49:04 AM
Post by: Cindy on April 07, 2015, 03:49:04 AM
What a strange thing!
Title: Re: "You spoke like a man during your sleep" (CLOCKED during sleep)
Post by: suzifrommd on April 07, 2015, 06:49:42 AM
Post by: suzifrommd on April 07, 2015, 06:49:42 AM
One more reason why it's so much better to be open with one's intimate partner.
Title: Re: "You spoke like a man during your sleep" (CLOCKED during sleep)
Post by: Cindy on April 07, 2015, 07:05:55 AM
Post by: Cindy on April 07, 2015, 07:05:55 AM
And snore in a womanly manner?
Title: Re: "You spoke like a man during your sleep" (CLOCKED during sleep)
Post by: kwala on April 07, 2015, 10:21:56 AM
Post by: kwala on April 07, 2015, 10:21:56 AM
Quote from: Evolving Beauty on April 07, 2015, 02:03:56 AMIn all seriousness, if you are happy with your trained voice I don't think you should get surgery just because of a few involuntary moments during your sleep. I think it would be best to be honest, or just keep blowing it off as nothing until you are ready to have that conversation. :)
My man who still doesn't know what I am told me that during my sleep I talk like a man. :o I have no control, and don't even remember what I do/say in my sleep. I kept denying but I am soon going to thrash the truth to him anyways. I don't even know how to deal with this, maybe voice surgery would be the last resort now. This is a problem with somniloquist girls.
Were you ever clocked during your sleep? :o
Title: Re: "You spoke like a man during your sleep" (CLOCKED during sleep)
Post by: ImagineKate on April 07, 2015, 11:08:31 AM
Post by: ImagineKate on April 07, 2015, 11:08:31 AM
Quote from: suzifrommd on April 07, 2015, 06:49:42 AM
One more reason why it's so much better to be open with one's intimate partner.
Yep!!!
Title: Re: "You spoke like a man during your sleep" (CLOCKED during sleep)
Post by: Jill F on April 07, 2015, 01:16:49 PM
Post by: Jill F on April 07, 2015, 01:16:49 PM
Quote from: Cindy on April 07, 2015, 07:05:55 AM
And snore in a womanly manner?
Challenge accepted!
Now if I could only get my cis wife to do that...
Title: Re: "You spoke like a man during your sleep" (CLOCKED during sleep)
Post by: Laura_7 on April 07, 2015, 01:19:00 PM
Post by: Laura_7 on April 07, 2015, 01:19:00 PM
Its said one reason of talking might be stress, another one meds...
have you thought of reducing stress and maybe relaxation/meditation exercises ?
They also say no coffee/alcohol a few hrs before sleep...
and you might imagine a pic of yourself as a female before falling asleep...
is it often that you talk or only from time to time ? Thinking of your partner in general...
and separate from your decision to tell...
hugs
have you thought of reducing stress and maybe relaxation/meditation exercises ?
They also say no coffee/alcohol a few hrs before sleep...
and you might imagine a pic of yourself as a female before falling asleep...
is it often that you talk or only from time to time ? Thinking of your partner in general...
and separate from your decision to tell...
hugs
Title: Re: "You spoke like a man during your sleep" (CLOCKED during sleep)
Post by: Assoluta on April 07, 2015, 03:33:27 PM
Post by: Assoluta on April 07, 2015, 03:33:27 PM
How long have you been using your female voice? Since it's been 8 years for me, apparently my voice is unchanged during sleep, because it's my "default" way of speaking - I've known this to be the case for other t-women too. In any case, this may be the ideal excuse to come out to your partner!
Title: Re: "You spoke like a man during your sleep" (CLOCKED during sleep)
Post by: Promethea on July 01, 2015, 09:04:45 PM
Post by: Promethea on July 01, 2015, 09:04:45 PM
I had the same happen to me, my play partner woke me up saying I almost sounded like I was trans. And here I thought she would have been tipped off by the penis. She wasn't very smart...
Nah, I'm kidding, obviously, I'm still not ready to date... Maybe now...
But anyway, I came to add to the choir asking you to be honest, in part for your own safety! Specially since you date men, you know how aggressive they can get when, by their logic, we trick them into becoming gay...
It's been a while since you posted this. Did you tell him? How did it go?
Nah, I'm kidding, obviously, I'm still not ready to date... Maybe now...
But anyway, I came to add to the choir asking you to be honest, in part for your own safety! Specially since you date men, you know how aggressive they can get when, by their logic, we trick them into becoming gay...
It's been a while since you posted this. Did you tell him? How did it go?
Title: Re: "You spoke like a man during your sleep" (CLOCKED during sleep)
Post by: BenKenobi on July 01, 2015, 09:16:05 PM
Post by: BenKenobi on July 01, 2015, 09:16:05 PM
Well you could say that the voice naturally deepens in sleep since that is true. Or a sore throat.
Alternatively you could pull his leg and say you were temporarily possessed by satan
Alternatively you could pull his leg and say you were temporarily possessed by satan
Title: Re: "You spoke like a man during your sleep" (CLOCKED during sleep)
Post by: Promethea on July 03, 2015, 12:10:29 AM
Post by: Promethea on July 03, 2015, 12:10:29 AM
Quote from: BenKenobi on July 01, 2015, 09:16:05 PM
Alternatively you could pull his leg and say you were temporarily possessed by satan
In all seriousness, when considering vocal surgery in the future, one of the reasons AGAINST it is being able to do this:
https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=_8bLjdcPTn4
With people who don't know I'm trans, of course. >:-)