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OMG OMG OMG I can't believe it!  :o My bf who is a strict straight guy accepted me not only as trans but my obscure past in prostitution.  :o It's the 2nd and rare time a guy accepted me trans in my entire life and worse as an ex-escort.  :o The rest I've thrashed out in the past specially when I was novice but they always found a way to escape and reject me.

I'M A PARANOID STEALTH AND GENERALLY NEVER NEVER NEVER SAY but this time I got fed up as this guy was perfect for me. I GOT EXHAUSTED FOR HIDING AND FEELING 'HEAVY' INSIDE FOR NOT TELLING THE TRUTH. In my head I always cheat at the back of my boyfriends cos I always had the mentality that if one day they come to know I am trans + escort in the past, they'd reject me anyways so what's the use being honest and fidel/sincere. Let's just slut around cos he'd dump me anyways, BUT THIS ONE ACCEPTED ME WITH ALL MY FLAWS, INCREDIBLE!  :o

This one told me "I knew you as a woman, to me you are and will always be a woman, your past is your past and you fixed it(SRS) and I understand your past hardship too as trans people have no other remedy in this country(prostitution). Just take it as a nightmare that is now over, I'm now in your life and you need to try to make an effort for me with your other problem(slutting)."

I just need to work hard to retain my vices of infidelity so as not to f.. up this precious relationship.  ::)

Wow, that's really great! It's wonderful when someone can accept all parts of you and love you exactly as you are. I'm glad that you found that. :) He sounds awesome.

Outstanding! This is great to hear.

Your boyfriends sounds like he's a keeper.  Don't let him get away from you because his kind are soooo rare.

congrats

Quote from: Lady Smith on April 10, 2015, 11:13:01 PM
Your boyfriends sounds like he's a keeper.  Don't let him get away from you because his kind are soooo rare.

omg that word keeper is the exact thing my friend from USA told me.

Thanks all!  :laugh:

You rock girl!

*well done*, Evo. I know this was a big challenge.

Now you get to enjoy a new love with nothing bugging you in the back of your mind ...

Really happy for you x

Congrats, I agree you definitly have a keeper on your hands
Mariah

Congrats! See, disclosure is not bad at all.

Told you so  ;)

Good luck and enjoy each other's company. Ain't life grand?

Congratulations, I am very happy for you.

Congratulations on meeting a guy like this, completely straight guy accepting acceptng a woman with a trans history, they do exist, I know, because I married such a guy.

Quote from: Evolving Beauty on April 10, 2015, 10:25:08 PM

This one told me "I knew you as a woman, to me you are and will always be a woman, your past is your past and you fixed it(SRS)

That's what my husband, more or less, said to me, hope it works out, keep us updated.

This is excellent news. I've been trying to tell you that this can happen in several threads, but naturally you had to find for yourself.

I'm glad it went ok, and congratulations on finding the courage to put it to the test.

awesome...ya I had a straight guy who wasn't a "->-bleeped-<-"  or ever really interested in transsexuals as a boyfriend for awhile and im pre op so ya not too supprised

Wow. You are so lucky. Congratulations :D