Community Conversation => Intersex talk => Topic started by: Rudy King on May 02, 2015, 04:42:33 PM Return to Full Version
Title: Um, so I think I might have had corrective surgery.
Post by: Rudy King on May 02, 2015, 04:42:33 PM
Post by: Rudy King on May 02, 2015, 04:42:33 PM
So, after I started transitioning, I've been taking pictures downstairs to make sure everything is OK. Well, as I've posted before, my eyes are slowly getting better.
So the other day, I was going through my pictures, and found one that looked odd. About an each from my anus, I noticed dots on each side of the bug tuby thing. And they line up on each side.
Needless to say I'm a bit freaked out. However, after I told my Mom, she just said, "I keep telling you to call CU.". It's like I just told you something was done to me, and you just tell me to call CU!?!? She's acting very coy. My parents claim they had no idea I was born Intersex.
So, yeah IDK.
So the other day, I was going through my pictures, and found one that looked odd. About an each from my anus, I noticed dots on each side of the bug tuby thing. And they line up on each side.
Needless to say I'm a bit freaked out. However, after I told my Mom, she just said, "I keep telling you to call CU.". It's like I just told you something was done to me, and you just tell me to call CU!?!? She's acting very coy. My parents claim they had no idea I was born Intersex.
So, yeah IDK.
Title: Re: Um, so I think I might have had corrective surgery.
Post by: Mariah on May 02, 2015, 08:52:27 PM
Post by: Mariah on May 02, 2015, 08:52:27 PM
Rudy, as much as we love to believe that everything done to a child is told to the parents it's often not the case and even when they do consult the child's parents sometimes they only consult the father. So there is a good chance that she knows nothing. It's an unfortunate truth and I wish they consulted the children and when not possible the parents, but alas they didn't always do that. Hugs
Mariah
Mariah