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Title: finally got my ears pierced
Post by: Sabrina on May 05, 2015, 08:33:23 AM
This past Saturday, I got my ears pierced for the first time. I went to Claire's and the lady did an excellent job. It makes me look more lady like and I feel much better :)
Title: Re: finally got my ears pierced
Post by: Cindy on May 05, 2015, 08:38:18 AM
Congrats! Good girl. Remember to wash your hands carefully before thinking about touching them, and then don't anyway

Mum speaking!    :angel:
Title: Re: finally got my ears pierced
Post by: katrinaw on May 05, 2015, 08:43:35 AM
Yay nice one Sabrina  :-* enjoy all the lovely jewellery

L Katy
Title: Re: finally got my ears pierced
Post by: Kellam on May 05, 2015, 08:45:27 AM
That's wonderful, congratulations! I'm still trying to buck up the courage to get mine done.
Title: Re: finally got my ears pierced
Post by: Cindy on May 05, 2015, 08:50:18 AM
Quote from: Kellam on May 05, 2015, 08:45:27 AM
That's wonderful, congratulations! I'm still trying to buck up the courage to get mine done.

I was so frightened to get mine done! It is a right of passage! And so many ear rings become available!

I love ear rings!
Title: Re: finally got my ears pierced
Post by: Mariah on May 05, 2015, 09:02:26 AM
Congrats Sabrina, Welcome to the club. Definitely don't touch them but if you have to please wash hands first. Sounds like we have the same last in places to get our ears pierced. Hugs
Mariah
Title: Re: finally got my ears pierced
Post by: Violet Bloom on May 05, 2015, 09:30:19 AM
  I will get this done some time within the next five weeks after I'm healed well-enough from my FFS next week.  It will be part of my going full-time and also to help mark the occasion.  I finally feel like I'll have 'permission' to do so.  There's no way I ever could have done this as a male because it would have raised a major red flag to others, particularly because so many people believed I was closet-gay.  Now that the real truth will be out I won't have to deal with it leading to such awkward questions.
Title: Re: finally got my ears pierced
Post by: DanaDane on May 05, 2015, 09:36:28 AM
Got mine pierced about 3 months ago and was able to go "stealth" during the 6 weeks healing period because I had them pierced with glass retainers.

Since I have been able to swap them in and out I have been such a happy girl.  I love the options. 
Title: Re: finally got my ears pierced
Post by: Kellam on May 05, 2015, 09:42:26 AM
Quote from: Cindy on May 05, 2015, 08:50:18 AM
I was so frightened to get mine done! It is a right of passage! And so many ear rings become available!

I love ear rings!

It is indeed a right of passage and it is one I have looked forward to for a very long time. I was always jealous of my straight male friends as they all have one ear pierced. I always knew I couldn't do just one and if I did both it would set me off inexorably toward transition. I'm inspired enough by this thread that I may just manage to make it happen this week. I was trying to talk myself into it anyway.
Title: Re: finally got my ears pierced
Post by: DanaDane on May 05, 2015, 10:56:37 AM
When people who don't know that I am transitioning ask about my earrings I tell them that I went with two because I believe in the laws of symmetry.
Title: Re: finally got my ears pierced
Post by: Violet Bloom on May 05, 2015, 11:08:00 AM
Quote from: DanaDane on May 05, 2015, 10:56:37 AM
When people who don't know that I am transitioning ask about my earrings I tell them that I went with two because I believe in the laws of symmetry.

  Ha, that sounds exactly like something I'd say!
Title: Re: finally got my ears pierced
Post by: iKate on May 05, 2015, 01:29:43 PM
Quote from: DanaDane on May 05, 2015, 09:36:28 AM
Got mine pierced about 3 months ago and was able to go "stealth" during the 6 weeks healing period because I had them pierced with glass retainers.

Since I have been able to swap them in and out I have been such a happy girl.  I love the options.

Good idea. Since I'm not out at work yet I am wondering how to get them pierced without any suspicion. People are already asking questions.
Title: Re: finally got my ears pierced
Post by: noleen111 on May 05, 2015, 03:03:19 PM
Congrats...

It is like a right of passage and its something easy to have done, it virtually painless.. and with the right pair of earrings you can look more female. Personally i love wearing hooped earrings 

I now have 3 sets of holes in each ear and my right cartilage is done too... My navel is pierced as well and I have a small stud in my nose.
Title: Re: finally got my ears pierced
Post by: islandgirl on May 05, 2015, 03:43:43 PM
Congrats! I got mine done just over 4 months ago and am so happy that I finally was able to get them. I have always wanted to have them but never had the courage before to do it. Mine are very simple steel studs. At 61, not something that is 'done' in my communities. As I too am stealth, I often reply that it is the rebel in that made me do it. I want to get small gold hoops next.
Title: Re: finally got my ears pierced
Post by: jessical on May 05, 2015, 04:06:11 PM
Congratulations!!

For my after care I was told to do twice a day salt water compresses and they never got infected.  For those worried about doing it and people asking questions.  I found that of all the things I did before I was out, that getting my ears pierced was the least commented on.  I thought people would make a big deal out of it, but almost no one noticed.  Unlike the first time I braided my hair!  It's funny what people notice and what they do not.
Title: Re: finally got my ears pierced
Post by: acd_92 on May 05, 2015, 04:59:55 PM
Ahhh that is so exciting and makes me want to get mine done! Maybe I will after I get my hair done on Friday! :D
Title: Re: finally got my ears pierced
Post by: Emjay on May 05, 2015, 05:54:09 PM
Congrats!  I got mine done a few months ago, something I had been meaning to do and just kept putting off "until tomorrow".  Then one day I finally just jumped in the car and went to a local piercing shop and had it done.  Ten minutes later I was walking out all done.  One was just a redo as I had a single ear piercing from when I was much younger that had to be reopened, the other was all new so now I match.  :)
Title: Re: finally got my ears pierced
Post by: Jessie Ann on May 05, 2015, 06:55:43 PM
Amazing how that works. 

For 30 years I only had my right ear pierced.  Then, when I thought about transitioning (and I got tired of converting pierced earrings to clip ons) I did my left ear by myself one night.  Then I went to Claire's and got a 2nd piercing in each ear.  Now I am ready for # 3!! 

Be careful it can be addicting.  Now I have to convert all those clip ons back into pierced ones.   ::)

Quote from: Sabrina on May 05, 2015, 08:33:23 AM
This past Saturday, I got my ears pierced for the first time. I went to Claire's and the lady did an excellent job. It makes me look more lady like and I feel much better :)
Title: Re: finally got my ears pierced
Post by: Kaylin Kumiho on May 06, 2015, 01:02:20 PM
I got my first piercings before I started HRT... around 2 years ago now. Honestly, I kinda liked the sensation of getting pierced too much, so on my 1 year anniversary of being on HRT, I got a second set right above the first (both lobe piercings). I've gotten both done by Claire's at my local mall and I've had no problems :3

I'm planning on getting another set of piercings when I hit the 3 year anniversary on HRT, prolly at going to get them done at the top of my ears... and whenever I get my final surgery, I might go all out and get a tattoo to celebrate :P

The ironic thing is, I was previously terrified of needles... I got my first set with friends because I wanted to get over that, now I'm hooked :P
Title: Re: finally got my ears pierced
Post by: angiegurl on May 06, 2015, 06:48:36 PM
I have had mine done for a couple years and i have been toying with the idea of getting a second set. Today I dont think it matters that much anymore how you present - male or female for pierced ears. My problem is I like to buy earrings....  ::)
Title: Re: finally got my ears pierced
Post by: RachaelAnne on May 07, 2015, 09:56:38 AM
I got mine done 3 months ago on my birthday to help celebrate my first day of hrt.   [emoji4]

I didn't plan to hide them and never have had to...
I did pick out simple small blue studs to start with.   Most people I work with looked and didn't say anything.  A few asked when did you get those.  But everyone has just accepted them without any issues.

It was a very happy day once i was able to start switching them.   Today I'm wearing pretty Mickey Mouse diamond (faux) earrings.

The one regret is not doing this sooner.
Title: Re: finally got my ears pierced
Post by: April_TO on May 07, 2015, 11:46:36 PM
Congratulations Sabrina :-) xo


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Title: Re: finally got my ears pierced
Post by: Eva Marie on May 08, 2015, 02:28:17 AM
I got mine done about a month ago. I avoided it for a long time but when the wig went away my earlobes were out there for everyone to see and it simply needed to get done so I couldn't avoid it any longer. I screwed up my courage (hey, if a 12 year old girl can do it I certainly can  :laugh:) and I sat in the chair at my local beauty supply and they did it using a gun. There was a moment of discomfort and then it was over and done with.

Now i'm in the squirt with disinfectant, shake and spin phase and in about two more weeks the studs come out and Eva goes earring shopping  ;D
Title: Re: finally got my ears pierced
Post by: DanaDane on May 15, 2015, 03:23:15 PM
Quote from: Eva Marie on May 08, 2015, 02:28:17 AM

Now i'm in the squirt with disinfectant, shake and spin phase and in about two more weeks the studs come out and Eva goes earring shopping  ;D

And that is where the fun begins.  I have turned into an earring fiend.
Title: Re: finally got my ears pierced
Post by: Dee Marshall on May 15, 2015, 03:25:46 PM
My left ear's been pierced since the mid 80's. I need to do the other. My only concern is that the holes match.