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Title: My step dad is amazing
Post by: torig on May 09, 2015, 01:34:52 PM
Post by: torig on May 09, 2015, 01:34:52 PM
My step dad is one amazing guy in my life,loves me although he is not my bio father.My bio dad in not in my life anymore,he was always nasty to me and a heavy drinker.I met my step dad when he started dating my mom when I was 9 years old and that is when our step father/step son relationship happened.A wise man too,I still go to him for advice.Plus he has been there for me when I was in trouble.One time was when I got two girls pregnant,ages 16 and 17 when I was 17 years old having unprotected sex with them.Looked at me and said this: You better man up and be there for them.He was right and proved it to him,becoming a father of a son and daughter 18 years ago at age 18.He was proud of me when I decided to man up,he raised me not to be a coward.I am a good dad and also have a 16 year old daughter paying child support which comes in on time.Did pay child support for my 18 year old son,this stopped when he turned 18 in Febuary.He was glad when I decided to pay child support,I knew the mothers of my 18 year old son and 16 year old daughter could not raise them on their own,I needed to help out too.He has taught me many more things and one was make the right choices.A couple of my ex friends wanted me to come with them and vandalize someone's house when I was 16.I knew to say no,knew I would of been arrested caught doing it and my step dad said great job.It was a lesson learned,these two ex friends of mine were caught in the act doing it.
Title: Re: My step dad is amazing
Post by: sam1234 on May 09, 2015, 03:44:32 PM
Post by: sam1234 on May 09, 2015, 03:44:32 PM
He sounds like a keeper. Having someone who are very close to can get you through a lot of otherwise horrible things. Consider yourself lucky. Every one should have someone.
sam1234
sam1234
Title: Re: My step dad is amazing
Post by: torig on May 09, 2015, 05:28:24 PM
Post by: torig on May 09, 2015, 05:28:24 PM
He is a keeper and led me in the right direction in life.Does treat my mom right too,my bio dad did verbally and physically abuse my mom a lot.I see my mom happy to this day,step dad has never layed a hand on her yet.My step dad even paid half for my tools when I started working on heavy and ag equipment after finishing college in 2000.All Snap On and they were not cheap.That was my graduation gift from him.