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Title: Amazing weekend!
Post by: Emjay on May 11, 2015, 01:59:27 AM
Post by: Emjay on May 11, 2015, 01:59:27 AM
So. .... I had the most amazing weekend just being me, all the time and now I'm back at work staring at two weeks before i get another weekend away from work. ....
......thus the reason for my posting in this category. ..... ARGHHH!
I really need to set up an appointment with HR and get things moving. .... :-\
......thus the reason for my posting in this category. ..... ARGHHH!
I really need to set up an appointment with HR and get things moving. .... :-\
Title: Re: Amazing weekend!
Post by: Mariah on May 11, 2015, 02:05:29 AM
Post by: Mariah on May 11, 2015, 02:05:29 AM
It's wonderful to hear you had amazing weekend as your authentic self. When the time is truly right you will make it down to HR. Amazing how we put things off sometimes and may not even fully realize why ourselves. I'm sure you will get there sooner than later. Hugs
Mariah
Mariah
Title: Re: Amazing weekend!
Post by: Ms Grace on May 11, 2015, 02:11:24 AM
Post by: Ms Grace on May 11, 2015, 02:11:24 AM
It's often these things that become our tipping point. For me it was realising that I was enjoying being in girl mode and resented having to change back... so I bumped up my schedule to go full time by over two months!
Title: Re: Amazing weekend!
Post by: katrinaw on May 11, 2015, 04:34:52 AM
Post by: katrinaw on May 11, 2015, 04:34:52 AM
Quote from: Ms Grace on May 11, 2015, 02:11:24 AM
It's often these things that become our tipping point. For me it was realising that I was enjoying being in girl mode and resented having to change back... so I bumped up my schedule to go full time by over two months!
Certainly the more time I have the real me v's the conformist side, certainly pushes me harder towards full transition than before, I hate having to go back... Makes me very, very sad
Quote from: Emjay on May 11, 2015, 01:59:27 AM
So. .... I had the most amazing weekend just being me, all the time and now I'm back at work staring at two weeks before i get another weekend away from work. ....
......thus the reason for my posting in this category. ..... ARGHHH!
I really need to set up an appointment with HR and get things moving. .... :-\
Thats the bit I used to hate too, in fact business trips were great, as outside of being in the work environment, I could be me... Same as last ski season here, no work, spent weeks on end on the snowfields, I could be me almost 100% of time... So with you there Emjay :-*
It was those months that made me set a definate plan, and come out to a close friend... Who commented, how did you hide that from me for so long... I said necessity? But not from not wanting to share with her...
L Katy :-*
Title: Re: Amazing weekend!
Post by: Emjay on May 11, 2015, 03:46:12 PM
Post by: Emjay on May 11, 2015, 03:46:12 PM
Thanks girls, I really appreciate the replies.
It gets harder every day having to go in to work as male and I feel I'm about to reach the "tipping point". Besides, it's almost impossible to hide the changes to my body anymore. I'm honestly pretty amazed that no one has noticed anything yet. If anyone has, no one has said anything anyway. Baggy shirts work pretty well I guess...
It gets harder every day having to go in to work as male and I feel I'm about to reach the "tipping point". Besides, it's almost impossible to hide the changes to my body anymore. I'm honestly pretty amazed that no one has noticed anything yet. If anyone has, no one has said anything anyway. Baggy shirts work pretty well I guess...
Title: Re: Amazing weekend!
Post by: mac1 on May 11, 2015, 04:20:19 PM
Post by: mac1 on May 11, 2015, 04:20:19 PM
Enjoy being yourself whenever you can. It would be great to be able to be a woman (at least part-time) with my wife.