Site News and Information => Introductions => Topic started by: jamela on May 16, 2015, 04:29:46 PM Return to Full Version
Title: Hello
Post by: jamela on May 16, 2015, 04:29:46 PM
Post by: jamela on May 16, 2015, 04:29:46 PM
Hi
I'm Jamela. 37 y old from East Africa living in Norway. I have always been a cd. since I was 12,with quite a femine thin body but in those 5 years things went so fast. I didn't come out yet, but transitioning is becoming so obsessive to me. I have always thought that I was heterosexual but now I start to appreciate men and even getting excited. The only thing is that all this thing seems unstopable and very fast. I wonder where I'm going?
I'm Jamela. 37 y old from East Africa living in Norway. I have always been a cd. since I was 12,with quite a femine thin body but in those 5 years things went so fast. I didn't come out yet, but transitioning is becoming so obsessive to me. I have always thought that I was heterosexual but now I start to appreciate men and even getting excited. The only thing is that all this thing seems unstopable and very fast. I wonder where I'm going?
Title: Re: Hello
Post by: Ms Grace on May 16, 2015, 04:35:03 PM
Post by: Ms Grace on May 16, 2015, 04:35:03 PM
Hey Jamela
Welcome to Susan's :) Great to have you here - looking forward to seeing you around the forum.
Please check out the following links for general site info...
Cheers
Grace
Welcome to Susan's :) Great to have you here - looking forward to seeing you around the forum.
Please check out the following links for general site info...
- Site Terms of Service and rules to live by (https://www.susans.org/forums/index.php/topic,2.0.html)
- Standard Terms and Definitions (https://www.susans.org/forums/index.php/topic,54369.0.html)
- Post Ranks (including when you can upload an avatar) (https://www.susans.org/forums/index.php/topic,114.0.html.)
- Reputation rules (https://www.susans.org/forums/index.php/topic,18960.0.html)
- Photo, avatars, and signature images policy (https://www.susans.org/forums/index.php/topic,59974.msg383866.html#msg383866)
Cheers
Grace
Title: Re: Hello
Post by: Mariah on May 16, 2015, 04:48:04 PM
Post by: Mariah on May 16, 2015, 04:48:04 PM
Hi Jamela, welcome to Susan's. I look forward to seeing you around the site. Good luck and Hugs
Mariah
Mariah
Title: Re: Hello
Post by: katrinaw on May 16, 2015, 05:42:00 PM
Post by: katrinaw on May 16, 2015, 05:42:00 PM
Welcome to Susan's Jamela
Happy that you have found us, look forward to seeing you about the forums.
L Katy :-*
Happy that you have found us, look forward to seeing you about the forums.
L Katy :-*
Title: Re: Hello
Post by: V M on May 16, 2015, 07:10:52 PM
Post by: V M on May 16, 2015, 07:10:52 PM
Hi Jamela :icon_wave:
Welcome to Susan's :) Glad to have you here, join on in the fun
Hugs
V M
Welcome to Susan's :) Glad to have you here, join on in the fun
Hugs
V M
Title: Re: Hello
Post by: Rachel on May 16, 2015, 08:15:05 PM
Post by: Rachel on May 16, 2015, 08:15:05 PM
Welcome to Susan's.
Title: Re: Hello
Post by: LordKAT on May 17, 2015, 04:22:39 AM
Post by: LordKAT on May 17, 2015, 04:22:39 AM
Welcome to Susan's.
As to wondering where you are going, remember it is the journey that forms us.
As to wondering where you are going, remember it is the journey that forms us.
Title: Re: Hello
Post by: SophiaW on May 18, 2015, 02:40:24 AM
Post by: SophiaW on May 18, 2015, 02:40:24 AM
Hi Jamela, and great to know you are taking the first steps on your road.
Read other articles in the forum, and ask. You are amongst friends here.
When you feel the time is right, go to a local Doctor and discuss it with them, and if they are good, they will take you further.
Welcome!
;D
Read other articles in the forum, and ask. You are amongst friends here.
When you feel the time is right, go to a local Doctor and discuss it with them, and if they are good, they will take you further.
Welcome!
;D
Title: Re: Hello
Post by: Laura_7 on May 18, 2015, 08:06:59 AM
Post by: Laura_7 on May 18, 2015, 08:06:59 AM
You could have a look here and the link there:
https://www.susans.org/forums/index.php/topic,188309.msg1674885.html#msg1674885
and keep asking questions, alone writing often helps.
Don't be scared. Its a step by step process, many have done it and succeeded, take the time you need but keep at it.
People here will try to support you.
You might for example ask with local lgbt or trans people organizations how this all is organized in norway.
If there are specialized gender therapists, or gender centers etc.
And there might be helplines for transgender people.
hugs
https://www.susans.org/forums/index.php/topic,188309.msg1674885.html#msg1674885
and keep asking questions, alone writing often helps.
Don't be scared. Its a step by step process, many have done it and succeeded, take the time you need but keep at it.
People here will try to support you.
You might for example ask with local lgbt or trans people organizations how this all is organized in norway.
If there are specialized gender therapists, or gender centers etc.
And there might be helplines for transgender people.
hugs
Title: Re: Hello
Post by: Nickywhat on May 18, 2015, 11:49:53 AM
Post by: Nickywhat on May 18, 2015, 11:49:53 AM
Welcome to Susan's! I'm a newcomer here as well, but just like joining this website, coming out is something we all eventually do. Regardless if it's simply coming out to friends/family or if you're coming to terms with yourself about these new changes, there will always be someone out there that can relate and be helpful! I have to agree that is kinda becomes a snowball effect, mixing excitement with nervousness (and other emotions!) and just seem to explode ( in my case implode) all lat once. I wish you the best as you take the steps and path to becoming the person YOU want (and feel comfortable with) :]
Have a Lovely Day!
Have a Lovely Day!
Title: Re: Hello
Post by: gennee on May 19, 2015, 06:48:16 PM
Post by: gennee on May 19, 2015, 06:48:16 PM
Welcome to Susan's, Jamela.
:)
:)
Title: Re: Hello
Post by: jamela on May 20, 2015, 09:38:35 AM
Post by: jamela on May 20, 2015, 09:38:35 AM
Thank you all sisters. I m very happy to join you. Thank you for the warm wellcame