Community Conversation => Transgender talk => Topic started by: RevanDFS on June 19, 2015, 08:16:27 PM Return to Full Version
Title: open/relaxed
Post by: RevanDFS on June 19, 2015, 08:16:27 PM
Post by: RevanDFS on June 19, 2015, 08:16:27 PM
Last Friday night went over to my bro for a few drink and to relax. Well I talk about Hormone replacement therapy that the marriage counselor told me. I smile then. And that night my bro went ape ->-bleeped-<-. The next few days my gut felt bloated and hurt. I'm taking it as stress.
Soon to be ex wife. But my best FRIEND! WE both agree. We don't want to hurt each other mentally or financially.
I guess I'm asking who is my real enemy? The thought of Hormone replacement therapy. Feel very relaxing. Peace.
Soon to be ex wife. But my best FRIEND! WE both agree. We don't want to hurt each other mentally or financially.
I guess I'm asking who is my real enemy? The thought of Hormone replacement therapy. Feel very relaxing. Peace.
Title: Re: open/relaxed
Post by: gennee on June 20, 2015, 10:23:22 AM
Post by: gennee on June 20, 2015, 10:23:22 AM
Sounds like you are going to go through with hormone therapy. If it's what you want, go for it!
:)
:)
Title: Re: open/relaxed
Post by: Laura_7 on June 20, 2015, 10:34:44 AM
Post by: Laura_7 on June 20, 2015, 10:34:44 AM
Here are a few resources that might help :
https://www.susans.org/forums/index.php/topic,180045.msg1658077.html#msg1658077
And some people use a twin explanation... they will be like their male/female twin, with the same sense of humour...
*hugs*
https://www.susans.org/forums/index.php/topic,180045.msg1658077.html#msg1658077
And some people use a twin explanation... they will be like their male/female twin, with the same sense of humour...
*hugs*
Title: Re: open/relaxed
Post by: Katiepie on June 20, 2015, 11:33:45 AM
Post by: Katiepie on June 20, 2015, 11:33:45 AM
Revan,
I completely relate to your situation on the ex-wife deal, but you can't put blame on anything. Though me and my wife had separated due to, me being completely closed off and barricaded of my own self, like I had locked myself away from even myself and had thrown away the key, had dozens of layers of locked doors. Had been separated since Mid February (Lucky it wasn't on Valentine's day when we departed, much like the time I signed my army contract on Valentine's day back in 2006). We both agreed upon separating, which would make life much easier in the grand scale of not to be tied together, as we both have opposite minds of where we want to go and how to get there.
We are the best of friends, even more so that we have separated, and I have accepted myself. As I said right above there is no one to blame, the cosmos just seem to be misinterpreted in love and acceptance. (Readying the cheese) Life will get easier and better for you in the long run!!!
Kate <3
I completely relate to your situation on the ex-wife deal, but you can't put blame on anything. Though me and my wife had separated due to, me being completely closed off and barricaded of my own self, like I had locked myself away from even myself and had thrown away the key, had dozens of layers of locked doors. Had been separated since Mid February (Lucky it wasn't on Valentine's day when we departed, much like the time I signed my army contract on Valentine's day back in 2006). We both agreed upon separating, which would make life much easier in the grand scale of not to be tied together, as we both have opposite minds of where we want to go and how to get there.
We are the best of friends, even more so that we have separated, and I have accepted myself. As I said right above there is no one to blame, the cosmos just seem to be misinterpreted in love and acceptance. (Readying the cheese) Life will get easier and better for you in the long run!!!
Kate <3