Community Conversation => Female to male transsexual talk (FTM) => Transsexual talk => FTM Gear => Topic started by: kian on June 24, 2015, 07:19:32 PM Return to Full Version

Title: Buying a Binder?
Post by: kian on June 24, 2015, 07:19:32 PM
How can I get a binder without my parents noticing?
I could set up a P.O. box since I'm 18 and use my debit card.
However, what if they noticed? My chest isn't big luckily but I'm scared that they will find out.
Title: Re: Buying a Binder?
Post by: Mariah on June 24, 2015, 07:21:37 PM
You might get a bigger response in FTM gear. would you like me to move it there.
Mariah
Title: Re: Buying a Binder?
Post by: Devlyn on June 24, 2015, 07:27:15 PM
Another option is to have UPS do a "ship and hold" and you pick it up at the local UPS facility. You're not out to the parental units yet?

Hugs, Devlyn
Title: Re: Buying a Binder?
Post by: kian on June 24, 2015, 07:27:44 PM
Quote from: Mariah2014 on June 24, 2015, 07:21:37 PM
You might get a bigger response in FTM gear. would you like me to move it there.
Mariah

Yeah!
Title: Re: Buying a Binder?
Post by: Mariah on June 24, 2015, 07:30:29 PM
All taken care of and Devlyn's idea is a good one. I'm sure the guys will even have more. Hugs
Mariah
Title: Re: Buying a Binder?
Post by: Devlyn on June 24, 2015, 07:33:38 PM
Quote from: Mariah2014 on June 24, 2015, 07:21:37 PM
You might get a bigger response in FTM gear. would you like me to move it there.
Mariah
Quote from: kian on June 24, 2015, 07:27:44 PM
Yeah!
Quote from: Mariah2014 on June 24, 2015, 07:30:29 PM
All taken care of...

Hugs
Mariah

Hold on!  Wheeeee!
Title: Re: Buying a Binder?
Post by: kian on June 24, 2015, 07:55:44 PM
Quote from: Devlyn Marie on June 24, 2015, 07:27:15 PM
Another option is to have UPS do a "ship and hold" and you pick it up at the local UPS facility. You're not out to the parental units yet?

Hugs, Devlyn

Hm, I'll keep that in mind.
Actually I got kicked back into the closet by them awhile back.
Title: Re: Buying a Binder?
Post by: Devlyn on June 24, 2015, 08:06:42 PM
Big hug! Sorry they're putting obstacles in your path. It's overcoming this stuff that makes us strong, and you will overcome this and meet your goals.

Hugs, Devlyn
Title: Re: Buying a Binder?
Post by: LordKAT on June 25, 2015, 04:31:42 AM
Some people have had them delivered to a friends house. Some look like regular t shirts and would likely be unnoticeable if you aren't big to start with.