General Discussions => General discussions => ARGHHH! => Topic started by: Beth Andrea on June 27, 2015, 01:30:39 PM Return to Full Version
Title: So embarrassed!
Post by: Beth Andrea on June 27, 2015, 01:30:39 PM
Post by: Beth Andrea on June 27, 2015, 01:30:39 PM
So there I was, standing and talking to a friend of mine while sunbathing...I had shorts on and a bikini top, we had just finished putting on the final touches of suntan oil, and were just chatting happily....
A guy walks up, says hi to my friend (he knows her, but not me). I notice that not only is he kinda cute but he is...very....manly. This does not trigger attraction, rather it triggers my old response "I gotta make him think I'm a guy!" without my even knowing it (its been years since I felt that).
So, standing next to a calf-high walkway, I put one foot up and lean forward, adopting a pose as if he and I were talking about....you know, manly stuff. He and our friend continue talking for a few minutes then he leaves....and that's when I notice that I am in a man-pose even though I have breasts and mid-thigh-shorts on.
OMG!! talk about getting one's wires crossed!!!
Fortunately I won't see him again, so....lesson learned I suppose.
A guy walks up, says hi to my friend (he knows her, but not me). I notice that not only is he kinda cute but he is...very....manly. This does not trigger attraction, rather it triggers my old response "I gotta make him think I'm a guy!" without my even knowing it (its been years since I felt that).
So, standing next to a calf-high walkway, I put one foot up and lean forward, adopting a pose as if he and I were talking about....you know, manly stuff. He and our friend continue talking for a few minutes then he leaves....and that's when I notice that I am in a man-pose even though I have breasts and mid-thigh-shorts on.
OMG!! talk about getting one's wires crossed!!!
Fortunately I won't see him again, so....lesson learned I suppose.
Title: Re: So embarrassed!
Post by: Laura_7 on June 27, 2015, 03:07:14 PM
Post by: Laura_7 on June 27, 2015, 03:07:14 PM
Well feelings can influence posture...
you could try to relax and just be yourself in such situations... :)
hugs
you could try to relax and just be yourself in such situations... :)
hugs
Title: Re: So embarrassed!
Post by: suzifrommd on June 27, 2015, 03:45:15 PM
Post by: suzifrommd on June 27, 2015, 03:45:15 PM
A few months ago, I tried to do the "male pose" and I forgot how to do it. I thought I had it and I realized I was standing totally femmy. I wonder if it's still there in my cortex waiting for an embarrassing time to come out.
Title: Re: So embarrassed!
Post by: Andre87 on June 27, 2015, 04:15:46 PM
Post by: Andre87 on June 27, 2015, 04:15:46 PM
I was like that before.Acting "bossy" when a guy approaches my friend.I had crush on her.Maybe that's why.Now I prefer beating arguments in calm way..
Title: Re: So embarrassed!
Post by: Ms Grace on June 27, 2015, 05:02:18 PM
Post by: Ms Grace on June 27, 2015, 05:02:18 PM
I was in a meeting with four men the other day, there was a risk I cpuld have resorted to "being a man" to make sure my point was made, I know how men can be towards women in meetings after all. I still managed to make my point while keeping my femme charm. :)