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Title: RIP Kira Myers
Post by: Jessica Merriman on July 06, 2015, 08:55:47 PM
Post by: Jessica Merriman on July 06, 2015, 08:55:47 PM
Our community has lost another to suicide. My friend Kira Myers ended her life tonight. When will this madness stop? Rest in peace my dear friend. I will miss you terribly. :'( :'( :'( :'(
Title: Re: RIP Kira Myers
Post by: Jill F on July 06, 2015, 09:03:45 PM
Post by: Jill F on July 06, 2015, 09:03:45 PM
That hurts. I know she was hurting for a long time.
RIP Kira357
RIP Kira357
Title: Re: RIP Kira Myers
Post by: Andre87 on July 06, 2015, 09:08:45 PM
Post by: Andre87 on July 06, 2015, 09:08:45 PM
Quote from: Jessica Merriman on July 06, 2015, 08:55:47 PM
Our community has lost another to suicide. My friend Kira Myers ended her life tonight. When will this madness stop? Rest in peace my dear friend. I will miss you terribly. :'( :'( :'( :'(
RIP :(
Back in 2008 or so(I had old account), I don't remember that so many people were suicidal...It's so sad. :( What can we do in order to convince some members here that they matter(a lot!) and that every day is new chance...
Title: Re: RIP Kira Myers
Post by: Jessica Merriman on July 06, 2015, 09:09:36 PM
Post by: Jessica Merriman on July 06, 2015, 09:09:36 PM
I was the one who was in contact with the Police last week when she threatened to do this. After that she unfriended me for interfering and died hating me. How do I live with that? :'( :'( :'(
Title: Re: RIP Kira Myers
Post by: Jill F on July 06, 2015, 09:20:10 PM
Post by: Jill F on July 06, 2015, 09:20:10 PM
Quote from: Jessica Merriman on July 06, 2015, 09:09:36 PM
I was the one who was in contact with the Police last week when she threatened to do this. After that she unfriended me for interfering and died hating me. How do I live with that? :'( :'( :'(
I'm so sorry Jessica. Personally, I couldn't live with myself if I just did nothing. It sucks when you care about people sometimes, and this is the price. I would like to think that you improved her chances of survival by acting as you did.
Big hugs,
Jill
Title: Re: RIP Kira Myers
Post by: Mariah on July 06, 2015, 09:26:42 PM
Post by: Mariah on July 06, 2015, 09:26:42 PM
Jessica, I agree with Jill she wouldn't have lived this long if it wasn't for you. You tried and as a good friend you did everything you could for her. Remember that more than anything that you tried your best. Sometimes our best just can't get the job done. It's not your fault. Big hugs. RIP Kira
Hugs
Mariah
Hugs
Mariah
Title: Re: RIP Kira Myers
Post by: katrinaw on July 06, 2015, 09:40:13 PM
Post by: katrinaw on July 06, 2015, 09:40:13 PM
Big hugs Jessica
I am so sorry that Kira has found her peace and that you feel especially sad about it.
Sometimes, no matter how much we help, events become out of our sphere of control, but we should never feel guilt or pain when we have done everything we can and provided love, support and help.
We can do no more than provide that care and love and should feel some sort of solace in that we have tried to better someones life. But I do know it has a profound effect on each of us and we all share that sorrow too.
big hugs Jessica xx
I am so sorry that Kira has found her peace and that you feel especially sad about it.
Sometimes, no matter how much we help, events become out of our sphere of control, but we should never feel guilt or pain when we have done everything we can and provided love, support and help.
We can do no more than provide that care and love and should feel some sort of solace in that we have tried to better someones life. But I do know it has a profound effect on each of us and we all share that sorrow too.
big hugs Jessica xx
Title: Re: RIP Kira Myers
Post by: Dena on July 06, 2015, 09:45:57 PM
Post by: Dena on July 06, 2015, 09:45:57 PM
Jessica, the way you life with the fact that you reported her is to think her dying without you reporting her. You would always know there was something you didn't do that might have saved her. You were her friend even if she didn't understand it. I am sorry for you loss and the loss to the community.
Title: Re: RIP Kira Myers
Post by: Jessica Merriman on July 06, 2015, 10:20:55 PM
Post by: Jessica Merriman on July 06, 2015, 10:20:55 PM
Thanks everyone for their concern about me. Being from the career I was I dealt with the aftermath of these events and it rattled me to have it happen to friend. The thought of her dying alone and scared without anyone near who loved her is heart breaking. I have a great support system myself and the love of my life and soul mate Tommilynn Travis to help me. Please think of Kira and hope she is no longer in the pain we all know too well.
Title: Re: RIP Kira Myers
Post by: Jessica Merriman on July 06, 2015, 11:55:14 PM
Post by: Jessica Merriman on July 06, 2015, 11:55:14 PM
I AM ANGRY!! Sadness over the loss of my friend has turned. To the Florida Police Department I contacted about Kira, her death is on you. I am a retired Law Officer here in Oklahoma and you need to change your policies or is one more lost transgirl not a biggie? I gave you complete information on her, I told you what was going on in her life and you walked away. Here we have a 72 hour mandatory hold and if that had been done she may not be dead tonight. You even responded there before! Not to have her evaluated is a crime in my mind as well as humanities. Damn you all!!!!
Title: Re: RIP Kira Myers
Post by: Lakegirl28117 on July 07, 2015, 12:13:28 AM
Post by: Lakegirl28117 on July 07, 2015, 12:13:28 AM
I had just friended her on another site, and we were talking about her music. Yesterday she sounded good after the previous day. I am so sorry she felt this was the only way out. Just horrible. I think of my fellow veterans who commit suicide - sometimes we called it "goin home". I pray she is now at peace. She has let us know how much more work needs to be done. RIP, Kira. :icon_no:
Title: Re: RIP Kira Myers
Post by: V M on July 07, 2015, 02:52:39 AM
Post by: V M on July 07, 2015, 02:52:39 AM
So very sorry to hear of her passing :'( RIP Kira
Group hugs everyone
Group hugs everyone
Title: Re: RIP Kira Myers
Post by: Yenneffer on July 07, 2015, 03:29:55 AM
Post by: Yenneffer on July 07, 2015, 03:29:55 AM
Hugs Rip kira
Title: Re: RIP Kira Myers
Post by: Devlyn on July 07, 2015, 07:25:43 AM
Post by: Devlyn on July 07, 2015, 07:25:43 AM
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Title: Re: RIP Kira Myers
Post by: Lakegirl28117 on July 07, 2015, 10:21:39 AM
Post by: Lakegirl28117 on July 07, 2015, 10:21:39 AM
Does anyone have any funeral information on her?
Title: Re: RIP Kira Myers
Post by: gennee on July 07, 2015, 07:53:30 PM
Post by: gennee on July 07, 2015, 07:53:30 PM
Jessica, I'm so sorry to hear of Kira's passing It's a shock when someone you know end their life. The police seem to really not care (I'm speculating).
RIP, Kira.
p.s. Don't blame yourself for what happened.
RIP, Kira.
p.s. Don't blame yourself for what happened.
Title: Re: RIP Kira Myers
Post by: stephaniec on July 07, 2015, 08:15:31 PM
Post by: stephaniec on July 07, 2015, 08:15:31 PM
some times the pain is insurmountable. My faith tells me there was a hand waiting to comfort,
Title: Re: RIP Kira Myers
Post by: Shana-chan on July 10, 2015, 01:42:03 PM
Post by: Shana-chan on July 10, 2015, 01:42:03 PM
@Jessica: On the matter of your anger, if you really believe and more so have evidence to prove what the police did was wrong, then I say sue them. Maybe then this kind of stuff will happen less or at least in Kira's area.
On the matter of Kira and you. I want you to remember this Jessica, she was indeed your friend; people do things they don't truly mean, even say stuff they don't really mean when they are angry and or in a suicidal state of mind. I know in your heart you know what I'm saying is true and that she is still your friend and maybe she did die thinking ya'll weren't friends anymore and hated you, or maybe she didn't but one truth remains, that whenever she would've come back to her (Sorry if I misgendered, I don't know Kira personally) right state of mind, I'm sure she would've tried to make up with you. I believe in some form of after life including reincarnation so I'm sure that state of mind and saying sorry and wanting to make up with you is now or soon. In the end, remember, you and Kira ARE friends and that isn't going to change as long as you believe that. You did the right thing and I'd like to think Kira would think so too in the right state of mind. *Hugs*
On the matter of Kira and you. I want you to remember this Jessica, she was indeed your friend; people do things they don't truly mean, even say stuff they don't really mean when they are angry and or in a suicidal state of mind. I know in your heart you know what I'm saying is true and that she is still your friend and maybe she did die thinking ya'll weren't friends anymore and hated you, or maybe she didn't but one truth remains, that whenever she would've come back to her (Sorry if I misgendered, I don't know Kira personally) right state of mind, I'm sure she would've tried to make up with you. I believe in some form of after life including reincarnation so I'm sure that state of mind and saying sorry and wanting to make up with you is now or soon. In the end, remember, you and Kira ARE friends and that isn't going to change as long as you believe that. You did the right thing and I'd like to think Kira would think so too in the right state of mind. *Hugs*
Title: Re: RIP Kira Myers
Post by: iKate on July 12, 2015, 09:11:00 AM
Post by: iKate on July 12, 2015, 09:11:00 AM
I am so sorry to hear of her passing. I did not know her that well but anytime a member of our community decides to end it, it sends a chill down my spine and invokes sadness in my heart.
May she rest in peace.
May she rest in peace.
Title: Re: RIP Kira Myers
Post by: jaynemonroe79 on July 21, 2015, 11:18:53 PM
Post by: jaynemonroe79 on July 21, 2015, 11:18:53 PM
That breaks my heart. I know that pain all too well. I think most of us do. I want to be better for the next person who is suffering.
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Title: Re: RIP Kira Myers
Post by: janetcgtv on July 22, 2015, 07:20:15 PM
Post by: janetcgtv on July 22, 2015, 07:20:15 PM
Jessica:
You did your very best to help her. So please don't blame yourself in any way.You were there for her. Just think of it as part of her illness.
It's like taking care of a person who is terminal ill . All that matters is you did your very best. I took care of my parents and did my very best before they died. My Best friend(GG) who knows about me is taking care of her mother who is a stroke victim. She seems to have a sixth sense in adjusting her mothers medication and she takes care of her mother in the best way.
You did your very best to help her. So please don't blame yourself in any way.You were there for her. Just think of it as part of her illness.
It's like taking care of a person who is terminal ill . All that matters is you did your very best. I took care of my parents and did my very best before they died. My Best friend(GG) who knows about me is taking care of her mother who is a stroke victim. She seems to have a sixth sense in adjusting her mothers medication and she takes care of her mother in the best way.
Title: Re: RIP Kira Myers
Post by: traci_k on July 23, 2015, 07:38:04 AM
Post by: traci_k on July 23, 2015, 07:38:04 AM
Hugs Jessica, (and tears) You did what you could. May she have found peace.