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Title: BDSM and being trans
Post by: teddybear_zach on July 10, 2015, 01:23:03 PM
Post by: teddybear_zach on July 10, 2015, 01:23:03 PM
For all of my fellow kinksters, do you find it difficult finding P/people to play with or have as P/partners in the lifestlye? also how do Y/you identify and like to be addressed?
I find that a lot of lesbian ciswomen and transmen want to either play with Me or have Me as their Dominant. I have had straight/bi ciswomen approach Me as well but they really identify as pansexual.
I am a Master in the lifestyle for over 10 years. To My baby girl, I am Daddy/Papa and to others its Sir or Master Zach, depends on T/their preference.
I find that a lot of lesbian ciswomen and transmen want to either play with Me or have Me as their Dominant. I have had straight/bi ciswomen approach Me as well but they really identify as pansexual.
I am a Master in the lifestyle for over 10 years. To My baby girl, I am Daddy/Papa and to others its Sir or Master Zach, depends on T/their preference.
Title: Re: BDSM and being trans
Post by: rachel89 on July 17, 2015, 02:16:31 AM
Post by: rachel89 on July 17, 2015, 02:16:31 AM
So I'm not exactly into leather, but I am very submissive. >:-)
Title: Re: BDSM and being trans
Post by: Ashey on July 17, 2015, 05:03:56 AM
Post by: Ashey on July 17, 2015, 05:03:56 AM
I've had no problems in finding interested people of all sorts of genders, roles, and sexual orientations. Since transitioning I've tried my hand at being a Domme, mostly trying out a few people who couldn't handle me. Most have been hetero or bisexual men, but I've also been Domme to a bisexual trans-girl. As a Domme, I usually prefer being addressed as 'Ma'am' or 'Miss', and sometimes 'Mistress'. But I hate when someone starts with Mistress if I don't know them. I find it very presumptuous and annoying. If I haven't claimed you, then I am not your Mistress! >:( And even then I don't care for it as much as 'Ma'am'.
I much rather prefer being a submissive though. I've been owned and collared by a Domme before, tried out by a Master or two, and am currently being considered by a Domme whom I'm also dating. As a submissive, I would be addressed by whatever name or title my Dominant prefers. :P As far as roles go, I prefer being considered a slave, but sometimes enjoy the pet role and have been mildly interested in being a babygirl.
I much rather prefer being a submissive though. I've been owned and collared by a Domme before, tried out by a Master or two, and am currently being considered by a Domme whom I'm also dating. As a submissive, I would be addressed by whatever name or title my Dominant prefers. :P As far as roles go, I prefer being considered a slave, but sometimes enjoy the pet role and have been mildly interested in being a babygirl.
Title: Re: BDSM and being trans
Post by: Cindy on July 17, 2015, 05:09:55 AM
Post by: Cindy on July 17, 2015, 05:09:55 AM
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Title: Re: BDSM and being trans
Post by: Marlee on July 17, 2015, 07:14:22 AM
Post by: Marlee on July 17, 2015, 07:14:22 AM
I'm curious to see how it plays out for me. But making those connections likely won't be much harder than they have been in my past I would think. Right now, the group I belong to call me Marlee, and always refer to me as "her' or "she" even though I haven't attended any functions in fem mode yet. It's refreshing :)
But as for preferences, it seems to evolving as well. Perhaps my femme interior is playful domme.
But as for preferences, it seems to evolving as well. Perhaps my femme interior is playful domme.