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Title: How do you see your transition
Post by: stephaniec on July 16, 2015, 04:59:57 PM
Post by: stephaniec on July 16, 2015, 04:59:57 PM
I feel my transition has been quite complicated and painful. I wish transition could of been done at birth , but whatever. I think I've always viewed my path in life as trying to heal an abysmal wound. I'm finally getting there.
Title: Re: How do you see your transition
Post by: Zoetrope on July 16, 2015, 05:04:07 PM
Post by: Zoetrope on July 16, 2015, 05:04:07 PM
It's been nothing less than the keys to my prison.
Title: Re: How do you see your transition
Post by: suzifrommd on July 16, 2015, 05:07:29 PM
Post by: suzifrommd on July 16, 2015, 05:07:29 PM
Achieving a lifelong dream.
Title: Re: How do you see your transition
Post by: Mariah on July 16, 2015, 05:09:53 PM
Post by: Mariah on July 16, 2015, 05:09:53 PM
A various combination of the items listed, but I think Zoe stated it well with one short statement and that it really was the keys that unlocked the prison to which I was in which results in my being free now.
Mariah
Mariah
Title: Re: How do you see your transition
Post by: HoneyStrums on July 16, 2015, 05:24:53 PM
Post by: HoneyStrums on July 16, 2015, 05:24:53 PM
taking courage to set myself free from a psycological wound placed upon me by scocial norms, in order to adjust my body and lifestyle in a needed way to live out a life representing myself as a individual, instead of an un-fullfilling life as a steritype of a wider group exspressing no identity of its own.
Title: Re: How do you see your transition
Post by: gaygirl420 on July 16, 2015, 07:45:15 PM
Post by: gaygirl420 on July 16, 2015, 07:45:15 PM
uhhh i consider my transition to be a series of steps i have to take to be comfortable with my body and physical appearance
Title: Re: How do you see your transition
Post by: saraht123 on July 16, 2015, 09:19:43 PM
Post by: saraht123 on July 16, 2015, 09:19:43 PM
I'm not very far with my transition, but I'm hoping to find the freedom to simply be myself.
Title: Re: How do you see your transition
Post by: Serenation on July 16, 2015, 09:23:44 PM
Post by: Serenation on July 16, 2015, 09:23:44 PM
Achieving peace.
My life was chaos before transition.
My life was chaos before transition.
Title: Re: How do you see your transition
Post by: stephaniec on July 16, 2015, 09:27:43 PM
Post by: stephaniec on July 16, 2015, 09:27:43 PM
I'm in such a happier place since transitioning
Title: Re: How do you see your transition
Post by: Kellam on July 16, 2015, 09:30:27 PM
Post by: Kellam on July 16, 2015, 09:30:27 PM
It has been a bit of everything listed in the poll. But if I had to put it into words...peace, simplicity, freedom and wholeness.
Title: Re: How do you see your transition
Post by: Stevie on July 16, 2015, 09:37:11 PM
Post by: Stevie on July 16, 2015, 09:37:11 PM
Biological imperative.
Definition: The needs of living organisms required to perpetuate their existence and survival.
Definition: The needs of living organisms required to perpetuate their existence and survival.
Title: Re: How do you see your transition
Post by: RavenL on July 16, 2015, 09:52:17 PM
Post by: RavenL on July 16, 2015, 09:52:17 PM
Simply being free: I'm the happiest that I've been in a long time. Sure there are ups and downs but so far more ups and hopefully it stays that way.
Title: Re: How do you see your transition
Post by: Willowicious on July 17, 2015, 05:02:15 AM
Post by: Willowicious on July 17, 2015, 05:02:15 AM
Correcting some biological anomalies for me: Should've been born female, then I would've been a lot more comfortable with myself
Title: Re: How do you see your transition
Post by: JoanneB on July 18, 2015, 12:19:32 PM
Post by: JoanneB on July 18, 2015, 12:19:32 PM
Quote from: stephaniec on July 16, 2015, 04:59:57 PMI didn't see "Complicated and Painful" as a choice ;D
I feel my transition has been quite complicated and painful. I wish transition could of been done at birth , but whatever. I think I've always viewed my path in life as trying to heal an abysmal wound. I'm finally getting there.
Find the courage to do something for me resonated on two levels. "Doing something for me" has been a fairly foreign concept. Much of my life was directed towards doing what was expected of me, either by others (parents, grandparents, ect.) or myself. Being the "Go along to get along", hide in the background type of person, doing something as totally outrageous as transitioning, even daring to think of it in terms other then a fantasy, took and still takes courage.
My fears ruled my life, my soul, for decades.
Title: Re: How do you see your transition
Post by: Jayne on July 18, 2015, 12:57:22 PM
Post by: Jayne on July 18, 2015, 12:57:22 PM
My transition is an effort to see tomorrow.
Whilst I'm fighting against social anxiety and depression on a daily basis I feel happier now than I've felt for over a decade prior to HRT, I've managed approximately 2 yrs without coming close to suicide when before HRT it was a daily fixation so as hard as things are right now I know I'm on the right course.
Whilst I'm fighting against social anxiety and depression on a daily basis I feel happier now than I've felt for over a decade prior to HRT, I've managed approximately 2 yrs without coming close to suicide when before HRT it was a daily fixation so as hard as things are right now I know I'm on the right course.
Title: Re: How do you see your transition
Post by: Hailey zy on July 18, 2015, 10:35:57 PM
Post by: Hailey zy on July 18, 2015, 10:35:57 PM
For me it's being able to be happy. But on a smaller scale its a day by day step by step process of figuring who i really am and want to be.