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Title: I told her she was pretty.
Post by: Wild Flower on August 01, 2015, 09:03:58 AM
Post by: Wild Flower on August 01, 2015, 09:03:58 AM
She was a waitress, she wasn't exactly pretty in a traditional way, but she seem innocent-angelic-like in a Snow White type of way. She had glasses, slight overweight, rounded face, nothing glamorize about her - the type of woman that seem to never be told that she was pretty. She was concern about my meal being too spicy, so I thought she was really nice.
So at the end of my meal, I had this urge to tell her she was pretty, because to me she was pretty for her "innocence" I guess ((trust me, I don't go around doing telling women they are pretty; first time in my life)). So I told her she was pretty, and she was smiling and said 'thank you'. And I left, feeling that she really appreciate the compliment.
It doesn't make me question my sexuality really, but is that a normal behavior by a GUY or a FEMALE? I do look at female-model-actress videos a lot, but it's always imagining I was them. It did made me question myself at the table eating. I don't ever see myself truly in love with a woman.
I saw myself in her too. Or at least a prior-self; someone who needed a compliment, I guess.
So at the end of my meal, I had this urge to tell her she was pretty, because to me she was pretty for her "innocence" I guess ((trust me, I don't go around doing telling women they are pretty; first time in my life)). So I told her she was pretty, and she was smiling and said 'thank you'. And I left, feeling that she really appreciate the compliment.
It doesn't make me question my sexuality really, but is that a normal behavior by a GUY or a FEMALE? I do look at female-model-actress videos a lot, but it's always imagining I was them. It did made me question myself at the table eating. I don't ever see myself truly in love with a woman.
I saw myself in her too. Or at least a prior-self; someone who needed a compliment, I guess.
Title: Re: I told her she was pretty.
Post by: Cindy on August 01, 2015, 09:20:54 AM
Post by: Cindy on August 01, 2015, 09:20:54 AM
Honey,
It is totally normal for women to say to another women that she looks good. It is part of the sisterhood.
It is totally normal for women to say to another women that she looks good. It is part of the sisterhood.
Title: Re: I told her she was pretty.
Post by: stephaniec on August 01, 2015, 01:25:49 PM
Post by: stephaniec on August 01, 2015, 01:25:49 PM
I always get the sisterhood smiles from woman
Title: Re: I told her she was pretty.
Post by: KristinaM on August 03, 2015, 02:37:24 PM
Post by: KristinaM on August 03, 2015, 02:37:24 PM
Haha, I complimented the receptionist at my endo today on her hair and her accent (from Cuba). I said I hoped my hair looked like hers when it grows out! She seemed to take the compliment very well, and I don't think she thought I was hitting on her, but she smiled a lot. :)
I was dressed up en femme, but of course she knew the deal, so either way she took it appropriately i'm sure. We all just have people that we're attracted to, and features that stand out to us, on a guy or a girl. Being nice about those things isn't gender-specific.
I was dressed up en femme, but of course she knew the deal, so either way she took it appropriately i'm sure. We all just have people that we're attracted to, and features that stand out to us, on a guy or a girl. Being nice about those things isn't gender-specific.