Community Conversation => Transgender talk => Topic started by: Tamika Olivia on August 06, 2015, 07:20:29 PM Return to Full Version
Title: Happy Tears!
Post by: Tamika Olivia on August 06, 2015, 07:20:29 PM
Post by: Tamika Olivia on August 06, 2015, 07:20:29 PM
So, I took a big but sure step today. I've come out to a few people so far: My sister, my best friend, the man who helped jumpstart my self-awareness, and my therapist. Today I made the decision to come out to the rest of my friends. I can't be myself with my family or at my job, but I want at least one aspect of my life where I'm not physically and emotionally stuffed into the boy costume. So, I composed a group Facebook message to 6 of my friends in the area. I told them what was happening, how it had impacted my personality in the past and present, and that I would like to be called by my chosen name once they felt comfortable.
Resounding. Success. I got an outpouring of love, support, and offers of help and encouragement. Nearly every one of them was happy to use my new name in their return messages. I haven't got a chance to see them in real life yet, but I have faith in them. I think they'll rise to the occasion.
If all of my coming outs could be this easy, I'd count myself the luckiest girl in the world.
I hope all of you have similar happy stories, now and in the future!
Hugs and Kisses,
Tamika
Resounding. Success. I got an outpouring of love, support, and offers of help and encouragement. Nearly every one of them was happy to use my new name in their return messages. I haven't got a chance to see them in real life yet, but I have faith in them. I think they'll rise to the occasion.
If all of my coming outs could be this easy, I'd count myself the luckiest girl in the world.
I hope all of you have similar happy stories, now and in the future!
Hugs and Kisses,
Tamika
Title: Re: Happy Tears!
Post by: lost._.at._.sea on August 06, 2015, 07:23:11 PM
Post by: lost._.at._.sea on August 06, 2015, 07:23:11 PM
That's so awesome Tamika!! Congratulations! :D
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Title: Re: Happy Tears!
Post by: geeky_jamie on August 06, 2015, 07:23:54 PM
Post by: geeky_jamie on August 06, 2015, 07:23:54 PM
Congrats,
I got a lot of support from all my friends, neighbors, and people at work. Family is a huge issue with me at the moment. I am having it easier when I came out at work then I am tip-toeing around my family about me. My next strategy is to use my wifes facebook. I am not alowed to have one but I can use hers :0)
I got a lot of support from all my friends, neighbors, and people at work. Family is a huge issue with me at the moment. I am having it easier when I came out at work then I am tip-toeing around my family about me. My next strategy is to use my wifes facebook. I am not alowed to have one but I can use hers :0)
Title: Re: Happy Tears!
Post by: gennee on August 06, 2015, 08:55:29 PM
Post by: gennee on August 06, 2015, 08:55:29 PM
That's great news, Tamika! I'm pleased that it went well. Congratulations.
:)
:)
Title: Re: Happy Tears!
Post by: JLT1 on August 06, 2015, 11:00:33 PM
Post by: JLT1 on August 06, 2015, 11:00:33 PM
Happy Hugs!
Jen
Jen