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Title: Needing this change
Post by: amandawhitman13 on August 24, 2015, 10:13:45 PM
Post by: amandawhitman13 on August 24, 2015, 10:13:45 PM
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amanda
I am so tired of wishing i was a female. I just want finaly start this journey. My girlfrienb of 15 years will not even come close to me when im dressed up. She says alot of mean things about me to my face and everyone. One day she asked me to be honest with her . So i let it all out. And that is still,kicking me in the ass, i explained it to my girls they r fine with me changing into amanda. It helps. I need to start takeing estrogen shots. Or pill, still doing the i dont know yet, im needing to get rid of this fake body ive been pretending to be my entire life and let my girly girl free
amanda
I am so tired of wishing i was a female. I just want finaly start this journey. My girlfrienb of 15 years will not even come close to me when im dressed up. She says alot of mean things about me to my face and everyone. One day she asked me to be honest with her . So i let it all out. And that is still,kicking me in the ass, i explained it to my girls they r fine with me changing into amanda. It helps. I need to start takeing estrogen shots. Or pill, still doing the i dont know yet, im needing to get rid of this fake body ive been pretending to be my entire life and let my girly girl free
Title: Re: Needing this change
Post by: Jacqueline on August 25, 2015, 09:30:11 AM
Post by: Jacqueline on August 25, 2015, 09:30:11 AM
Amanda,
Welcome to Susan's. There are a lot of people with great advice and many different experiences. I can only imagine that most of us will understand what you are writing and perhaps recognize ourselves in your descriptions.
It sounds like your SO does not entirely grasp and appreciate what your feelings are. It is also possible that she fears losing you (even if you stay together, there may be a loss of some aspect of your former self). I am so sorry you are going through this. I don't now if there is a way to help her appreciate, an example from her life perhaps? If she will let herself, perhaps you could direct her to the significant others as well as the coming out sections here? That ma be too much for her now.
I can't really give you great advice. My biggest advice to most people starting out is to try to get into therapy. I can also say that this is a supportive community for both the challenges and the victories.
I wish you luck, love, understanding and a smooth journey. Where ever it takes you.
With warm wishes,
Joanna
Welcome to Susan's. There are a lot of people with great advice and many different experiences. I can only imagine that most of us will understand what you are writing and perhaps recognize ourselves in your descriptions.
It sounds like your SO does not entirely grasp and appreciate what your feelings are. It is also possible that she fears losing you (even if you stay together, there may be a loss of some aspect of your former self). I am so sorry you are going through this. I don't now if there is a way to help her appreciate, an example from her life perhaps? If she will let herself, perhaps you could direct her to the significant others as well as the coming out sections here? That ma be too much for her now.
I can't really give you great advice. My biggest advice to most people starting out is to try to get into therapy. I can also say that this is a supportive community for both the challenges and the victories.
I wish you luck, love, understanding and a smooth journey. Where ever it takes you.
With warm wishes,
Joanna