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It was 93 degrees today in Evanston Il. 93 and humid. I didn't have a bra on and I wore  a tight dress. Everywhere I went either just walking or sitting at an outdoor café it was a constant barrage of glaring eyeballs . Being in puberty my nipples are quite prominent. I usually always wear a bra because my nipples are very noticeable .  It didn't matter whether their with their girl friend or wife or kids or alone it was predictable as soon as I got close you could see the eyes go perpendicular. quite an interesting thing to be on the receiving end.

I can't wait for that  ;) Mine are actually really pointy but there's just not enough behind them yet lol

Hey!! HEY!! My eyes are up here! (points to eyes)  ::)






LOL, yeah, I've been on both ends (err...that sounds so wrong somehow)...got caught glancing staring at bewbs, have caught men checking mine out.

For the most part, I don't mind. As long as they don't have that "creeper" look going on.

I've had to tell two guys this week to talk to me UP HERE.

I've had gay guys tell me they couldn't understand all the fuss.

I never realized how much men look. It is insane! I have caught all of the guys I know looking. I have had a guy I know stare, look up and misgender me without missing a beat.

Never got it, never will, just so glad my chest finally looks right...

I am sure I am not the only one to get caught checking herself out. :-) I told my friend who caught me "if you suddenly looked down and saw clevage you would stare at it too" He agreed. I figure I may get tired of looking at them in time, but it has not happend yet. :-P

Serena

Yeah I'm starting to be guilty of doing that myself! Ever just walk past a mirror in a store, then take a step or 2 backwards? I caught someone watching me as I did that the other day hahaha :)

Catching people checking out my boobs (or butt) is like a super power now. Caught lots of guys and a girl at work. Even an eye doctor that I'd gone to stared at my boobs through the whole appointment. People don't seem to realize how obvious it is.

It's a trip.  I had a a talk today with a co-worker who stared at my boobs for the entire conversation.  This could be understandable if I was showing cleavage or wearing a tight top but today it was all baggy and layered even. 

It was funny today the waiter at the café started staring when he brought the food or drinks. It's fun most of the time. What was really funny was awhile ago this guy waited to get to the side of me coming towards me  walking down the sidewalk. AS he passed I saw him turn his head and look thinking I wasn't going to see him.

Growing up whilst pretending to be a boy I just couldn't understand why my friends had this fascination with boobs.

With hindsight, I suppose it's just another piece of the jigsaw.

J xx

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Quote from: AbbyDS74 on September 01, 2015, 11:08:50 PM
Catching people checking out my boobs (or butt) is like a super power now.

agreed, i also notice guys staring at my breasts or butt..and I love it.. ok I love to wear top that show my cleavage off. Those breasts on my chest, have got me plenty of free drinks. (ahhh my single days)

Its part of the power of been a woman..

And I guess it is a scientific fact :) At one time some tech company here promoted their product which followed eye movement very accurately and they've let the people test it at a tech fair. There was this big screen that showed exactly what the participant was looking at.
Two reporters who were there tested it, a man and a woman. Poor guy was the first to go and he was just not able to control himself to completely avoid looking at his colleagues boobs. It was quite clear that he tried to avoid looking at them but it was hopeless. He was so embarrassed, he turned red immediately and apologized.

As I'm not on HRT yet I use padded bras to complete the look. I was walking down the street when too foreign guys checked out my "boobs" and commented in English that "...girls in this country have such beautiful boobs..." I guess they didn't think I would understand them. It was funny that they picked the only thing on me that was not real.

Well, it's true that men have a natural tendency to eye the feminine chest. In experiencing the phenom in myself I can say it's not something they do with every women or all the time. The likelihood increases with garments that in some emphasize the bosom or if the bosom size is beyond a certain proportion. A women with A cups in a baggy shirt is more likely to be seen as her overall self while a woman in something low cut with double-Ds is probably going to be seen as a pair of walking boobies.

BTW, a similar generalization can be made about transgender people. Many TG people seem to be incapable of walking through a public place without constantly being conscious of whether people are looking at them or not.

Quote from: Lyric on September 02, 2015, 08:50:43 PM
BTW, a similar generalization can be made about transgender people. Many TG people seem to be incapable of walking through a public place without constantly being conscious of whether people are looking at them or not.

Well imo some transgender people from early on tried to read others expectations... so knowing should help... and maybe concentrating on some inner feeling of joy...
and not overdoing things, its like makeup... cis people do not wear lots of makeup usually either.

Well, boobies are attractive... in all sizes  :)


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Did someone say boobs??? ;)

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Quote from: Michelle G on September 03, 2015, 03:07:11 PM
Did someone say boobs??? ;)

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boobies with freckles... a plus  :)

they just feel so comfortable in a nice dress

I'd considered getting really big boobs instead of FFS figuring that at that point, no one would be looking at my face anyway. My therapist didn't think that was a very solid plan.

I like that idea Abby!

That works for a lot of girls I know ;)

Quote from: Laura_7 on September 03, 2015, 03:28:09 PM
boobies with freckles... a plus  :)

Un tanned lily white boobies with freckles under that top, lol

O.K. here's the cunundrum , girl born in a boys body and I LIKE girls. Of course I look at boobs but the girl inside always reminded me ,don't stare or be creepy just a glance is enough. Now if I end up going down the transition path and I still LIKE girls at the end, as a girl am I allowed to stare or does that make me a creepy girl? :o

Quote from: AbbyDS74 on September 03, 2015, 04:40:31 PM
I'd considered getting really big boobs instead of FFS figuring that at that point, no one would be looking at my face anyway. My therapist didn't think that was a very solid plan.

Strictly judging from you avatar pic, I'd say you made a pretty good choice.

Aw, so sweet! Thanks Lyric!

Don't limit this to guys!  I catch cis women checking mine out all the time.  They do it to other cis women all the time too.  :)

Agreed Joi. I've only seen it once but it definitely happens.

Last night my boss said something like, "People who look at boobs live longer." I can dig it. Boobs are great. Having them is even better. :) Sometimes though, I catch myself feeling myself up... in public...

I love taking showers

I don't have much up top yet well not much that was not there just due to my weight but I am always adjusting things, showing them off, looking at my own cleavage. It's a addiction I think but s good one.

Serena

On the Weird Award aspect for this topic.  Most times having guys check out the girls doesn't bother me. Then again, I'm presenting as female when they do. However, in my full inglorious balding male mode at the supermarket last evening, one old guy just couldn't keep his eyes off the bouncing balls.

I don't want to call this my first bra-less experience

Quote from: stephaniec on September 05, 2015, 06:19:02 PM
I love taking showers

+1  :)

on a similar note I was looking down my shirt a little while ago. (after having taken off my bra and additions :-) ) and when I walk or bounce there is really a decent amount of jiggle going on. I just wish I paid more attention to my pre HRT chest status to have some Idea of how much if any my chest has changed.

Serena