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Title: FTM hysto surgery
Post by: bwr on September 04, 2015, 04:59:15 PM
Post by: bwr on September 04, 2015, 04:59:15 PM
My BF and I met with the surgeon to schedule his hysto. Aside from a little awkwardness by the receptionist in the OBGYN waiting room, it went great!
Before going in, I was so worried about surgery. I am excited for him and this doctor does robotic laparoscopic, so recovery time can be quick. I think waiting for his phallo and the ability to have that extra physical intimacy is going to be harder for me then him.
I had no preference either way before. In fact I was terrified of bottom surgery. Now I cannot wait! It makes me feel guilty sometimes because I don't want it to come across like he is inadequate, but I think I'm picking up on his dysphoria....
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Before going in, I was so worried about surgery. I am excited for him and this doctor does robotic laparoscopic, so recovery time can be quick. I think waiting for his phallo and the ability to have that extra physical intimacy is going to be harder for me then him.
I had no preference either way before. In fact I was terrified of bottom surgery. Now I cannot wait! It makes me feel guilty sometimes because I don't want it to come across like he is inadequate, but I think I'm picking up on his dysphoria....
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Title: Re: FTM hysto surgery
Post by: Laura_7 on September 04, 2015, 05:08:27 PM
Post by: Laura_7 on September 04, 2015, 05:08:27 PM
Well congratulations :)
Just try to relax...
and you could have a look here:
https://www.susans.org/forums/index.php/topic,189332.msg1698168.html#msg1698168
hugs
Just try to relax...
and you could have a look here:
https://www.susans.org/forums/index.php/topic,189332.msg1698168.html#msg1698168
hugs
Title: Re: FTM hysto surgery
Post by: bwr on September 04, 2015, 05:45:25 PM
Post by: bwr on September 04, 2015, 05:45:25 PM
Thank you! I am accessing the site through the app and have a hard time navigating in. I'll need to get on a computer so I can explore all these threads!
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Title: Re: FTM hysto surgery
Post by: Laura_7 on September 04, 2015, 06:37:13 PM
Post by: Laura_7 on September 04, 2015, 06:37:13 PM
Quote from: bwr on September 04, 2015, 05:45:25 PM
Thank you! I am accessing the site through the app and have a hard time navigating in. I'll need to get on a computer so I can explore all these threads!
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Yep... take your time :)