Community Conversation => Transsexual talk => Female to male transsexual talk (FTM) => Topic started by: phoenix633 on September 09, 2015, 11:22:13 PM Return to Full Version
Title: bottom dysphoria issues
Post by: phoenix633 on September 09, 2015, 11:22:13 PM
Post by: phoenix633 on September 09, 2015, 11:22:13 PM
If I decide I wanna try to enjoy this area of my body I just feel totally numb there and can't feel anything. Then I feel sick to my stomach and anxious and frustrated. Part of what makes me uncomfortable is when I get sensation "hole" that I don't want there. The only time I can feel anything sexually is in dreams where I am a man. I am starting T in a few weeks and I am afraid the increase in libido will make this worse or make me anxious. Maybe it will help things, I'm just not sure and it makes me apprehensive. Maybe I'll have a lot of dreams. I like the dreams but wish I could enjoy myself when awake.
Title: Re: bottom dysphoria issues
Post by: dentistsandthedark on September 10, 2015, 04:13:19 PM
Post by: dentistsandthedark on September 10, 2015, 04:13:19 PM
Have you tried just masturbating externally?
Title: Re: bottom dysphoria issues
Post by: jlaframboise on September 12, 2015, 12:34:35 AM
Post by: jlaframboise on September 12, 2015, 12:34:35 AM
I was in the same boat as you, and in some ways I still Am, before I started T. Periods were EXTREMELY horrible. But I will say from experience that the bottom growth you'll have might change some things. It's different for every guy but for me, I started getting, I guess what you could call erections after dreams like you mentioned and it made the dysphoria disappear.
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Title: Re: bottom dysphoria issues
Post by: Muscle Matt on September 12, 2015, 09:45:17 AM
Post by: Muscle Matt on September 12, 2015, 09:45:17 AM
I'm not on T yet (hopefully October 8th!), but I've been taking different transition herbs. Most recently, I've begun using a Horny Goat Weed (oral) spray. It helps with blood flow down there. Since I've started using it, my little guy definitely gets hard like the real thing, and has even grown the slightest bit, and even though I'm still very dysphoric about that whole situation, it helps just knowing such a thing is possible. In my teens, my libido was sky-high, but even then the thing never got hard, and was always just kinda barely even there. I'm still going to be very dysphoric for a very long time, but I've gained a little bit of confidence for what the future holds, just from my pre-T results.
From what people seem to be saying, when you first get on T, your little guy will hurt and ache from growing, so you can probably expect more sensations from that thing than from your extra hole. Just try not to worry about it too much, and focus your energy on the positive changes that will be happening to your body as a whole once you start on T.
From what people seem to be saying, when you first get on T, your little guy will hurt and ache from growing, so you can probably expect more sensations from that thing than from your extra hole. Just try not to worry about it too much, and focus your energy on the positive changes that will be happening to your body as a whole once you start on T.