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Title: Male crossdressers...how do you identify sexually?
Post by: dearlybeloved on September 14, 2015, 03:23:51 PM
Post by: dearlybeloved on September 14, 2015, 03:23:51 PM
Male crossdressers...how do you identify sexually?
Title: Re: Male crossdressers...how do you identify sexually?
Post by: Devlyn on September 14, 2015, 03:28:59 PM
Post by: Devlyn on September 14, 2015, 03:28:59 PM
Are you asking about Male to Female crossdressers?
Title: Re: Male crossdressers...how do you identify sexually?
Post by: Kerry30Den on September 15, 2015, 12:58:19 PM
Post by: Kerry30Den on September 15, 2015, 12:58:19 PM
As a male who cross dresses I consider myself straight as I'm attracted to women only. Dressing isn't about being attractive to males, but feeling comfort for me. I'm fortunate enough to have found a wife who likes and encourages this side of me.
Title: Re: Male crossdressers...how do you identify sexually?
Post by: Kendra14 on September 15, 2015, 11:00:54 PM
Post by: Kendra14 on September 15, 2015, 11:00:54 PM
Straight when dressed in men's attire but bi or queer when dressed en femme . Always attracted to women, but there is something about wearing pantyhose and lipstick that makes me want to be with men too, especially other cross dressed men
Title: Re: Male crossdressers...how do you identify sexually?
Post by: SueNZ on September 16, 2015, 12:52:29 AM
Post by: SueNZ on September 16, 2015, 12:52:29 AM
Quote from: Kerry30Den on September 15, 2015, 12:58:19 PMI am the same. If I was a female I would be a lesbian.
As a male who cross dresses I consider myself straight as I'm attracted to women only. Dressing isn't about being attractive to males, but feeling comfort for me. I'm fortunate enough to have found a wife who likes and encourages this side of me.
I just love the feel and look of female attire on me even though I will never be passable.
My wife has said since I now am free to express myself that she has found me more settled and a nicer person.
Title: Re: Male crossdressers...how do you identify sexually?
Post by: Kerry30Den on September 16, 2015, 05:24:31 PM
Post by: Kerry30Den on September 16, 2015, 05:24:31 PM
Quote from: SueNZ on September 16, 2015, 12:52:29 AM
I am the same. If I was a female I would be a lesbian.
I just love the feel and look of female attire on me even though I will never be passable.
My wife has said since I now am free to express myself that she has found me more settled and a nicer person.
I don't try to be passable either. I find that I'm more settled and nicer since I accepted who I am. I spent a lot of energy fighting it and trying to be someone else and that affected my personality. Once I'd sorted it out I was free to just be me. I'm not a pushover by any means, but I am less prone to aggravation on the smaller things in life. I also find that I'm more optimistic with a site of pragmatic where I was more of a pessimist before. Funny how things like acceptance and getting in touch with yourself bring out those better personality traits.
Title: Re: Male crossdressers...how do you identify sexually?
Post by: Sandy74 on September 16, 2015, 11:09:03 PM
Post by: Sandy74 on September 16, 2015, 11:09:03 PM
In my inner feelings I think I am a transgender woman but in reality I am male of course and I consider myself gay. I am not really that attracted to women in a sexual way. I am attracted and jealous of the body parts that they have that I don't have but other than that nothing more. I have been sexual with females and I am passive these days when I am with guys and enjoy being dominated.
Title: Re: Male crossdressers...how do you identify sexually?
Post by: cheryl reeves on September 17, 2015, 12:07:19 AM
Post by: cheryl reeves on September 17, 2015, 12:07:19 AM
I'm attracted too women I love everything about a womans body,nothing about a males body holds any attraction to me,I find it odd though I am attracted to she male porn, wife even has a hard time understanding that one also.
Title: Re: Male crossdressers...how do you identify sexually?
Post by: Kerry30Den on September 17, 2015, 08:31:07 AM
Post by: Kerry30Den on September 17, 2015, 08:31:07 AM
Quote from: cheryl reeves on September 17, 2015, 12:07:19 AM
I'm attracted too women I love everything about a womans body,nothing about a males body holds any attraction to me,I find it odd though I am attracted to she male porn, wife even has a hard time understanding that one also.
I've seen this question about the attraction to ->-bleeped-<- porn and what does it mean before. From what I've read it doesn't mean you are attracted to men, but that you are attracted to women. A ->-bleeped-<- has that extra bit that a genetic girl doesn't. That bit is a symbol of power and virility and many straight guys are attracted to what it represents, it being attached to an attractive female form makes it more accessible/acceptable to like to your psyche. (lots of psycho babble there). It's also different and naughty and may fill a fantasy.
I wouldn't be too concerned and hopefully your wife isn't freaked out by it.
Title: Re: Male crossdressers...how do you identify sexually?
Post by: dearlybeloved on September 18, 2015, 09:53:53 AM
Post by: dearlybeloved on September 18, 2015, 09:53:53 AM
Quote from: Devlyn Marie on September 14, 2015, 03:28:59 PM
Are you asking about Male to Female crossdressers?
Yes, men that like to dress in women's clothing.
Title: Re: Male crossdressers...how do you identify sexually?
Post by: dearlybeloved on September 18, 2015, 09:56:32 AM
Post by: dearlybeloved on September 18, 2015, 09:56:32 AM
Quote from: cheryl reeves on September 17, 2015, 12:07:19 AM
I'm attracted too women I love everything about a womans body,nothing about a males body holds any attraction to me,I find it odd though I am attracted to she male porn, wife even has a hard time understanding that one also.
That was another question I had. What type of porn do trans like? I could not figure out what forum section to put it.
Title: Re: Male crossdressers...how do you identify sexually?
Post by: torig on September 18, 2015, 09:19:43 PM
Post by: torig on September 18, 2015, 09:19:43 PM
Women only
Title: Re: Male crossdressers...how do you identify sexually?
Post by: Shawna70 on September 27, 2015, 11:32:01 AM
Post by: Shawna70 on September 27, 2015, 11:32:01 AM
Quote from: dearlybeloved on September 14, 2015, 03:23:51 PMWell I am married to a woman but cd as a female, i am bi as i like both genders but i prefer to live with a woman. There are times that a man can only give me what i need that a woman cant.
Male crossdressers...how do you identify sexually?
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Title: Re: Male crossdressers...how do you identify sexually?
Post by: KathyLauren on September 27, 2015, 03:31:50 PM
Post by: KathyLauren on September 27, 2015, 03:31:50 PM
If I 'had my druthers', I'd be a lesbian.
Title: Re: Male crossdressers...how do you identify sexually?
Post by: Chrissy5946 on September 27, 2015, 07:24:29 PM
Post by: Chrissy5946 on September 27, 2015, 07:24:29 PM
I'm bisexual
Absolutely adore all body types regardless, prefer Alpha males who are loving,caring and treat a lady well. Being totally submissive, my desire is to always please my partner, I do expect to be treated well and thoughtfully.
I crossdress to satisfy my female assignment at birth. I do not regret dressing as a man during work the work day, even though I'm female in my core being.
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Absolutely adore all body types regardless, prefer Alpha males who are loving,caring and treat a lady well. Being totally submissive, my desire is to always please my partner, I do expect to be treated well and thoughtfully.
I crossdress to satisfy my female assignment at birth. I do not regret dressing as a man during work the work day, even though I'm female in my core being.
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Title: Re: Male crossdressers...how do you identify sexually?
Post by: Kanda Jo on September 29, 2015, 12:45:53 PM
Post by: Kanda Jo on September 29, 2015, 12:45:53 PM
When I'm in guy mode, I am attracted only to women and CD/TG women. When I am dressed, I am attracted to men as well. There really is some weird switch in my brain that changes how I feel...maybe I'm more messed up than I thought!
Title: Re: Male crossdressers...how do you identify sexually?
Post by: Allison Wunderland on September 30, 2015, 09:59:34 PM
Post by: Allison Wunderland on September 30, 2015, 09:59:34 PM
SEXUALLY attracted to cis-F. But the attraction goes mostly toward a huge gender-envy. I wanna be female, be with females. It gets feminist/political. Alienated by male gender roles, male sexuality.
Title: Re: Male crossdressers...how do you identify sexually?
Post by: westin21 on October 13, 2015, 09:28:13 AM
Post by: westin21 on October 13, 2015, 09:28:13 AM
Sexually attracted to females, love their clothes!!!! Doesn't mean that I do not appreciate a good looking guy