Community Conversation => Transgender talk => Topic started by: InBetween on September 22, 2007, 08:11:37 PM Return to Full Version
Title: Feeling very comfortable
Post by: InBetween on September 22, 2007, 08:11:37 PM
Post by: InBetween on September 22, 2007, 08:11:37 PM
I am feeling very comfortable and very me as male...I am thinking I should cut my hair, as I want to pass better...I already have an appoint. in two weeks. Should I go through with this?
-Merrick
-Merrick
Title: Re: Feeling very comfortable
Post by: RebeccaFog on September 22, 2007, 09:29:11 PM
Post by: RebeccaFog on September 22, 2007, 09:29:11 PM
From the moment I saw your picture, I thought you could pass with a simple haircut.
I guess my opinion is Yes!
I guess my opinion is Yes!
Title: Re: Feeling very comfortable
Post by: shanetastic on September 23, 2007, 02:56:35 AM
Post by: shanetastic on September 23, 2007, 02:56:35 AM
Quote from: Rebis on September 22, 2007, 09:29:11 PM
From the moment I saw your picture, I thought you could pass with a simple haircut.
I guess my opinion is Yes!
Agree completely!
You could do some really cool stuff with your hair to and I think you'd pass almost flawlessly then!
Title: Re: Feeling very comfortable
Post by: NickSister on September 23, 2007, 04:13:12 PM
Post by: NickSister on September 23, 2007, 04:13:12 PM
What sort of cut are you thinking of getting?
clippered sides (like #2 or 3) with very short spiky top with a bit of product in it (kind of like Lanes hair)? Or something a bit longer? I reckon if your going to do it might as well go the whole hog.
I think you will look great with short hair,
You will probably have a moment of regret as they cut it, simply because it has been that way for so long. I remember when I had my long hair cut short I was like NOOOOOO!! but after a couple days mourning my old hair I loved the easyness of it being short. Also you will feel like leaping about like a newly shorn sheep, it will be so light.
clippered sides (like #2 or 3) with very short spiky top with a bit of product in it (kind of like Lanes hair)? Or something a bit longer? I reckon if your going to do it might as well go the whole hog.
I think you will look great with short hair,
You will probably have a moment of regret as they cut it, simply because it has been that way for so long. I remember when I had my long hair cut short I was like NOOOOOO!! but after a couple days mourning my old hair I loved the easyness of it being short. Also you will feel like leaping about like a newly shorn sheep, it will be so light.
Title: Re: Feeling very comfortable
Post by: InBetween on September 23, 2007, 04:53:40 PM
Post by: InBetween on September 23, 2007, 04:53:40 PM
I honestly don't know what kind of cut to do? What are your suggestions?
-Merrick Scott
-Merrick Scott
Title: Re: Feeling very comfortable
Post by: NickSister on September 23, 2007, 08:30:29 PM
Post by: NickSister on September 23, 2007, 08:30:29 PM
(https://www.susans.org/proxy.php?request=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.troupesalon.com%2Fimages%2FMens-cut-2.gif&hash=d3c20689a92eab06b7c17d69150ab56051b7471c)
This would be easy to manage, tidy, looks good.
(https://www.susans.org/proxy.php?request=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.hairstylesdesign.com%2Fimages%2Fmen_hairstyles_expic_01.jpg&hash=4a7065de308340cb7b7e3e3e58311f09013f2506)
I like pete from fallout boy so had to include this one.
(https://www.susans.org/proxy.php?request=http%3A%2F%2Fhaircutsformen.org%2Fbuzz%2Fhaircuts%2Fbuzz195.jpg&hash=8ac6fe88306a48b3523cd8904881e8a83a550415)
With a bit of longer hair on top like the first pic you can style it like this anyway..
This would be easy to manage, tidy, looks good.
(https://www.susans.org/proxy.php?request=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.hairstylesdesign.com%2Fimages%2Fmen_hairstyles_expic_01.jpg&hash=4a7065de308340cb7b7e3e3e58311f09013f2506)
I like pete from fallout boy so had to include this one.
(https://www.susans.org/proxy.php?request=http%3A%2F%2Fhaircutsformen.org%2Fbuzz%2Fhaircuts%2Fbuzz195.jpg&hash=8ac6fe88306a48b3523cd8904881e8a83a550415)
With a bit of longer hair on top like the first pic you can style it like this anyway..
Title: Re: Feeling very comfortable
Post by: RebeccaFog on September 23, 2007, 08:36:02 PM
Post by: RebeccaFog on September 23, 2007, 08:36:02 PM
I prefer shaggy hair on people. Like it's grown out a little and you're too cool to waste your time combing it.
Title: Re: Feeling very comfortable
Post by: NickSister on September 23, 2007, 09:19:35 PM
Post by: NickSister on September 23, 2007, 09:19:35 PM
We could do this 'scientifically' and see what Merricks lifestyle is like then suggest hair to match.
Do you play sports?
Play an Instrument?
what sort of people do you hang with?
What music do you listen to?
Are you vegetarian or vegan?
Do you go to a private school?
If you were an animal what animal would you be?
What sort of clothes do you wear?
Are you into grooming or are you a get out of bed chuck on whatever is on the floor kind of guy?
Do you play sports?
Play an Instrument?
what sort of people do you hang with?
What music do you listen to?
Are you vegetarian or vegan?
Do you go to a private school?
If you were an animal what animal would you be?
What sort of clothes do you wear?
Are you into grooming or are you a get out of bed chuck on whatever is on the floor kind of guy?
Title: Re: Feeling very comfortable
Post by: InBetween on September 23, 2007, 11:37:58 PM
Post by: InBetween on September 23, 2007, 11:37:58 PM
No, I don't play sports, but I do work out here and there.
I don't play an instrument, but I do sing.
I hang with the "unusual" people. In general I don't judge, I just hang....but if you had to ask, mostly guys, gay guys, and tom-boyish girls.
Music? Well I listen to 80's mostly. My favorite singers are Cher and the band Dead Or Alive.
Nope, not vegetarian, not vegan.
Nope. Public school.
If I were an animal? Probably a canine of some sort..maybe a wolf.
I wear baggy-ish dark clothing, a watch and a necklace.
I am into grooming, yes.
Also...I played around with a virtual makeover program...the result?
http://www.makeoversolutions.com/makeoverGallery/145808
and
http://www.makeoversolutions.com/makeoverGallery/145809
Don't know how good they are though...
-Merrick
I don't play an instrument, but I do sing.
I hang with the "unusual" people. In general I don't judge, I just hang....but if you had to ask, mostly guys, gay guys, and tom-boyish girls.
Music? Well I listen to 80's mostly. My favorite singers are Cher and the band Dead Or Alive.
Nope, not vegetarian, not vegan.
Nope. Public school.
If I were an animal? Probably a canine of some sort..maybe a wolf.
I wear baggy-ish dark clothing, a watch and a necklace.
I am into grooming, yes.
Also...I played around with a virtual makeover program...the result?
http://www.makeoversolutions.com/makeoverGallery/145808
and
http://www.makeoversolutions.com/makeoverGallery/145809
Don't know how good they are though...
-Merrick
Title: Re: Feeling very comfortable
Post by: RebeccaFog on September 24, 2007, 07:47:06 AM
Post by: RebeccaFog on September 24, 2007, 07:47:06 AM
Quote from: InBetween (Merrick-Scott) on September 23, 2007, 11:37:58 PM
Also...I played around with a virtual makeover program...the result?
http://www.makeoversolutions.com/makeoverGallery/145808
and
http://www.makeoversolutions.com/makeoverGallery/145809
Don't know how good they are though...
-Merrick
sorry Merrick, but those links are
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Title: Re: Feeling very comfortable
Post by: InBetween on September 24, 2007, 04:02:03 PM
Post by: InBetween on September 24, 2007, 04:02:03 PM
Oh crap...okay.
-Merrick
-Merrick
Title: Re: Feeling very comfortable
Post by: mikke on September 24, 2007, 08:19:43 PM
Post by: mikke on September 24, 2007, 08:19:43 PM
Try looking through the galleries here:
http://haircutsformen.org/
and try to find someone with similar face shape to you.
http://haircutsformen.org/
and try to find someone with similar face shape to you.
Title: Re: Feeling very comfortable
Post by: InBetween on September 24, 2007, 10:30:17 PM
Post by: InBetween on September 24, 2007, 10:30:17 PM
Try this now:
http://www.makeoversolutions.com/makeoverGallery/145809
http://www.makeoversolutions.com/makeoverGallery/145808
Hopefully it should work now
-Merrick
http://www.makeoversolutions.com/makeoverGallery/145809
http://www.makeoversolutions.com/makeoverGallery/145808
Hopefully it should work now
-Merrick
Title: Re: Feeling very comfortable
Post by: NickSister on September 24, 2007, 10:46:57 PM
Post by: NickSister on September 24, 2007, 10:46:57 PM
I definitly prefer the first one. I think it looks good, though I do like the second one as well. Wait, I've changed my mind. I like the second, I think it would be a much more dramatic change.
Title: Re: Feeling very comfortable
Post by: mikke on September 24, 2007, 11:55:23 PM
Post by: mikke on September 24, 2007, 11:55:23 PM
I like the first one; I think it fits you really well. That way, if you decide you don't like it you can always go shorter.
Title: Re: Feeling very comfortable
Post by: shanetastic on September 25, 2007, 12:02:08 AM
Post by: shanetastic on September 25, 2007, 12:02:08 AM
I like the longer hair'd picture. In the end, if you don't like it that long and in your eyes from time to time you can always cut it off and do the other haircut too.
Title: Re: Feeling very comfortable
Post by: RebeccaFog on September 25, 2007, 06:21:37 PM
Post by: RebeccaFog on September 25, 2007, 06:21:37 PM
Somehow, to me, the second one looks better.
Title: Re: Feeling very comfortable
Post by: Andrew on September 25, 2007, 06:54:56 PM
Post by: Andrew on September 25, 2007, 06:54:56 PM
I think you could do worse than the "frohawk" look. (Third pic.)
That said, let me tell you what I thought when I saw your picture. Since you had long hair, I thought you were trying to pass as *female* instead of male. I was thinking Oh, geez, how is he ever going to look like a girl? Then I thought, Wait a minute... *pause while I scroll down and feel like a fool*
This has actually happened with one or two other Susans members...I guess the maleness/femaleness just shows right away...
That said, let me tell you what I thought when I saw your picture. Since you had long hair, I thought you were trying to pass as *female* instead of male. I was thinking Oh, geez, how is he ever going to look like a girl? Then I thought, Wait a minute... *pause while I scroll down and feel like a fool*
This has actually happened with one or two other Susans members...I guess the maleness/femaleness just shows right away...