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OK. Rant over. ...... Get on with it. ......  Back on the bed.

That feels better, I've got it off my chest.


Speak to you when I've finished ............... You know what !!

Huggs
Catherine

Just think about a lover (not necessarily your husband) making love to you and you are guiding him through what you enjoy so much.

Wait a moment, I have to cool off

I wish I could say me too, but I can't.

 :icon_rockon: :eusa_dance: :eusa_naughty: :eusa_hand: :icon_yes: :icon_chuckel:

Haha, I force myself to once a week. It ain't so bad...and worth it cuz sex feels better when I remember to do it ;)

Well, I sure have watched a lot of movies over time! Dilating isn't my favourite event of the day but soon it will be down to 1x a day then after June, 2x a week! Sure beats the 5x a day schedule but it was worth it!

Love,
Clare

A quiet time several times a week where I can sit still and enjoy TV, reading, listening to music or just spacing out, while at the same time celebrate that my body is now shaped the way it should be.

I actually look forward to it.

Hugs Catherine. I hope you can find some joy in it.

interesting , but not there yet, I'm still just a dreamer.

Give it 30 years or so and you'll be watching them randomly fall out of a forgotten drawer and thinking "what the heck are those? ... oh yeah I remember now!" :P

Seriously - after a while other more fun implements can be used and dilators simply dont feature.

It is a hassle!!! I know I hate i too but if u look at the big picture, in the long run it'll all be worth it. After a year its only couple times a week and sex counts as one dilation! :)

I can feel so much with you Catherine  :icon_bunch:

A "fine":icon_woowoo: Mindset doesnt help?

Hope it will be easier soon!!!

Hugs

We need to come up with a Dilation Song!

Great idea Ms Grace ,a song about the burden of it.
Yes i write one but you have to sing it :)

Hi Suzi,

Quote from: suzifrommd on November 23, 2015, 03:11:11 PM

Hugs Catherine. I hope you can find some joy in it.

Thank you for your kind words. In fact I've always considered it a privilege and a joy. To the extent when my surgeon said she wanted 5 a day for 6 weeks I gave her 6 a day for 3 months.

I'm challenged by my psoriasis down there at the minute. And as you can see, my rant was short lived.

Speak to you as soon as I've finished harvesting the wheat crop.

Huggs
Catherine

Quote from: Rejennyrated on November 23, 2015, 03:37:55 PM
Give it 30 years or so and you'll be watching them randomly fall out of a forgotten drawer and thinking "what the heck are those? ... oh yeah I remember now!" :P

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^ This totally cracked me up. Thank you for that mental image! :)

Uggghhhhhh I know what you mean! Its not too bad now but my first week of dilations I wasn't sure if I could handle doing all of them every day and if I even wanted to since I wasn't even sure I wanted a vag, just wanted that penis gone.
I still have a long way to go though since I'm only in my 3 weeks post op but I think I can make it through now

Quote from: Ms Grace on November 24, 2015, 05:39:44 AM
We need to come up with a Dilation Song!

I've been listening to 'How Deep Is Your Love' a lot while dilating. ;D

I watched so many series on my laptop,read heaps and generally relaxed.After all it's what we signed up for.

Quote from: Sapphire87 on November 24, 2015, 03:54:23 PM
Uggghhhhhh I know what you mean! Its not too bad now but my first week of dilations I wasn't sure if I could handle doing all of them every day and if I even wanted to since I wasn't even sure I wanted a vag, just wanted that penis gone.
I still have a long way to go though since I'm only in my 3 weeks post op but I think I can make it through now

I don't know if this can help, but when I was at your stage I was aiming for the next step and thinking how much better it will be than the current situation (eg 4x/day to 3x/day, from 3x/day to 2x/day) and time flies by quick as long as I don't look too far into the future, a few weeks at a time.

Ok so I'm a weirdo  ;D ;D I love dilation, I remember only a year ago thinking how the only downside to SRS was having to dilate and then when Sri got little number 1 out the first time the panic was only contained by not wanting to look stupid  :o

Because of some issues caused since the revision I've had to reduce to once a day since last weekend and I find at my 2 missing dilation times each day that I miss it so roll on Saturday when I will be back to my 3 times a day I promised Chett I'd do.

I love the idea of a song, I'll sing along of someone writes it, As Summer is about to arrive here I'll open the windows and sing it to my neighbours  ;D That should make em think  ;D ;D ;D

Hugs

Sorcha  ;D

I know it will become a pain to do but I am looking forward to dilating, to me it will be a reminder of what I finally have. I know I know I'm weird hehe

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Quote from: SorchaC on November 25, 2015, 05:19:24 PM
Ok so I'm a weirdo  ;D ;D I love dilation,

I don't think I've ever heard anyone saying that before. You might be right...

I dilated on schedule for about a year, then quit. My bad.

Well if you don't dilate anymore you might close up , get sick , then die from urinary problems like one of my friends . she preferred to bowl then to dilate herself. it will just take up a short time before you are finished with dilating.

That was 19 years ago. I'm still kicking.

Quote from: AnonyMs on November 28, 2015, 12:20:48 PM

I don't think I've ever heard anyone saying that before. You might be right...

Why thank you very much kind lady  ;D

Hugs

Sorcha  ;D

Does sex count as dilation? Serious question because I might have to find someone lol. Killing two birds with one stone here.

Sure does Natalia.

Often referred to as "organic" version.   ;D   ;D

Oh my! I didn't know that! Not to be too detailed but what if their penis isn't as big as the dilator lol. If not, I will have to find a big one. This will make my process effortless honestly.

Quote from: NataliaDoll on November 29, 2015, 11:33:44 PM
Oh my! I didn't know that! Not to be too detailed but what if their penis isn't as big as the dilator lol. If not, I will have to find a big one. This will make my process effortless honestly.

Hummm!! Don't really know the answer to that one, Natalia. I wouldn't think it was a real issue. But then again, I speaking purely from an academic viewpoint. Maybe looking at positions other than the missionary one could provide an answer.

If not effortless, certainly more effective and entertaining. The cardio vascular aspect will extend your longevity without doubt. And we haven't even looked at the weight control aspect.

Something to seriously contemplate.

Speak to you as soon as I post the mail.

Huggs
Catherine

Looks like I won't have to dilate much :)

Quote from: NataliaDoll on November 30, 2015, 12:16:06 AM
Looks like I won't have to dilate much :)

Where will you ever find guys with that much stamina  ???

Quote from: Dena on November 30, 2015, 12:31:10 AM
Where will you ever find guys with that much stamina  ???

The Hunky ones, in a gym?? 

<Insert other suggestion(s) here>   Winners will be announced in the Philadelphia Daily News, Saturday 5th December, front page. Special gala night for those supplying specimens.   >:-)   ;D


Speak to you as soon as I'm back from the gym.

Huggs
Catherine

Quote from: Catherine Sarah on November 30, 2015, 12:51:13 AM

Quote from: Dena on November 30, 2015, 12:31:10 AM
Where will you ever find guys with that much stamina  ???

The Hunky ones, in a gym?? 

<Insert other suggestion(s) here>   Winners will be announced in the Philadelphia Daily News, Saturday 5th December, front page. Special gala night for those supplying specimens.   >:-)   ;D


Speak to you as soon as I'm back from the gym.

Huggs
Catherine

I heard you were helping the Australian cricket team to properly fit 'protectors' but going to the gym!!

Depravity, just depravity: she was such a nice girl in junior school. Sister Agnes even said she would make a good fit. Oh well!

Quote from: Cindy on November 30, 2015, 01:03:18 AM
I heard you were helping the Australian cricket team to properly fit 'protectors' but going to the gym!!

Only if they measure up

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XpqqjU7u5Yc

Speak to you as soon as I get back from the haberdashery shop.


Huggs
Catherine

Quote from: Dena on November 30, 2015, 12:31:10 AM
Where will you ever find guys with that much stamina  ???

Well I would hope so! Lol. Believe me some guys would love to do it 5 times a day lol.

Quote from: NataliaDoll on November 30, 2015, 01:09:01 AM
Well I would hope so! Lol. Believe me some guys would love to do it 5 times a day lol.

WOW Natalia. If you find one, can you check if he has an eligible brother at home, please?


Speak to you as soon as I get in some training.

Huggs
Catherine

Quote from: Catherine Sarah on December 01, 2015, 10:21:09 AM
WOW Natalia. If you find one, can you check if he has an eligible brother at home, please?


Speak to you as soon as I get in some training.

Huggs
Catherine

Hahaa I will make sure he has a brother for everyone in this thread who hates dilation.

I think I found a candidate ;)

Quote from: NataliaDoll on December 01, 2015, 01:30:22 PM
Hahaa I will make sure he has a brother for everyone in this thread who hates dilation.

I think I found a candidate ;)

;D   ;D   ;D   ;D   ;D   ;D   ;D

I don't exactly hate it, it depends who what I'm doing it with.   ;D :icon_cry2:


Speak to you as soon as I get his phone number.

Huggs
Catherine

Quote from: NataliaDoll on December 01, 2015, 01:30:22 PM

Hahaa I will make sure he has a brother for everyone in this thread who hates dilation.

I think I found a candidate ;)

Darn it I miss out just because I like dilating  :o :o :o

Hugs


Sorcha  ;D

Quote from: SorchaC on December 02, 2015, 04:05:10 AM
Darn it I miss out just because I like dilating  :o :o :o

It's Christmas time Sorcha, we make exceptions. Please join the queue, just near the doorway there. You never never know, you may enjoy the "organic" ones better than your current "brand".  ;D.  ;D. :icon_cry2:


Speak to you as soon as I finish writing a list.

Huggs
Catherine

Quote from: Catherine Sarah on December 02, 2015, 05:31:01 AM

It's Christmas time Sorcha, we make exceptions. Please join the queue, just near the doorway there. You never never know, you may enjoy the "organic" ones better than your current "brand".  ;D.  ;D. :icon_cry2:


Speak to you as soon as I finish writing a list.

Huggs
Catherine

;D ;D ;D

Quote from: Rejennyrated on November 23, 2015, 03:37:55 PM
Give it 30 years or so and you'll be watching them randomly fall out of a forgotten drawer and thinking "what the heck are those? ... oh yeah I remember now!" :P

Seriously - after a while other more fun implements can be used and dilators simply dont feature.

OMG Too Funny

Isn't it like 4 times a day for the first month to dilate? How long for each dilation?

It can be up to 5 times a day for 20-30 minutes a day depending on the surgeon. Add another 10 minutes prep and clean up time and it quickly becomes a real drag.

I was working and trying to keep up with the dilatation schedule for the first month and I know I didn't dilate enough. It was pretty painful regaining what I lost but I don't think I suffered permanent damage as the result of it.

Quote from: suzifrommd on November 23, 2015, 03:11:11 PM
A quiet time several times a week where I can sit still and enjoy TV, reading, listening to music or just spacing out, while at the same time celebrate that my body is now shaped the way it should be.

I actually look forward to it.

Hugs Catherine. I hope you can find some joy in it.

What suzifrommd said!! This is my quiet time in the evening. Insert, grab the tray with the laptop, browse or watch a TV show or movie. Nobody to bother me either. :)

Quote from: NataliaDoll on December 07, 2015, 11:28:32 PM
Isn't it like 4 times a day for the first month to dilate? How long for each dilation?

It varies per surgeon. Dr. Chettawut wants three times a day for 40 minutes each which I stuck to for the first 3 months, but to simplify work, I cut down to twice a day but increased total time so it's still 2 hours or more. It's been 2 months since I modified my schedule and I've had no loss of depth and am now using the last (orange) sole source dilator.

Hi Sorcha

I love reading your comments as there so true and so funny. I don't mind dilation ether and I lay back and sing too.
I actually woke up thanksgiving morning and had and orgasm. I wanted to go back to sleep and take off were i left off but it didn't work. My cat ran out of the room when I woke up and i think she got .scared

Lyndsey

Quote from: LizMarie on December 08, 2015, 04:38:55 PM
It varies per surgeon. Dr. Chettawut wants three times a day for 40 minutes each which I stuck to for the first 3 months, but to simplify work, I cut down to twice a day but increased total time so it's still 2 hours or more. It's been 2 months since I modified my schedule and I've had no loss of depth and am now using the last (orange) sole source dilator.

Hi Liz

I had SRS with Dr Bowers in October and she told me three time a day for 15 minutes and I have not lost anything and it has only got essayer to do and I do not mind it

Hugs Lyndsey

Quote from: Lyndsey on December 08, 2015, 05:54:20 PM

Hi Sorcha

I love reading your comments as there so true and so funny. I don't mind dilation ether and I lay back and sing too.
I actually woke up thanksgiving morning and had and orgasm. I wanted to go back to sleep and take off were i left off but it didn't work. My cat ran out of the room when I woke up and i think she got .scared

Lyndsey

Awww thank you :) I'll have to post more often now  ;D

Hugs

Sorcha  ;D

You are sweet

Hugs Lyndsey >:-) :) :angel:

Here's my question, most surgeons say that you have to wait around 3 months for sex I wonder why they say that? I mean especially if we have to dilate within that time what's the different if it's a penis? I girl told me she had sex within the first month! I ask because like I said I prefer to get help dilating lol

Quote from: NataliaDoll on December 12, 2015, 03:30:53 PM
Here's my question, most surgeons say that you have to wait around 3 months for sex I wonder why they say that? I mean especially if we have to dilate within that time what's the different if it's a penis?

There is little danger that sutures will tear during dilation. Neovaginas are constructed in such a way that a dilator can be inserted fairly early in the healing process.

Sex is a much less constrained process and the possibility of ripping open a suture is much higher.

Oh my we don't want that now guess I'm on my own for dilation

Hi Sweetie

I'm 7 weeks post-op and I would never have sex before I'm suppose to. I have a boy friend that is sweating it out waiting for me. He has know choice. See that is were his brain must be because he doesn't want to listen to me.

Oh Well

lyndsey

(I hear y'all; I'm down to every other week and sometimes I don't even want to do that. ;) )

Also, until the 3-month mark I had to disinfect my dilators thoroughly before and after every session. It's hard to do that with a penis - they're not built to stand up to the sort of disinfection that plastic or even fingers can handle - and organic body parts are naturally covered in bacteria. (Especially ones used for excretion.) That's normal and fine, but a bad idea in recent surgical site. And since infection is a REALLY significant problem when there's a) serious incisions and b) a channel basically directly into the body, the surgeons want to be super cautious about keeping things as clean as possible.

Yes, the exterior vulva is also involved in excretion and hard to disinfect and that can't be helped, but they want to avoid the risks that *can* be avoided.

Yes I did hear someone say they waited a month but I will for sure listen to the surgeon I will probably realize how serious the directions are when I'm actually witnessing it still swollen I do not want an infected or torn vagina that's a no no :o

Quote from: NataliaDoll on December 12, 2015, 03:30:53 PM
Here's my question, most surgeons say that you have to wait around 3 months for sex I wonder why they say that? I mean especially if we have to dilate within that time what's the different if it's a penis? I girl told me she had sex within the first month! I ask because like I said I prefer to get help dilating lol

I'm a month post op, and as much as I want to have sex (being 23 with a high sex drive) I don't even think a penis could fit in there seeing as how tight the neovagina is this early post op & how well endowed every man I associate with is. & if it could fit in there, I'm sure it would be an uncomfortable experience for both the man & I. Also the risk of infections is high since the wound isn't fully healed. & I doubt a man would want to feel the stitches around the neovagina. I have two long stitches hanging near the entrance of my cucci right now just waiting to fall off lol.

Quote from: NataliaDoll on December 12, 2015, 03:30:53 PM
Here's my question, most surgeons say that you have to wait around 3 months for sex I wonder why they say that? I mean especially if we have to dilate within that time what's the different if it's a penis? I girl told me she had sex within the first month! I ask because like I said I prefer to get help dilating lol

I'm 9 weeks post-op and I would never have sex before I'm suppose to. I have a boy friend that is sweating it out waiting for me. He has know choice. See that is were his brain must be because he doesn't want to listen to me. You could do damage to your new apparatus

Oh Well

lyndsey

I did for about the first eight months post then said the heck with it. I just started back up after three years and everything is very good.

Quote from: Aviya on December 20, 2015, 07:59:51 PM
I did for about the first eight months post then said the heck with it. I just started back up after three years and everything is very good.

Oh My Aviya
You really kept your depth and size WOW if I go one day It hurts me to get started. I have never lost any depth but it sure dose get tight.

Lyndsey

Quote from: Lyndsey on December 21, 2015, 10:58:59 AM
Oh My Aviya
You really kept your depth and size WOW if I go one day It hurts me to get started. I have never lost any depth but it sure dose get tight.

Lyndsey

I was a good girl for over 20 years and then I kind of forgot to dilate for about 10 years. When I resumed, I was hitting the high notes without VFS and it was tight but I am back to about 5.5 inches depth and back to normal diameter. This matches well with my post surgical numbers. What is important is to get through the initial dilation while you are still healing. Once you are through that retaining size isn't as difficult.

OMG Dena

LMAO you are too funny!! I needed a good laugh tonight

Hug's
Lyndsey

Yes I did lose some depth but I've been celibate and I don't think that will ever change. I've never kept track of the dimensions of the invagination...but its there.

FOR THOSE CONTEMPLATING THIS PARTICULAR TECHNIQUE. -  BE WARNED

Quote from: Aviya on December 20, 2015, 07:59:51 PM
I did for about the first eight months post then said the heck with it. I just started back up after three years and everything is very good.

The outcome described above, may not be the same outcome you achieve.

Particular warning to those who suffer any skin ailment such as eczema, psoriasis, Lichen Planus or other such autoimmune responses. Vaginal stenosis is easy to contract and bloody difficult to remediate. Should you notice any deviance to your original dimensions the solution is simple. Dilate, dilate, dilate.

Speak to you as soon as I finish .......ing.

Huggs
Catherine

Hi everyone
I would never stop Dilating spent way to much time trying to get SRS and love what I have would never take the chance.

Hugs
lynn

Quote from: Lyndsey on December 22, 2015, 08:08:53 PM
Hi everyone
I would never stop Dilating spent way to much time trying to get SRS and love what I have would never take the chance.

Hugs
lynn

Absolutely.....everyone needs to follow their own unique path.

Yes we do like I said I will be buried with mine. You never know you may need it up there

Hugs
Lyndsey

Lyndsey, although the advice is to dilate forever, it's also possible for some women to stop... especially once they're decades post-op.

Personally, my surgeon recommends once a week for life, and I'm down to doing it once every 2-3 weeks because, to be honest, I forgot a couple of times and then realized that I'd noticed no difference in tightness or depth after missing a week. (I'm 3.5 years post-op, give or take.) So I would not do anything to risk my vagina either, but I'm confident that every other week is safe for me. :) By 20 or 30 years post, I would not be surprised if I was dilating much less frequently even than that - there are a couple post-ops on here who've made it that long and one reported that she forgot where she left her dilators for years!

I got a mr orange from soul source today, xmas present from a wonderful friend. Such a nicely packaged and quality looking dilator. Also had my 6 month checkup and have been given some steroids by surgeon. I've heard of people using estrogen creams but not steroids, I get the idea it makes the skin softer and thinner.

Anyway that's my dilating news. Keep on keeping on

My surgeon advised me to steadily decrease to find the level I need to drop to. I am only 3 month post, so that's still 2 or 3 times a day. I am hoping it will get down to once a month.

Quote from: Serenation on December 23, 2015, 06:02:31 AM
I got a mr orange from soul source today, xmas present from a wonderful friend. Such a nicely packaged and quality looking dilator. Also had my 6 month checkup and have been given some steroids by surgeon. I've heard of people using estrogen creams but not steroids, I get the idea it makes the skin softer and thinner.

Anyway that's my dilating news. Keep on keeping on

Ouch
I do not have the orange one and I have to say that one scares me! LOL
Hug's
Lyndsey

Quote from: Lyndsey on December 22, 2015, 08:24:31 PM
Yes we do like I said I will be buried with mine. You never know you may need it up there

Hugs
Lyndsey

WOW!!! Never thought of that, Lyndsey. I'll have to make a modification to the cask to accommodate them. Do you think I should pack my inflatable ones too?

Aaah dear. Yes, the infamous Mr. Orange. He can end up giving you a split personality. I've only just got back to introducing him to daily routine. Soooo nice to have him back.

Speak to you as soon as I feed the goats.

Huggs
Catherine

Quote from: Catherine Sarah on December 23, 2015, 11:19:40 AM
WOW!!! Never thought of that, Lyndsey. I'll have to make a modification to the cask to accommodate them. Do you think I should pack my inflatable ones too?

Aaah dear. Yes, the infamous Mr. Orange. He can end up giving you a split personality. I've only just got back to introducing him to daily routine. Soooo nice to have him back.

Speak to you as soon as I feed the goats.

Huggs
Catherine

Oh My Catherine

I do not have that BIG one and it scares me to death. I not sure if I should order one or not.  My boy friend is not that big.I don't want him to fall out. All his growing power went into his feet. Size 14 guys. LOL! I'm only 5'-3" tall and 140lbs. and he is 6'-3" tall and 215lbs. He almost crushes me as it is. He picks me up and carries me around like a toy.

Hug's Lyndsey

I had to go up to that orange one by about 3 months post-op! I was terrified, but it actually went OK; I needed the warm-up with a smaller dilator first for a few more weeks, but only the first day or so was tough.

(My wife informs me that in the before times, I was bigger around than that. Now I know why *she* always wanted a minute or so to adjust...!)

I remember early on, when I was on like finger size ones and they were very difficult, and I'd look at the 1.5 inch wide one and just think, that's never going to happen but after 3-4 months I think most people probably can.

I tried Mr orange last night, I've been on a 1.5 inch wide one for about 4 months now, but mine was straight and more tapered. Mr Orange being curved, having a flatter head and even getting used to the dots and the weight is going to take some adjustment time.

I still dilate twice a day sometimes (I'm at 7 months), but it's xmas eve and I love just being able to say, not going to dilate this morning.

I was joking to my bf I should have done an unboxing video.

I am 5 yrs post op and for various reasons had to stop dilating for 7 months. I started up again last week and although it was a bit tight I have lost no depth. The key as I was told is to follow the first 3 months instructions to the letter and it will pay dividends in the long run. Otherwise I have natural dilation :-) and use the stents every month or so.

Hi Gentlebreeze,

Quote from: gentlebreeze on December 29, 2015, 01:27:56 PM
...... The key as I was told is to follow the first 3 months instructions to the letter and it will pay dividends in the long run. .........

You are absolutely right. The first 3 months are imperatively  pivotal to your future success

My surgeon damn near demanded 5 dilation per day for the first 6 weeks. I had the respect for her to give her 6 a day for the first 3 months. I'm sooooo greatful I did. (You're only licences to complain about dilation if you have done more than that  :D )

Lichen Planus (a form of Psoriasis) causing vaginal stenosis has thrown a spanner in the works, yet without the previous efforts from the orange one, I wouldn't be as advanced in the fight to regain it all, as I am today.

Take care of yourselves.

Speak to you as soon as I finish .....ing.    (Yes I know it's a repeat, but it's worth repeating :D)

Huggs
Catherine

Hi  Catherine

I must say I really don't mind it and I know what the end result are so I would never destroy what I have worked so hard for. YEAH bring it on.

Lyndsey

Hi Lyndsey,

I must be sick ;D. ;D ;D ;D. The other week when I got back to the orange one; it felt just soooooo good to have it back. Felt like old home week, welcoming a long lost friend back home. It felt so right and so comfortable.

As I said, I must be really sick.  ;D  ;D  ;D

Speak to you as soon as the cricket restarts  ;D

Huggs
Catherine

Quote from: Jenna Marie on December 22, 2015, 08:56:23 PM
Lyndsey, although the advice is to dilate forever, it's also possible for some women to stop... especially once they're decades post-op.

Personally, my surgeon recommends once a week for life, and I'm down to doing it once every 2-3 weeks because, to be honest, I forgot a couple of times and then realized that I'd noticed no difference in tightness or depth after missing a week. (I'm 3.5 years post-op, give or take.) So I would not do anything to risk my vagina either, but I'm confident that every other week is safe for me. :) By 20 or 30 years post, I would not be surprised if I was dilating much less frequently even than that - there are a couple post-ops on here who've made it that long and one reported that she forgot where she left her dilators for years!

Hi Jenna

I think maybe I mite try that after a year or so and If it works than that will be great. Thanks for the Imformation

Hug's
Lyndsey

Oh my this topic motivates me to dilate even more since my irish fiancè is 9" and waiting for me to heal before he can eat me up. *nervous


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Poor Qcammy  9 "  :embarrassed:   Pffff that,s inhuman for many woman.
I would sleeve him so he can,t poke my lungs out.
Wonder if you have asked your doctor for 9" depth and he said "SURE  in your dreams  >:-)

A shocked BlonT

Quote from: BlonT on January 11, 2016, 10:16:59 AM
Poor Qcammy  9 "  :embarrassed:   Pffff that,s inhuman for many woman.
I would sleeve him so he can,t poke my lungs out.
Wonder if you have asked your doctor for 9" depth and he said "SURE  in your dreams  >:-)

A shocked BlonT

Hahaaa. I could happily take all his niner in my anal anytime. But i don't think it would be nice for my vajayjay. Maybe super gentle would be great and i think it would be perfect for organic dilation. :)


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Yeah honestly though the beginning is very time consuming and it feels like your life revolves around it eventually it becomes something you almost forget about. I'm at 14 months post op from Suporn, only do it once every 2 weeks or so and still have the full 16cm I started with.

Hi Girls

I'm very happy that I only have to dilate one a week

Lyndsey