Community Conversation => Transgender talk => Topic started by: Shandril on December 12, 2015, 09:31:56 PM Return to Full Version
Title: Hugs :(
Post by: Shandril on December 12, 2015, 09:31:56 PM
Post by: Shandril on December 12, 2015, 09:31:56 PM
Heyas i had an awkward day lol
First i decided to wear bras full time, which is awesome and a big step.
Some push up others not so much, they just retain ie sports bras.
So anyways i mainly just wear sports bras when im going out so its not as obvious other than my small b cup.
Went for lunch with my mother in law, when i said goodbye she gave a hug and totally felt the bra like theres no way she couldnt have lol.
Same night was my works xmas party, i decided to wear a small bra but was easily concealable with my attire, end of the night my manager took a handshake to a hug lol.
Damn people and their hugs!
Kinda feels good though as i know both people would be generally accepting and pretty darn sure they both know or are guessing it.
On a side note, i went shopping with my wife today for her and for like the first time ever i was working with her piecing together her outfit, even went bra shopping for me after lol.
~Shan~
First i decided to wear bras full time, which is awesome and a big step.
Some push up others not so much, they just retain ie sports bras.
So anyways i mainly just wear sports bras when im going out so its not as obvious other than my small b cup.
Went for lunch with my mother in law, when i said goodbye she gave a hug and totally felt the bra like theres no way she couldnt have lol.
Same night was my works xmas party, i decided to wear a small bra but was easily concealable with my attire, end of the night my manager took a handshake to a hug lol.
Damn people and their hugs!
Kinda feels good though as i know both people would be generally accepting and pretty darn sure they both know or are guessing it.
On a side note, i went shopping with my wife today for her and for like the first time ever i was working with her piecing together her outfit, even went bra shopping for me after lol.
~Shan~
Title: Re: Hugs :(
Post by: Dayta on December 12, 2015, 09:59:17 PM
Post by: Dayta on December 12, 2015, 09:59:17 PM
Same thing happened to me within a week of me wearing sports bras under my shirts. And the world didn't end, either. Don't let it slow you down.
Title: Re: Hugs :(
Post by: Ms Grace on December 12, 2015, 10:23:59 PM
Post by: Ms Grace on December 12, 2015, 10:23:59 PM
The worst thing I found about hugs in the early days of HRT was that they could be very painful thanks to developing breasts. Never had a bra issue as I never started wearing one until I went full time.
Title: Re: Hugs :(
Post by: Tristyn on December 12, 2015, 10:39:29 PM
Post by: Tristyn on December 12, 2015, 10:39:29 PM
Quote from: Shandril on December 12, 2015, 09:31:56 PM
Heyas i had an awkward day lol
First i decided to wear bras full time, which is awesome and a big step.
Some push up others not so much, they just retain ie sports bras.
So anyways i mainly just wear sports bras when im going out so its not as obvious other than my small b cup.
Went for lunch with my mother in law, when i said goodbye she gave a hug and totally felt the bra like theres no way she couldnt have lol.
Same night was my works xmas party, i decided to wear a small bra but was easily concealable with my attire, end of the night my manager took a handshake to a hug lol.
Damn people and their hugs!
Kinda feels good though as i know both people would be generally accepting and pretty darn sure they both know or are guessing it.
On a side note, i went shopping with my wife today for her and for like the first time ever i was working with her piecing together her outfit, even went bra shopping for me after lol.
~Shan~
Yeah, I'm not really big on hugs myself. In fact, I honestly hate being touched. But after spending much of my earlier days on this earth only knowing neglect for a while, I guess a part of me is tryin' to see that not everyone has to be mistrusted. Yeah, its annoying to me sometimes but I think most people who offer hugs have really good intentions and is their way of expressing that. I suppose so. I'm still trying to learn how to accept those good intentions.