Community Conversation => Transsexual talk => Non-Op => Topic started by: imissmymama on January 09, 2016, 02:12:35 AM Return to Full Version
Title: sometimes non op but sometimes want surgery
Post by: imissmymama on January 09, 2016, 02:12:35 AM
Post by: imissmymama on January 09, 2016, 02:12:35 AM
Well I have been on female hormones for over a decade but I can tell you I am still struggling with the idea of having a surgery
I never lost my ability to masturbate...I feel like I really want to rip it off after I masturbate (and I like how it feels, but I don't like how it looks)
and right after I wake up, I still feel like a little "erection", those are the moments I really want surgery
but when its small and inactive, I feel nothing about it
does anyone feel this way? ???
I never lost my ability to masturbate...I feel like I really want to rip it off after I masturbate (and I like how it feels, but I don't like how it looks)
and right after I wake up, I still feel like a little "erection", those are the moments I really want surgery
but when its small and inactive, I feel nothing about it
does anyone feel this way? ???
Title: Re: sometimes non op but sometimes want surgery
Post by: Cindy on January 09, 2016, 02:32:17 AM
Post by: Cindy on January 09, 2016, 02:32:17 AM
There is nothing wrong in being non-op.
My surgeon was quite clear.
Only have the op if YOU want it. It makes no difference to you being female, it makes no difference to anything.
If you have doubts of any kind - don't have the op.
If you are non-op and change your mind you can have it, if you are post-op and change your mind, you are stuck with what you have.
BTW I never discuss if I have or haven't. My genitals are my business, no one else's.
My surgeon was quite clear.
Only have the op if YOU want it. It makes no difference to you being female, it makes no difference to anything.
If you have doubts of any kind - don't have the op.
If you are non-op and change your mind you can have it, if you are post-op and change your mind, you are stuck with what you have.
BTW I never discuss if I have or haven't. My genitals are my business, no one else's.
Title: Re: sometimes non op but sometimes want surgery
Post by: stephaniec on January 09, 2016, 03:11:09 AM
Post by: stephaniec on January 09, 2016, 03:11:09 AM
I feel the same way about it. I'm really on the edge of the borderline of yes and no