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Title: My first ma'am!
Post by: TechGirl on February 04, 2016, 11:05:55 AM
Post by: TechGirl on February 04, 2016, 11:05:55 AM
So, just out running some errands (shopping return, got some new clip on earrings), and I decided to stop for lunch.
I got ma'am ed by the waiter! First time! Woot!
(disclaimer: part time transgirl, not on hrt, wig, makeup, skirt, and very obviously not cis)
(https://www.susans.org/proxy.php?request=http%3A%2F%2Fuploads.tapatalk-cdn.com%2F20160204%2Fec4092b47bcc9fc58a13e1bed4707d93.jpg&hash=e03c835b550a9236ccc0f6993adc313f3e603f94)
I got ma'am ed by the waiter! First time! Woot!
(disclaimer: part time transgirl, not on hrt, wig, makeup, skirt, and very obviously not cis)
(https://www.susans.org/proxy.php?request=http%3A%2F%2Fuploads.tapatalk-cdn.com%2F20160204%2Fec4092b47bcc9fc58a13e1bed4707d93.jpg&hash=e03c835b550a9236ccc0f6993adc313f3e603f94)
Title: Re: My first ma'am!
Post by: Meghan on February 04, 2016, 11:07:26 AM
Post by: Meghan on February 04, 2016, 11:07:26 AM
Quote from: TechGirl on February 04, 2016, 11:05:55 AMYou're look great.
So, just out running some errands (shopping return, got some new clip on earrings), and I decided to stop for lunch.
I got ma'am ed by the waiter! First time! Woot!
(disclaimer: part time transgirl, not on hrt, wig, makeup, skirt, and very obviously not cis)
(https://www.susans.org/proxy.php?request=http%3A%2F%2Fuploads.tapatalk-cdn.com%2F20160204%2Fec4092b47bcc9fc58a13e1bed4707d93.jpg&hash=e03c835b550a9236ccc0f6993adc313f3e603f94)
Luanne
Title: Re: My first ma'am!
Post by: RobynD on February 04, 2016, 11:09:10 AM
Post by: RobynD on February 04, 2016, 11:09:10 AM
Awesome! What a great feeling that is.
Title: Re: My first ma'am!
Post by: TechGirl on February 04, 2016, 11:09:18 AM
Post by: TechGirl on February 04, 2016, 11:09:18 AM
Quote from: luanneph on February 04, 2016, 11:07:26 AMThank you!
You're look great.
Luanne
(first time out fully as myself)
Title: Re: My first ma'am!
Post by: Mariah on February 04, 2016, 11:14:41 AM
Post by: Mariah on February 04, 2016, 11:14:41 AM
Yay, congrats. You look great. Hugs
Mariah
Mariah
Title: Re: My first ma'am!
Post by: TechGirl on February 04, 2016, 11:41:24 AM
Post by: TechGirl on February 04, 2016, 11:41:24 AM
Here's a few more pics. Absolutely wonderful day!
(https://www.susans.org/proxy.php?request=http%3A%2F%2Fuploads.tapatalk-cdn.com%2F20160204%2F3292cb487473cc109f546afb70d1f5a1.jpg&hash=20e28de02e16914c48ac1f22c5bc578ec6186de5)
(https://www.susans.org/proxy.php?request=http%3A%2F%2Fuploads.tapatalk-cdn.com%2F20160204%2Fde2e30228b07d1d39230e577b4272b22.jpg&hash=1f88c8d133b50c25c0ee4f9d6baaf8beaf2617de)
(yes, know I need new glasses, on my list
(https://www.susans.org/proxy.php?request=http%3A%2F%2Fuploads.tapatalk-cdn.com%2F20160204%2F3292cb487473cc109f546afb70d1f5a1.jpg&hash=20e28de02e16914c48ac1f22c5bc578ec6186de5)
(https://www.susans.org/proxy.php?request=http%3A%2F%2Fuploads.tapatalk-cdn.com%2F20160204%2Fde2e30228b07d1d39230e577b4272b22.jpg&hash=1f88c8d133b50c25c0ee4f9d6baaf8beaf2617de)
(yes, know I need new glasses, on my list
Title: Re: My first ma'am!
Post by: Eevee on February 04, 2016, 12:58:11 PM
Post by: Eevee on February 04, 2016, 12:58:11 PM
Congrats, TechGirl! You look wonderful and the world is noticing.
Title: Re: My first ma'am!
Post by: TechGirl on February 04, 2016, 08:37:52 PM
Post by: TechGirl on February 04, 2016, 08:37:52 PM
Despite the rain, I had a wonderful day today. I went shopping, ate at a restaurant, and reapplied makeup in multiple ladies rooms (with other ladies in them!).
Best of all, my wife is gradually opening up to this side of me. She gave me her opinion on my makeup, clothes, and my overall look today. When I got home, she was able to joke about some of the things I do to dress (i.e. tucking).
Lastly, she didn't say anything about me wearing my new forms to bed (been taboo from the start of me coming out).
All in all, these past two months, while starting horribly (didn't leave/divorce me, but wasn't very accepting of me coming out either) have been shaping up ok.
Saturday I have a breakfast with a group of like minded ladies, my first social outing. And later that night I'm attending a small support group meeting (at least I think it is, Gender Expressions Movement).
Think there's hope for me yet [emoji4]
Best of all, my wife is gradually opening up to this side of me. She gave me her opinion on my makeup, clothes, and my overall look today. When I got home, she was able to joke about some of the things I do to dress (i.e. tucking).
Lastly, she didn't say anything about me wearing my new forms to bed (been taboo from the start of me coming out).
All in all, these past two months, while starting horribly (didn't leave/divorce me, but wasn't very accepting of me coming out either) have been shaping up ok.
Saturday I have a breakfast with a group of like minded ladies, my first social outing. And later that night I'm attending a small support group meeting (at least I think it is, Gender Expressions Movement).
Think there's hope for me yet [emoji4]
Title: Re: My first ma'am!
Post by: Chrissy1979 on February 04, 2016, 09:16:24 PM
Post by: Chrissy1979 on February 04, 2016, 09:16:24 PM
That's awesome tech girl, good for you!!
Title: Re: My first ma'am!
Post by: Amanda_Combs on February 04, 2016, 11:48:49 PM
Post by: Amanda_Combs on February 04, 2016, 11:48:49 PM
Congratulations! You look great BTW. If I just saw you out somewhere, I don't think the idea that you're not cis would ever cross my mind. I can only imagine how fulfilling it must be to finally be recognized as yourself.
Title: Re: My first ma'am!
Post by: autumn08 on February 05, 2016, 11:48:50 AM
Post by: autumn08 on February 05, 2016, 11:48:50 AM
Congratulations! You look great!
Title: Re: My first ma'am!
Post by: leacobb on February 06, 2016, 12:51:26 AM
Post by: leacobb on February 06, 2016, 12:51:26 AM
Congrats techgirl... You do look amazing and im so happy things are going well for you.. Xx
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