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I've been flashed intentionally by men in the past year. I mean flashing by having them standing in front of you and pulling up their shirt to expose their well crafted stomach muscle. It's done nonchalantly in an expression of innocently pulling up their shirt and rubbing their stomach, but it just seems too much of a coincidence that they happen to be standing right in front of your view. It's quite curious because it's been done to me by cute guys. It happened to me again tonight while sitting in Starbucks. This guy that had the seat next to me when standing up to leave flashed me his very well crafted stomach. I like men so it didn't bother me except to give me a rush. I mean he was quite the looker and had me drooling for the time he was sitting next to me, but the appearance of his well crafted stomach pushed my buttons. I was just curious if others have experienced this phenomena since transitioning .

Not I, but I've certainly gotten some pretty absurd proposals.

I thought you might have been talking about flashing something a bit further down. I knew a woman years ago who seemed to attract these grubs in trench coats who would flash their dongs at her. I was wondering the other day if guys still did that or whether or not the majority of them now resort instead to sending 'dick pics' via dating apps?

I know , not enough room in the heading for a proper title. I did have a guy last summer look at me as I was liking an ice cream cone grab his crotch as he walked towards me.

I haven't been flashed, but a married guy I just met tried to convince me to give him a ->-bleeped-<-. It's just another reason I don't go out much if I can help it.

Well yea n no. Guys I meet at bars n flirt with I always tell them to show me their abs so I know Wat I'm getting.

Quote from: Angélique LaCava on February 18, 2016, 08:11:36 AM
Well yea n no. Guys I meet at bars n flirt with I always tell them to show me their abs so I know Wat I'm getting.

makes sense

I don't know about the  'since starting HRT' part, but it has happened in gym settings, pools, beach and other outdoor settings.  I've always wanted to flash them in return but I am far too shy. If you decide to flash back, do tell us about it  ;)

Who does that? A nice smile and a hello would be more appropriate; I would just get creeped out if some random guy intentionally pulled up their shirt and flashed me, and if they flashed anything else I would call  :police:

it's very weird I was sitting in a café by a big picture window and a guy in his early 20's flashed his tight stomach at me. I was just wondering if that's the thing now.

I was flashed buy some drunk guy called Lionel once when waiting to pick up the then current foster kid off the bus. That dunk guy tried so hard to get in my pants that he showed me how endowed he was. He failed.

Ab Flashing - the new way to obtain girlfriends!

Ah I don't think so!

I did get flashed while out running by a guy showing his penis. I just stopped looked and told him mine was double the size but I had it cut off and maybe he should do the same, then continued my jog.

I think I may have damaged his ego. :laugh:

Quote from: Cindy on February 19, 2016, 01:09:14 AM
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I did get flashed while out running by a guy showing his penis. I just stopped looked and told him mine was double the size but I had it cut off and maybe he should do the same, then continued my jog.

I think I may have damaged his ego. :laugh:

:laugh: :laugh: :laugh:

Not yet but I'm certainly starting to notice cute guys more. It is strange as before I didn't really notice; I was more upset that I wasn't in the body of *insert random passing girl* here.

Makes me wonder if what you experienced is just a normal thing xD

I can't tell what is , I'll see this summer if it happens again. It could be because I'm a lot older and some young guys what to see my expression, I don't know.

Not quite. When I had long copper hair, a guy ask me to give him a bj in public as I was walking, some guys scream ginger at me, I was compared to Kurt Cobain (the style), and I was passable as a real ginger because another ginger sat next to me *one of us*.

Not abs, no.  However I have been propositioned dozens of times/offered money for sex, and got shown Junior at least once.  Most notably, a gent gave me a free peak in the candy isle at CVS.

Of course I seem to draw dirty old men with my bratty mannerisms, and most are rocking beer bellies so not much for them to flaunt I guess.

This topic stirred old memories, it was about 5 years ago, I was out for walk, I was just past 2 years HRT at this point, and heard the car pull up slowly from behind, then the side window comes down, and I hear "ma'am would you like some", I turned and saw this 30 something holding his wing wong and looking at me with hungry eyes, this guy was serious, I said nothing and turned away repulsed, fortunately somebody came up behind his car and he had to move on. This was a wake call for me being older (who would be interested in me ?).

Creepy..

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