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Title: Hello from the confused and curious
Post by: RedJack on October 14, 2007, 05:13:11 PM
Post by: RedJack on October 14, 2007, 05:13:11 PM
Well, its prolly time to introduce m'self, after all I started a rather hot thread before I even introduced m'self, not that there's much to tell, I'm weirdly boring.
Ok, I'm a 35, 5ft12, 230 or so pound male with brown hair, hazel eyes and no fashion sense, something that's against the rules as I'm gay (sorta). Oh, and I have a rather self effacing sense of humor obviously, after all, ifn I can't laugh at m'self, who can I laugh at. I'm a workaholic, driving a taxi for 84hrs a week, and have no real hobbies, I work, sleep, eat and hang out on the web (looking at too much porn, I'm addicted, gotta fix that before anything else).
How did I get here? Not much to tell there either, survived school, almost literally as I made it through with no real friends, mostly just went to school, and went home and read books or played by m'self. I mentioned my porn addiction, that has roots in my sexual behaviour starting before I was six, and is a logical direction considering my lack of friends/playmates over the years. Most interesting thing on that aspect is that I find sex in general uninteresting, although whether that's from saturation (unlikely, this has been the case since I got past puberty) or just my nature, and I'm in a relationship with a lovely man, albeit with no sex in the relationship (nope, no real drive or interest in the real world).
Since its likely to come up as its a topic that interests me, religiously I'm ostensibly Christian, although that's far from accurate. I grew up in a Christian household, although my mother was never sure which church was for her, and has never found it. My own beliefs are a mixture of logic and pagan beliefs with heavy Christian references within, and technically I'm not a Christian as I haven't found a place for Jesus in my beliefs. I believe in 2 higher powers, God and the Devil for lack of better terms, reincarnation, Heaven and Hell (obviously I believe in symmetry), and believe that neither Creationism or Evolution are correct, but rather a blend of the two, an idea given to me by CS Lewis' Chronicles of Narnia, specifically book 6, The Magician's Nephew. Its a fairly simple religion heavily, basically a meritocracy.
Hmmm, I think that covers anything anyone is likely ever to ask me about, and is likely far more than any of you ever wanted to know.
Ok, I'm a 35, 5ft12, 230 or so pound male with brown hair, hazel eyes and no fashion sense, something that's against the rules as I'm gay (sorta). Oh, and I have a rather self effacing sense of humor obviously, after all, ifn I can't laugh at m'self, who can I laugh at. I'm a workaholic, driving a taxi for 84hrs a week, and have no real hobbies, I work, sleep, eat and hang out on the web (looking at too much porn, I'm addicted, gotta fix that before anything else).
How did I get here? Not much to tell there either, survived school, almost literally as I made it through with no real friends, mostly just went to school, and went home and read books or played by m'self. I mentioned my porn addiction, that has roots in my sexual behaviour starting before I was six, and is a logical direction considering my lack of friends/playmates over the years. Most interesting thing on that aspect is that I find sex in general uninteresting, although whether that's from saturation (unlikely, this has been the case since I got past puberty) or just my nature, and I'm in a relationship with a lovely man, albeit with no sex in the relationship (nope, no real drive or interest in the real world).
Since its likely to come up as its a topic that interests me, religiously I'm ostensibly Christian, although that's far from accurate. I grew up in a Christian household, although my mother was never sure which church was for her, and has never found it. My own beliefs are a mixture of logic and pagan beliefs with heavy Christian references within, and technically I'm not a Christian as I haven't found a place for Jesus in my beliefs. I believe in 2 higher powers, God and the Devil for lack of better terms, reincarnation, Heaven and Hell (obviously I believe in symmetry), and believe that neither Creationism or Evolution are correct, but rather a blend of the two, an idea given to me by CS Lewis' Chronicles of Narnia, specifically book 6, The Magician's Nephew. Its a fairly simple religion heavily, basically a meritocracy.
Hmmm, I think that covers anything anyone is likely ever to ask me about, and is likely far more than any of you ever wanted to know.
Title: Re: Hello from the confused and curious
Post by: NickSister on October 14, 2007, 07:19:34 PM
Post by: NickSister on October 14, 2007, 07:19:34 PM
Well Red Jack, you certainly sound like an interesting guy!
See you around.
See you around.
Title: Re: Hello from the confused and curious
Post by: Suzy on October 14, 2007, 07:30:59 PM
Post by: Suzy on October 14, 2007, 07:30:59 PM
Welcome, Red Jack!
We look forward to hearing more from you. What a fascinating introduction.
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We look forward to hearing more from you. What a fascinating introduction.
(https://www.susans.org/proxy.php?request=http%3A%2F%2Fganjataz.com%2F01smileys%2Fimages%2Fsmileys%2FloopyBlonde-blinking.gif&hash=4545ddf8251cf9c32ae6074d56e48bc34a755857)Kristi
Title: Re: Hello from the confused and curious
Post by: Bobbie on October 15, 2007, 10:17:20 AM
Post by: Bobbie on October 15, 2007, 10:17:20 AM
Hi Red Jack!
Welcome to Susan's.
Good to hear from you. :)
Bobbie xx
Welcome to Susan's.
Good to hear from you. :)
Bobbie xx
Title: Re: Hello from the confused and curious
Post by: Jaynatopia on October 15, 2007, 11:43:44 AM
Post by: Jaynatopia on October 15, 2007, 11:43:44 AM
Welcome Red Jack!
A sense of humor is always a good thing. Careful about working too hard, it can damage your health! Sadly I can relate, I work a long day and then go home and bust my butt on my thesis. My free time is little and I work as hard as I can so I can at least get one day off on the weekend...sigh. But almost done.
Religion is always an interesting topic for me as well. Probably because I am so undecided.... spiritually.
Again thanks for the great introduction.
-Jayna
A sense of humor is always a good thing. Careful about working too hard, it can damage your health! Sadly I can relate, I work a long day and then go home and bust my butt on my thesis. My free time is little and I work as hard as I can so I can at least get one day off on the weekend...sigh. But almost done.
Religion is always an interesting topic for me as well. Probably because I am so undecided.... spiritually.
Again thanks for the great introduction.
-Jayna
Title: Re: Hello from the confused and curious
Post by: RedJack on October 17, 2007, 12:55:12 PM
Post by: RedJack on October 17, 2007, 12:55:12 PM
Thanks for the welcomes all.
Title: Re: Hello from the confused and curious
Post by: Lori on October 17, 2007, 01:09:55 PM
Post by: Lori on October 17, 2007, 01:09:55 PM
Well since you love humor...
Wanna see my tits??
J/k...that was definately an interesting intro. I'm still curious as to how you found yourself at Susan's. You'll be a breast...whups...breath of fresh air. :eusa_whistle:
Wanna see my tits??
J/k...that was definately an interesting intro. I'm still curious as to how you found yourself at Susan's. You'll be a breast...whups...breath of fresh air. :eusa_whistle:
Title: Re: Hello from the confused and curious
Post by: RedJack on October 17, 2007, 04:57:37 PM
Post by: RedJack on October 17, 2007, 04:57:37 PM
That's actually the easy one, my first thread that started up a bit of a dust storm. The most likely source for real answers, not half-assed and dangerous suggestions was a transgender forum, even if it didn't fully fit here. Thankfully, the place was as friendly as it looked, so I got my answers and found a place that I like being at.