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Title: Today i completely through stereotypes out the window!
Post by: Midnightstar on April 05, 2016, 02:33:34 PM
Post by: Midnightstar on April 05, 2016, 02:33:34 PM
A couple nights ago I was actually worried that because my father caught me painting my nails even though i consider myself a guy, i worried they would never take me seriously.
I don't know what it was that hit my mindset I don't know what started all I know is that I
have for a long time always wanted to dye my hair pink or purple. Even though I was scared of the assumptions that would be made by family and friends I immediately just said I already messed up enough. And instead of thinking about it but never actually going through with that I finally went through with it! :) My hair is cut in a masculine style with purple/lilacish color. It's really interesting how I was terrified about what people would think about me and I get this done and realized I actually look more masculine and I feel a lot more brave for doing not only what I had done but for literally being myself. I felt like telling this I know it's more story but I think it's important to note that if you're doubting/scared you can overcome your fears. You never know you might end up more confident. (This goes for anyone)
I don't know what it was that hit my mindset I don't know what started all I know is that I
have for a long time always wanted to dye my hair pink or purple. Even though I was scared of the assumptions that would be made by family and friends I immediately just said I already messed up enough. And instead of thinking about it but never actually going through with that I finally went through with it! :) My hair is cut in a masculine style with purple/lilacish color. It's really interesting how I was terrified about what people would think about me and I get this done and realized I actually look more masculine and I feel a lot more brave for doing not only what I had done but for literally being myself. I felt like telling this I know it's more story but I think it's important to note that if you're doubting/scared you can overcome your fears. You never know you might end up more confident. (This goes for anyone)
Title: Re: Today i completely through stereotypes out the window!
Post by: arice on April 05, 2016, 02:37:22 PM
Post by: arice on April 05, 2016, 02:37:22 PM
Good for you!
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Title: Re: Today i completely through stereotypes out the window!
Post by: Elis on April 05, 2016, 02:41:05 PM
Post by: Elis on April 05, 2016, 02:41:05 PM
Good news; I'm so so happy for you :). I would love to someday dye my hair pink with platinum blond but I don't think future employers would like that ::).
I really want to get my ears repierced but I'm too nervous of what my dad will think. I may just go for it after all.
I really want to get my ears repierced but I'm too nervous of what my dad will think. I may just go for it after all.
Title: Re: Today i completely through stereotypes out the window!
Post by: Midnightstar on April 05, 2016, 02:48:19 PM
Post by: Midnightstar on April 05, 2016, 02:48:19 PM
Quote from: Elis on April 05, 2016, 02:41:05 PMI say go for it!
Good news; I'm so so happy for you :). I would love to someday dye my hair pink with platinum blond but I don't think future employers would like that ::).
I really want to get my ears repierced but I'm too nervous of what my dad will think. I may just go for it after all.
it's about nobody but you :)
who knows, you might really like it.
Title: Re: Today i completely through stereotypes out the window!
Post by: Elis on April 05, 2016, 03:01:04 PM
Post by: Elis on April 05, 2016, 03:01:04 PM
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I say go for it!
it's about nobody but you :)
who knows, you might really like it.
Thanks :). Did your dad say anything?
Title: Re: Today i completely through stereotypes out the window!
Post by: Midnightstar on April 05, 2016, 03:30:44 PM
Post by: Midnightstar on April 05, 2016, 03:30:44 PM
Quote from: Elis on April 05, 2016, 03:01:04 PMHe didn't really comment so i don't know what he thinks
Thanks :). Did your dad say anything?
i think they just assume i look really crazy but besides that whatever but it wasn't bashing me
and he still liked it.
Title: Re: Today i completely through stereotypes out the window!
Post by: KarlMars on April 05, 2016, 04:18:34 PM
Post by: KarlMars on April 05, 2016, 04:18:34 PM
Maybe he was just surprised. You don't fear him getting violent or anything do you?
Title: Re: Today i completely through stereotypes out the window!
Post by: Midnightstar on April 05, 2016, 06:56:00 PM
Post by: Midnightstar on April 05, 2016, 06:56:00 PM
Quote from: alienbodybuilder on April 05, 2016, 04:18:34 PMNah, not on that i just feared the outcome
Maybe he was just surprised. You don't fear him getting violent or anything do you?
it was fine in the end and everything.
Title: Re: Today i completely through stereotypes out the window!
Post by: KarlMars on April 07, 2016, 07:49:38 AM
Post by: KarlMars on April 07, 2016, 07:49:38 AM
Quote from: Midnightstar on April 05, 2016, 06:56:00 PM
Nah, not on that i just feared the outcome
it was fine in the end and everything.
Glad to hear it was fine!
Title: Re: Today i completely through stereotypes out the window!
Post by: Rebecca on April 24, 2016, 03:11:17 AM
Post by: Rebecca on April 24, 2016, 03:11:17 AM
Good for you.
You only get one life and you can spend it any way you please but you can only spend it once.
Enjoy ☺
You only get one life and you can spend it any way you please but you can only spend it once.
Enjoy ☺