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Title: Hello
Post by: Nemka on April 08, 2016, 08:33:03 PM
Hello all,
I'm just starting out myself, but rather scared. All my life I've been fighting the problems of being born a guy....And I 've been rather depressed about it all my life.
I'm about to turn 35....And I'm not sure where to start at all. one of my friends suggested I post here to say hello and talk to you all...Search and learn...But there also is a problem....I am not...well the smartest apple in the tree. Being born with Dyslexia and ADHA....does not help and trying to learn all this that I need to do is rather confusing...
Title: Re: Hello
Post by: Mariah on April 08, 2016, 08:46:37 PM
Hi Nemka, welcome to Susan's. I wasn't much older when I started my transition than you are. I look forward to seeing you around the forums. Good luck and Hugs
Mariah


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Title: Re: Hello
Post by: Dena on April 08, 2016, 09:18:54 PM
Welcome to Susan's Place. Where you start is up to you because there are so many places to start. The first thing would be to find a good gender therapist and that would take you to HRT if you desire it. On your own, you could start beard removal, makeup, growing your hair out, voice work and learning about everything you ever wanted to know on this site. We have about 10 years of posting history for you to learn from. Feel free to ask questions on this thread and I will be happy to help you.

We are all scared at first and that's why most of us take a long time coming out but you are among friends on this site and we are more than happy to help you.
Title: Re: Hello
Post by: Nemka on April 08, 2016, 09:21:27 PM
Quote from: Dena on April 08, 2016, 09:18:54 PM
Welcome to Susan's Place. Where you start is up to you because there are so many places to start. The first thing would be to find a good gender therapist and that would take you to HRT if you desire it. On your own, you could start beard removal, makeup, growing your hair out, voice work and learning about everything you ever wanted to know on this site. We have about 10 years of posting history for you to learn from. Feel free to ask questions on this thread and I will be happy to help you.

We are all scared at first and that's why most of us take a long time coming out but you are among friends on this site and we are more than happy to help you.

I'd love to find a good gendertherapist....I'm not sure where to start on this...
Title: Re: Hello
Post by: Mariah on April 08, 2016, 09:23:25 PM
There are resources online like phycology today that can help you locate a local gender therapist. Hugs
Mariah
Title: Re: Hello
Post by: Dena on April 08, 2016, 09:33:09 PM
You should check out your insurance if you have it because there might be one that's covered by your plan. The local LGBT center is also a good resource for locating somebody near you. I haven't needed a therapist in year but I checked the local center's web site and several therapist/therapy groups were listed.
Title: Re: Hello
Post by: V M on April 08, 2016, 10:21:43 PM
Hi Nemka  :icon_wave:

Welcome to Susan's  :)  Glad to have you here, join on in the fun

Hugs

V M
Title: Re: Hello
Post by: gennee on April 08, 2016, 10:33:49 PM
A hearty welcome to Susan's, Nemka.
Title: Re: Hello
Post by: DogSpirit on April 09, 2016, 09:49:01 AM
Welcome, Nemka! You've found a good place.

-- Sue
Title: Re: Hello
Post by: Laura_7 on April 09, 2016, 02:57:41 PM
Hello and welcome  :)

*hugs*

If you have questions just ask.

You could look at the link there for therapists:
https://www.susans.org/forums/index.php/topic,162888.msg1400316.html#msg1400316

and you could look here:
https://www.susans.org/forums/index.php/topic,188309.msg1674885.html#msg1674885


Don't be shy, take part and ask questions ... people are friendly and try to help.


*hugs*
Title: Re: Hello
Post by: Nemka on April 09, 2016, 03:38:16 PM
thank you all, so much.