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Title: Getting Married Tuesday
Post by: ChristineHaylett on April 10, 2016, 03:05:29 PM
Post by: ChristineHaylett on April 10, 2016, 03:05:29 PM
I've got the best news ever , after years of depression and pain I've found my wife to be a Miss Josie Haylett and come Tuesday Ill be getting married to her.
Just 4 years ago I moved from Essex to Suffolk with my Parents next door to Josie's Fathers house and met Josie for the first time. 2 years later I moved out to my own place and lost all contact with her. She moved to Stoke Ferry with her granddad and I went to Downham Market(Norfolk) we was so close to each other but we knew we one town apart. The amazing thing was we both did our shopping on Thursdays around the same time in Downham Market yet we did not bump into each other at all.
Then I came out and sadly as a few people on this site may know my life then went to pot with the discrimination against me in court etc. I got put on bail conditions to my parents house and just so happened that Josie was visiting her Father and knocked on the my mothers door after her sister told her there was a Girl(me) living next door and I just happened answer the door to her.
We chatted at the door and Josie did not even recognize me at first so then I told her "Jose it's me" she was ever so confused and could not place me, then she clicked and got ever so excited. I invited her in and we just chatted away for an hour talking about make up and llamas. We exchanged numbers and facebook and kept chatting online.
I finally got my home back with my conditions lifted and that same day I felt highly suicidal but I did not tell anyone what I was about to do(suicide), Josie popped online and chatted to me and she could tell by gut instinct something was wrong with me. She asked for my address and bless her heart she smashed her piggy bank open and used the all her money had to get a taxi to mine(she was saving for a ticket to a concert.)
15 minutes later there was a knock at my door and there stood Josie, she came in and helped me clean the mess the people who broke in caused and comforted me all night long. She even hugged me and did not let go all night in bed till stopped crying then I feel sleep in her arms.
From this moment I asked her out and she said yes, she has supported me each day, she sees me as the person I am , she helped in court and is wonderful to me. I gave her lot of love and support in return and then her grandad kicked her out so I offered her a place to stay here and live with me, 2 days later she moved in. Our love for each other sky rocketed so high my depression started lifting for the first time in my life and I've started smiling. she loves me sooo much and then on the 12th of August she asked me to Marry her and I said yes I would love too.
9 months later we are to be married on Tuesday, and we are having a honeymoon in Cornwall Looe for a week.
This proves to me no matter how much negative there is in ones life there is always a bright side round the corner.
I found true love and happiness at last .
We will post photos soon as they become available to us.
Just 4 years ago I moved from Essex to Suffolk with my Parents next door to Josie's Fathers house and met Josie for the first time. 2 years later I moved out to my own place and lost all contact with her. She moved to Stoke Ferry with her granddad and I went to Downham Market(Norfolk) we was so close to each other but we knew we one town apart. The amazing thing was we both did our shopping on Thursdays around the same time in Downham Market yet we did not bump into each other at all.
Then I came out and sadly as a few people on this site may know my life then went to pot with the discrimination against me in court etc. I got put on bail conditions to my parents house and just so happened that Josie was visiting her Father and knocked on the my mothers door after her sister told her there was a Girl(me) living next door and I just happened answer the door to her.
We chatted at the door and Josie did not even recognize me at first so then I told her "Jose it's me" she was ever so confused and could not place me, then she clicked and got ever so excited. I invited her in and we just chatted away for an hour talking about make up and llamas. We exchanged numbers and facebook and kept chatting online.
I finally got my home back with my conditions lifted and that same day I felt highly suicidal but I did not tell anyone what I was about to do(suicide), Josie popped online and chatted to me and she could tell by gut instinct something was wrong with me. She asked for my address and bless her heart she smashed her piggy bank open and used the all her money had to get a taxi to mine(she was saving for a ticket to a concert.)
15 minutes later there was a knock at my door and there stood Josie, she came in and helped me clean the mess the people who broke in caused and comforted me all night long. She even hugged me and did not let go all night in bed till stopped crying then I feel sleep in her arms.
From this moment I asked her out and she said yes, she has supported me each day, she sees me as the person I am , she helped in court and is wonderful to me. I gave her lot of love and support in return and then her grandad kicked her out so I offered her a place to stay here and live with me, 2 days later she moved in. Our love for each other sky rocketed so high my depression started lifting for the first time in my life and I've started smiling. she loves me sooo much and then on the 12th of August she asked me to Marry her and I said yes I would love too.
9 months later we are to be married on Tuesday, and we are having a honeymoon in Cornwall Looe for a week.
This proves to me no matter how much negative there is in ones life there is always a bright side round the corner.
I found true love and happiness at last .
We will post photos soon as they become available to us.
Title: Re: Getting Married Tuesday
Post by: Tessa James on April 10, 2016, 03:11:59 PM
Post by: Tessa James on April 10, 2016, 03:11:59 PM
Great turnaround Christine! Congratulations and thank you for sharing such happy news that offers the possibility of finding love for others out there too.
Title: Re: Getting Married Tuesday
Post by: arice on April 10, 2016, 03:18:52 PM
Post by: arice on April 10, 2016, 03:18:52 PM
Wonderful! Congrats! Wishing you a lifetime of love and happiness together.
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Title: Re: Getting Married Tuesday
Post by: Maybebaby56 on April 10, 2016, 03:33:37 PM
Post by: Maybebaby56 on April 10, 2016, 03:33:37 PM
What a wonderful story! Congratulations, Christine. Well done. I wish you both all the happiness in the world.
With kindness,
Terri
With kindness,
Terri
Title: Re: Getting Married Tuesday
Post by: stephaniec on April 10, 2016, 03:59:21 PM
Post by: stephaniec on April 10, 2016, 03:59:21 PM
congrats
Title: Re: Getting Married Tuesday
Post by: big kim on April 10, 2016, 04:25:45 PM
Post by: big kim on April 10, 2016, 04:25:45 PM
Congratulations
Title: Re: Getting Married Tuesday
Post by: ChristineHaylett on April 10, 2016, 05:59:23 PM
Post by: ChristineHaylett on April 10, 2016, 05:59:23 PM
Thank you all x
Title: Re: Getting Married Tuesday
Post by: Josefa on April 14, 2016, 11:36:54 PM
Post by: Josefa on April 14, 2016, 11:36:54 PM
:icon_archery: :icon_walk:
Congrats to you two and as Bob Dylan sang, "And may you stay forever young, forever young, forever young, May you stay, forever young".
Josefa
Congrats to you two and as Bob Dylan sang, "And may you stay forever young, forever young, forever young, May you stay, forever young".
Josefa