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Through a combination of events this past week I was evicted from the apartment I've lived in for some 18 years. I have a feeling a little transphobia was mixed into the broth that has made me into a street person, but there are a lot of factors that occurred in a short period of time that spiraled into my downfall. The positives are that warm weather is here and I have a very dedicated social worker that has been my savior through very difficult times. She's pulled me from suicide and depression and nightmarish crippling mental issues. I walked into her office today in tears accompanied by my old companion suicide and I walked out with Chinese food and Coke in my stomach and a warm crown of hope. I wish everyone in need of hope and loving care could have a therapist like her.

Stephanie, I'm so sorry this has happened to you. I'm glad you have that SW -- she sounds like a gem, and I'm sure she'll be working her tail off to help you with more than Chinese and Coke! (Although when they come up with the C&C, you know they really care!)  Take care of yourself, and do NOT lose that hope. You've come this far, and you'll get through this, too. Sending you my very best wishes.

thank you

I am so sorry to hear the bad news (leavened by some human generosity).  I hope things take a positive turn quickly; I'm sure they will.

Hi Steph stay positive and hang on in there .I am sure that things will work out for You in the long term

Hugs Toni

That must have been a shock. I'm glad someone is helping you, and hope things will get resolved soon.

I'm sorry that you have lost your home but relieved that you have someone helping you. I hope your situation is resolved soon and that you are able to move forward stronger and happier than ever.

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thanks for all the positivity.

Sending you positive vibes - stay blessed!

Oh know, I'm so sorry Stephanie :( You are such a sweetie, and I know that the good will come back around. Hang in there, it def sounds like you have some good support there! And we are here for you too *hugs*

J

So sorry to hear your news! It is wonderful that you have such a person as your social worker, who can give you support in these times of need. Hope is critical! Hopefully you will find your 'feet' soon! Hugs!

Quote from: stephaniec on April 21, 2016, 10:23:06 PM
Through a combination of events this past week I was evicted from the apartment I've lived in for some 18 years. I have a feeling a little transphobia was mixed into the broth that has made me into a street person, but there are a lot of factors that occurred in a short period of time that spiraled into my downfall. The positives are that warm weather is here and I have a very dedicated social worker that has been my savior through very difficult times. She's pulled me from suicide and depression and nightmarish crippling mental issues. I walked into her office today in tears accompanied by my old companion suicide and I walked out with Chinese food and Coke in my stomach and a warm crown of hope. I wish everyone in need of hope and loving care could have a therapist like her.

Besides my therapist, I would be contacting a lawyer also.

well, I got the shock of a life time. I stayed up all night wandering the city wondering what I needed to do to keep on going. I came face to face with why a woman shouldn't wander the streets at 3 AM by herself , but that's another story. I get back to my neighborhood at 12 pm and go to a restaurant across the street from my apartment building. I was on the internet trying to reserve a room at the Hilton down the street for the night until I could see about government housing. I'm sitting there trying to figure out why the Hotel site wouldn't let me log on. I see someone coming towards me out of the side of my eye and look up to see my sister and my niece staring at me. I haven't seen my sister in 20 years. It was quite a shock to say the least. I guess my sister found out what happened and wanted to help out. I guess the landlord didn't want to evict me. My sister got me a room at the Hilton for 3 days and I can go back to my apartment Monday.

Thank god for this

That is wonderful news!

That is a roller coaster of a ride.  It seems it has all worked out.  This is great.

Be safe.  No more wondering around!.

I look forward to what ever additional details you wish to share.

Hugs Girl!

Jen

Thank goodness!

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I have been reading your posts. You seem such a sweet person. So sorry you had to go through this. But silver lining - a sister you haven't seen in 20 years!!  Stay safe.   :)

Quote from: SophiaBleu on April 22, 2016, 06:17:07 PM
But silver lining - a sister you haven't seen in 20 years!!  Stay safe.   :)

I would have to say the silver lining here is that you did not surrender to the impulse to kill yourself!  What a waste that would have been.  And we all would have missed the best part of this story.

Among the gold standard of bad ideas, suicide is ALWAYS the mother-of-all-bad-ideas!

Stay safe and always value yourself.

thanks everyone. Pretty weird , I haven't been so depressed since before I knew I could make this journey.  My sister says she totally accepts my transition. Does anyone know how to work those single cup coffee things. I got one in my hotel room that doesn't want to make me coffee.

Quote from: stephaniec on April 22, 2016, 05:08:43 PM
well, I got the shock of a life time. I stayed up all night wandering the city wondering what I needed to do to keep on going. I came face to face with why a woman shouldn't wander the streets at 3 AM by herself , but that's another story. I get back to my neighborhood at 12 pm and go to a restaurant across the street from my apartment building. I was on the internet trying to reserve a room at the Hilton down the street for the night until I could see about government housing. I'm sitting there trying to figure out why the Hotel site wouldn't let me log on. I see someone coming towards me out of the side of my eye and look up to see my sister and my niece staring at me. I haven't seen my sister in 20 years. It was quite a shock to say the least. I guess my sister found out what happened and wanted to help out. I guess the landlord didn't want to evict me. My sister got me a room at the Hilton for 3 days and I can go back to my apartment Monday.

I am so happy to hear that things are turning around for you. As you know, I am homeless at the moment and I can completely relate to the feelings of complete despair. Your presence here has done a great many people, including myself a lot of good. We need you. The world needs you. Stay strong.

thanks , I hope your fortunes turn soon too

wow! sorry about the circumstances but glad to hear things are looking up again

Quote from: stephaniec on April 22, 2016, 07:26:44 PM
Does anyone know how to work those single cup coffee things. I got one in my hotel room that doesn't want to make me coffee.

When you stay in a Hilton, the service is off the scale. You only need ask at the front desk and the problem will be solved. I stayed at a Marriott hotel last summer and if I needed anything, the problem was solved before I knew it. I could get spoiled staying in a place like that pretty quick.

thanks

Always a good sign when problems turn from homelessness to getting the dang coffee thing to work. :P Glad it worked out, though. And that's a pretty awesome bonus with your sister!

I'm so glad to hear things are going to work out for you.  :)

truly the last thing I expected, she found me by randomly asking students on the street

Hi stephaniec I am so glad things are working out for you at last .Such a bonus getting Your Sister back Having someone close supporting You is such a safety net when things get hard . I was totally gobsmacked when after going to visit my Baby sister for the first time since my transition she said " I was a little worried how I would react to seeing You at first But now we have got together for a while4 I must say I prefer You as My Sister then my Brother " That had me in floods of tears I will say .So good luck and I hope things continue to get better

Toni B

thanks , a lot better than having no one to turn to.

Stephanie...... I Was shocked to read the thread title and subsequent posts but so relieved to hear that things have turned around. I'm so glad for you.....your thoughtful posts and questions on here are a source of hope for many of us and your sharp sense of humor has made me laugh many times.....thank you for all that you do and may your fortunes keep improving.....
Hugs
D
xo

thank you so much, I'm really glad I can help

Glad to see that things turned right round for you!

thanks

Quote from: Miharu Barbie on April 22, 2016, 06:33:29 PM
I would have to say the silver lining here is that you did not surrender to the impulse to kill yourself!  What a waste that would have been.  And we all would have missed the best part of this story.

Among the gold standard of bad ideas, suicide is ALWAYS the mother-of-all-bad-ideas!

Stay safe and always value yourself.

Hear hear. Life. It's a terrible thing to waste. Stephanie in the short time I have been on this site you have shown yourself to be a strong advocate. The community needs that. Hillary was not lying when she said it takes a village.

I wish this was not a metaphorical hug, but I'll send it along anyway.

DawnOday

I have a glorious history as an advocate in my  own way and the liberation of humanity will move forward.

Steph, I am so glad things worked out. While reading I had tears of happiness for you.

glad i read the whole thread..happy ending  :)  very cool

Quote from: stephaniec on April 21, 2016, 10:23:06 PM
Through a combination of events this past week I was evicted from the apartment I've lived in for some 18 years. I have a feeling a little transphobia was mixed into the broth that has made me into a street person, but there are a lot of factors that occurred in a short period of time that spiraled into my downfall. The positives are that warm weather is here and I have a very dedicated social worker that has been my savior through very difficult times. She's pulled me from suicide and depression and nightmarish crippling mental issues. I walked into her office today in tears accompanied by my old companion suicide and I walked out with Chinese food and Coke in my stomach and a warm crown of hope. I wish everyone in need of hope and loving care could have a therapist like her.

I am terribly sorry that you are in this position. It will be difficult, just as is the case now, but I have confidence that you can overcome this. I was a part of the homeless club.myself for a while. Kind people saved me from it and afforded me a new life... Just keep as many people close as you can, and never stop fighting for your right to be who you are.

Claire

thanks everyone Things have turned around quite nicely.

Be it ever so humble, there's no place like home . . .