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Title: How do you Identify?
Post by: Amato on May 26, 2016, 12:48:27 PM
Post by: Amato on May 26, 2016, 12:48:27 PM
Just curious.
I did see the roll call and intro threads, but figured it'd be nice to visually see the # of people that identify with certain labels.
I did see the roll call and intro threads, but figured it'd be nice to visually see the # of people that identify with certain labels.
Title: Re: How do you Identify?
Post by: Devlyn on May 26, 2016, 12:56:10 PM
Post by: Devlyn on May 26, 2016, 12:56:10 PM
I'm somewhere in the genderfluid/bi-gender/non-binary neighborhood with some two-spirit mixed in, but your poll only allows one selection. :(
Hugs, Devlyn
Hugs, Devlyn
Title: Re: How do you Identify?
Post by: cindianna_jones on May 26, 2016, 12:56:27 PM
Post by: cindianna_jones on May 26, 2016, 12:56:27 PM
Female
Title: Re: How do you Identify?
Post by: Devlyn on May 26, 2016, 12:59:45 PM
Post by: Devlyn on May 26, 2016, 12:59:45 PM
Quote from: Cindi Jones on May 26, 2016, 12:56:27 PM
Female
That's not exactly a non-binary selection, c'mon, show some adventurous spirit!! :laugh:
Hugs, Devlyn
Title: Re: How do you Identify?
Post by: Amato on May 26, 2016, 01:04:21 PM
Post by: Amato on May 26, 2016, 01:04:21 PM
Quote from: Devlyn Marie on May 26, 2016, 12:56:10 PM
I'm somewhere in the genderfluid/bi-gender/non-binary neighborhood with some two-spirit mixed in, but your poll only allows one selection. :(
Hugs, Devlyn
Sorry, but I kinda wanted to keep things simple and have it be a 1 person 1 vote kinda deal.
Title: Re: How do you Identify?
Post by: Devlyn on May 26, 2016, 01:09:12 PM
Post by: Devlyn on May 26, 2016, 01:09:12 PM
Very well, one vote for genderfluid, then. I usually feel more in tune with my female side, and I always present female, but on rare days I find myself feeling like a man dressed as a girl.
Hugs, Devlyn
Hugs, Devlyn
Title: Re: How do you Identify?
Post by: Asche on May 26, 2016, 01:10:24 PM
Post by: Asche on May 26, 2016, 01:10:24 PM
I actually don't identify as anything, or to put it another way, I identify as "me." Non-binary is usually what I say, though, since it simply says what you aren't.
Title: Re: How do you Identify?
Post by: cindianna_jones on May 26, 2016, 01:10:34 PM
Post by: cindianna_jones on May 26, 2016, 01:10:34 PM
Quote from: Devlyn Marie on May 26, 2016, 12:59:45 PM
That's not exactly a non-binary selection, c'mon, show some adventurous spirit!! :laugh:
Hugs, Devlyn
I was confused by the choices available until I read this response and looked at which section of the site this post was made. I usually don't pay much attention to that since I look at just look at the list of posts I haven't read yet. Shame on me. I should know better. ;)
But... I suppose there is a non binary aspect to me that may be of interest. I am asexual. That doesn't fit the 'norm.'
Title: Re: How do you Identify?
Post by: Devlyn on May 26, 2016, 01:14:50 PM
Post by: Devlyn on May 26, 2016, 01:14:50 PM
Quote from: Cindi Jones on May 26, 2016, 01:10:34 PMQuote from: Devlyn Marie on May 26, 2016, 12:59:45 PM
That's not exactly a non-binary selection, c'mon, show some adventurous spirit!! :laugh:
Hugs, Devlyn
I was confused by the choices available until I read this response and looked at which section of the site this post was made. I usually don't pay much attention to that since I look at just look at the list of posts I haven't read yet. Shame on me. I should know better. ;)
But... I suppose there is a non binary aspect to me that may be of interest. I am asexual. That doesn't fit the 'norm.'
I knew you were going to say that! Moderators Curse, you can go anywhere and it's easy to forget where you are! ;D
Hugs, Devlyn
Title: Re: How do you Identify?
Post by: Elis on May 26, 2016, 01:19:50 PM
Post by: Elis on May 26, 2016, 01:19:50 PM
Sorry; didn't see the 'other' option and clicked on the questioning option instead. I'd say I'm 10% ish agender and the rest male. I don't feel nb enough to call myself that; although maybe it would fit better. To fit in I'm stick being seen as male :/
Title: Re: How do you Identify?
Post by: arice on May 26, 2016, 01:53:55 PM
Post by: arice on May 26, 2016, 01:53:55 PM
I'm on my phone so I can't see polls or vote...
I am mostly masculine with a very large serving of agender thrown in. I also don't deny the effects of 37 years of dealing with the world from within a female body. I also like to mess with stereotypes so if I was consistently read as male, I would probably allow myself more feminine expression... just to mess with people.
In an ideal world, I would wake up tomorrow a happy gay man (fully functional male body) who enjoyed being "mom" to his kids and "partner" to his husband. I would be perceived by the world the way I currently perceive myself.
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I am mostly masculine with a very large serving of agender thrown in. I also don't deny the effects of 37 years of dealing with the world from within a female body. I also like to mess with stereotypes so if I was consistently read as male, I would probably allow myself more feminine expression... just to mess with people.
In an ideal world, I would wake up tomorrow a happy gay man (fully functional male body) who enjoyed being "mom" to his kids and "partner" to his husband. I would be perceived by the world the way I currently perceive myself.
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Title: Re: How do you Identify?
Post by: Rin-likes-rain on May 26, 2016, 04:45:59 PM
Post by: Rin-likes-rain on May 26, 2016, 04:45:59 PM
I'm genderflow, which is a type of genderfluidity, so I just put genderfluid. took me forever to figure it out.
Title: Re: How do you Identify?
Post by: suzifrommd on May 26, 2016, 05:29:32 PM
Post by: suzifrommd on May 26, 2016, 05:29:32 PM
I'm a non-binary trans woman.
I present as a binary woman (best I can) but my internal gender experience is kind of a fluid mix of male, female, nothing at all or something else entirely.
I present as a binary woman (best I can) but my internal gender experience is kind of a fluid mix of male, female, nothing at all or something else entirely.
Title: Re: How do you Identify?
Post by: Soli on May 26, 2016, 05:52:56 PM
Post by: Soli on May 26, 2016, 05:52:56 PM
I don't know :-\
I was kind of surprised when I registered at Susan's to see there were all these categories ??? and couldn't figure which I fit in. I don't feel man at all but feel no need to get SRS, I... will be both. I don't know... I can't say I'm a woman, I feel like an imposteur ... I'll say I'm trans, is that ok? :P
I was kind of surprised when I registered at Susan's to see there were all these categories ??? and couldn't figure which I fit in. I don't feel man at all but feel no need to get SRS, I... will be both. I don't know... I can't say I'm a woman, I feel like an imposteur ... I'll say I'm trans, is that ok? :P
Title: Re: How do you Identify?
Post by: Amato on May 26, 2016, 05:58:07 PM
Post by: Amato on May 26, 2016, 05:58:07 PM
Quote from: Soli on May 26, 2016, 05:52:56 PM
... I'll say I'm trans, is that ok? :P
Whatever you want to call yourself is always okay.
Title: Re: How do you Identify?
Post by: Emerald on May 26, 2016, 07:29:09 PM
Post by: Emerald on May 26, 2016, 07:29:09 PM
Androgyne... with a capital 'A' please. It is a supragender.
Title: Re: How do you Identify?
Post by: Seshatneferw on May 28, 2016, 08:32:12 AM
Post by: Seshatneferw on May 28, 2016, 08:32:12 AM
I usually describe myself as intergender.
Title: Re: How do you Identify?
Post by: Elis on May 28, 2016, 08:45:34 AM
Post by: Elis on May 28, 2016, 08:45:34 AM
Quote from: Seshatneferw on May 28, 2016, 08:32:12 AM
I usually describe myself as intergender.
Just curious; I haven't that term before. What do you mean by intergender?
Title: Re: How do you Identify?
Post by: mac1 on May 28, 2016, 10:17:10 AM
Post by: mac1 on May 28, 2016, 10:17:10 AM
Quote from: Devlyn Marie on May 26, 2016, 01:14:50 PM
I was confused by the choices available until I read this response and looked at which section of the site this post was made. I usually don't pay much attention to that since I look at just look at the list of posts I haven't read yet. Shame on me. I should know better. ;)
But... I suppose there is a non binary aspect to me that may be of interest. I am asexual. That doesn't fit the 'norm.'
I knew you were going to say that! Moderators Curse, you can go anywhere and it's easy to forget where you are! ;D
Hugs, Devlyn
I browse the site the same way (looking at unread posts without being aware of what board it is in). Sounds like that is a common problem.
Title: Re: How do you Identify?
Post by: arice on May 28, 2016, 10:23:23 AM
Post by: arice on May 28, 2016, 10:23:23 AM
Quote from: mac1 on May 28, 2016, 10:17:10 AMMe too. I'm always on my phone and it's easier to just look at unread.
I browse the site the same way (looking at unread posts without being aware of what board it is in). Sounds like that is a common problem.
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Title: Re: How do you Identify?
Post by: Satinjoy on May 28, 2016, 04:47:52 PM
Post by: Satinjoy on May 28, 2016, 04:47:52 PM
Single choices dont work for me.
Physically...androgyne, and transexual female no op.
Sexually? Female androgyne, bottom.
Socially genderfluid.
Who i am?
Nonbinary Transgender.
One category just wont cut it.
Physically...androgyne, and transexual female no op.
Sexually? Female androgyne, bottom.
Socially genderfluid.
Who i am?
Nonbinary Transgender.
One category just wont cut it.
Title: Re: How do you Identify?
Post by: keira166 on May 28, 2016, 07:12:58 PM
Post by: keira166 on May 28, 2016, 07:12:58 PM
Since neither agender nor neutrois were options, I went with non binary. Androgyne may have been closer though, but NB is the safe answer for me...
I think that's ok as well. I don't feel like either man, woman, or third, I don't want to, and I have no plans for SRS :) I feel like a phony a lot going to local trans events, but everyone is so dam nice, they still help to re-affirm that its okay to be not my gender assigned at birth.
Quote from: Soli on May 26, 2016, 05:52:56 PM
I don't feel man at all but feel no need to get SRS, I... will be both. I don't know... I can't say I'm a woman, I feel like an imposteur ... I'll say I'm trans, is that ok? :P
I think that's ok as well. I don't feel like either man, woman, or third, I don't want to, and I have no plans for SRS :) I feel like a phony a lot going to local trans events, but everyone is so dam nice, they still help to re-affirm that its okay to be not my gender assigned at birth.
Title: Re: How do you Identify?
Post by: Amato on May 28, 2016, 08:38:23 PM
Post by: Amato on May 28, 2016, 08:38:23 PM
Crap. I forgot Agender. I added it, though I cant seem to change people's ability to switch their votes. Sorry, my bad.
Title: Re: How do you Identify?
Post by: Midnightstar on June 01, 2016, 06:00:51 PM
Post by: Midnightstar on June 01, 2016, 06:00:51 PM
I consider myself Male/Anger basically sometimes i feel like a guy and sometimes i feel like no gender what so ever so it's complicated haha. I prefer male pronouns and to present myself as male and things like that though. :)
Title: Re: How do you Identify?
Post by: BreeD on June 04, 2016, 04:33:16 PM
Post by: BreeD on June 04, 2016, 04:33:16 PM
Questioning still. I most align with non-binary or genderqueer...I think. ???
Title: Re: How do you Identify?
Post by: Seshatneferw on June 04, 2016, 04:52:42 PM
Post by: Seshatneferw on June 04, 2016, 04:52:42 PM
Quote from: Elis on May 28, 2016, 08:45:34 AM
Just curious; I haven't that term before. What do you mean by intergender?
Rather like what intersex means with regard to sex, but applied to gender. A mix of traits associated with the two majority genders, as a permanent(ish) and (mostly) stable condition.