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Title: When i thought i was gay/ now i feel bad?
Post by: Midnightstar on June 04, 2016, 04:39:48 PM
Post by: Midnightstar on June 04, 2016, 04:39:48 PM
Before i new i was transgender i thought i was gay and so now every time i see a person who i new and is gay
i feel wicked ashamed and shy to even speak with them because i use to find them cute before i new i was a guy
or because i new i myself was't gay. Its like i feel bad for not knowing....and honestly, not sure how to handle it
or what to say about it. I know its not my fault because i didn't know, but i still feel bad and i know its silly
has anyone else experienced this? Because its something that is really getting in my way and its simple/silly too.
i feel wicked ashamed and shy to even speak with them because i use to find them cute before i new i was a guy
or because i new i myself was't gay. Its like i feel bad for not knowing....and honestly, not sure how to handle it
or what to say about it. I know its not my fault because i didn't know, but i still feel bad and i know its silly
has anyone else experienced this? Because its something that is really getting in my way and its simple/silly too.
Title: Re: When i thought i was gay/ now i feel bad?
Post by: cindianna_jones on June 04, 2016, 04:44:15 PM
Post by: cindianna_jones on June 04, 2016, 04:44:15 PM
I wouldn't worry about it much. You will get to know new friends along the way. Introduce the new you to them.
Title: Re: When i thought i was gay/ now i feel bad?
Post by: Midnightstar on June 04, 2016, 04:50:31 PM
Post by: Midnightstar on June 04, 2016, 04:50:31 PM
Quote from: Cindi Jones on June 04, 2016, 04:44:15 PMYea, its not so much the friends its just this lingering i feel guilty
I wouldn't worry about it much. You will get to know new friends along the way. Introduce the new you to them.