Community Conversation => Transgender talk => Topic started by: JenniferLopezgomez on June 10, 2016, 05:42:04 AM Return to Full Version
Title: Here's how to deal when a trans girl bully intentionally misgenders you.
Post by: JenniferLopezgomez on June 10, 2016, 05:42:04 AM
Post by: JenniferLopezgomez on June 10, 2016, 05:42:04 AM
I feel very happy now. Bullies are nearly entirely leaving me alone now.
However, in the last 24 hours or so one trans female bully publicly intentionally misgendered me. So, how have I stayed very happy and also immediately banished this person from my life from my life forever? Like this...
They publicly came online and publicly called me "mate" and made a derogatory comment about my teeth commenting on my sexy horizontal-on-the-bed sultry diva-pose in the black dress photo I have posted elsewhere in this forum in the last 24 hours. Their bullying against me occurred elsewhere on the Internet NOT in this Forum.
I answered PRIVATELY not publicly by which I am taking the polite high road not the bully route this twit elected to take.
I unfriended the person, and then via private message politely said that "mate" is a word used to describe a MAN which they very well know I am not as the photo they were denigrating shows sultry sexy Jennifer all female beautiful woman and it is widely known publicly that I am legally female on my United States Passport. It's too bad she doesn't like my teeth, lol. My teeth are all natural teeth my original natural teeth and my dental health is excellent.
I told them I could have "returned the favor" and publicly struck back at them by intentionally knowingly publicly misgendering them, but that I won't do that because I am too polite to do so and also I don't waste my life going around and bullying other trans ladies by knowingly intentionally publicly misgendering them.
I said good luck in their life. They responded ADIOS (this person doesn't speak Spanish as far as I know and I am a fluent speaker of Spanish and this fact is widely known and I am sure they are aware of this fact) so you can interpret that part of the exchange however you wish -- maybe a slur on my legal surname ? Whatever.
They then blocked me. Good riddance. Such a twit and bullier of other trans ladies deserves to be banished from my life forever.
Perhaps this thread might help some other victims of bullying -- whether the bullies be trans bullies or cis (non-trans) bullies -- particularly in the case of knowingly intentionally publicly misgendering.
Feeling very happy right now. I flirted heavily online in the last 24 hours with about 15 adult men and I feel sure they felt very happy to be with me online. This is out of dozens and dozens of men who initiated contact with me via attempted to iniciate a videocall with me or open a chat box with me and I only had enough time to respond to about 15 of them in between my work and other daily stuff of life as beautiful JENNIFER.
I suggest living your life as to what things make you happy. Banish bullies and naysayers from your life. It is far better to be very happy than not happy. Go for your own happiness. That's now what I am doing and I feel great doing so.
Jennifer Lopezgomez
On the Wonderful Day that is Today.
However, in the last 24 hours or so one trans female bully publicly intentionally misgendered me. So, how have I stayed very happy and also immediately banished this person from my life from my life forever? Like this...
They publicly came online and publicly called me "mate" and made a derogatory comment about my teeth commenting on my sexy horizontal-on-the-bed sultry diva-pose in the black dress photo I have posted elsewhere in this forum in the last 24 hours. Their bullying against me occurred elsewhere on the Internet NOT in this Forum.
I answered PRIVATELY not publicly by which I am taking the polite high road not the bully route this twit elected to take.
I unfriended the person, and then via private message politely said that "mate" is a word used to describe a MAN which they very well know I am not as the photo they were denigrating shows sultry sexy Jennifer all female beautiful woman and it is widely known publicly that I am legally female on my United States Passport. It's too bad she doesn't like my teeth, lol. My teeth are all natural teeth my original natural teeth and my dental health is excellent.
I told them I could have "returned the favor" and publicly struck back at them by intentionally knowingly publicly misgendering them, but that I won't do that because I am too polite to do so and also I don't waste my life going around and bullying other trans ladies by knowingly intentionally publicly misgendering them.
I said good luck in their life. They responded ADIOS (this person doesn't speak Spanish as far as I know and I am a fluent speaker of Spanish and this fact is widely known and I am sure they are aware of this fact) so you can interpret that part of the exchange however you wish -- maybe a slur on my legal surname ? Whatever.
They then blocked me. Good riddance. Such a twit and bullier of other trans ladies deserves to be banished from my life forever.
Perhaps this thread might help some other victims of bullying -- whether the bullies be trans bullies or cis (non-trans) bullies -- particularly in the case of knowingly intentionally publicly misgendering.
Feeling very happy right now. I flirted heavily online in the last 24 hours with about 15 adult men and I feel sure they felt very happy to be with me online. This is out of dozens and dozens of men who initiated contact with me via attempted to iniciate a videocall with me or open a chat box with me and I only had enough time to respond to about 15 of them in between my work and other daily stuff of life as beautiful JENNIFER.
I suggest living your life as to what things make you happy. Banish bullies and naysayers from your life. It is far better to be very happy than not happy. Go for your own happiness. That's now what I am doing and I feel great doing so.
Jennifer Lopezgomez
On the Wonderful Day that is Today.