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Title: Hi, I'm Ellen
Post by: EllenP on June 17, 2016, 10:01:06 AM
Post by: EllenP on June 17, 2016, 10:01:06 AM
Hi, I'm Ellen.
Although I just registered this morning, I have been coming to this site for a number of years checking on topics that have been in your forums. As for me, I have spent the last 49 years of my life closeted and for the most part in denial about who I am - a transgendered woman. I have done all the cliches to prove myself otherwise. This week I just had enough and here I am, although still closeted! I am so envious of all you men and women who have had the courage to live your lives as the individuals you are. One day I hope to be among your ranks.
Although I just registered this morning, I have been coming to this site for a number of years checking on topics that have been in your forums. As for me, I have spent the last 49 years of my life closeted and for the most part in denial about who I am - a transgendered woman. I have done all the cliches to prove myself otherwise. This week I just had enough and here I am, although still closeted! I am so envious of all you men and women who have had the courage to live your lives as the individuals you are. One day I hope to be among your ranks.
Title: Re: Hi, I'm Ellen
Post by: AnonyMs on June 17, 2016, 11:57:13 AM
Post by: AnonyMs on June 17, 2016, 11:57:13 AM
Quote from: EllenP on June 17, 2016, 10:01:06 AM
I am so envious of all you men and women who have had the courage to live your lives as the individuals you are. One day I hope to be among your ranks.
Me too!
Title: Re: Hi, I'm Ellen
Post by: Michelle_P on June 17, 2016, 12:26:23 PM
Post by: Michelle_P on June 17, 2016, 12:26:23 PM
Hi, Ellen. Well, I think you've found the bets place on the Web for information and a safe, friendly environment. There are lots of experienced folks here to help you out.
Title: Re: Hi, I'm Ellen
Post by: Jacqueline on June 17, 2016, 01:13:51 PM
Post by: Jacqueline on June 17, 2016, 01:13:51 PM
Hi Ellen,
Welcome to the site. Your descriptions sound pretty similar to me. It was a little over a year ago at 50 when I came to the conclusion, myself. I am out to all my medical providers, my wife, my oldest of three and a few friends. However, I am pretty much closeted in day to day life too. I was in a very nervous spot when I was where you are.
We have members from all over the world, as well as of many ages and all over the trans spectrum. You must be full of questions. That's part of what this site and all those members are for. Put us to work for you.
Do you have a therapist. They are really important. In particular a gender therapist. They don't tell you what you are but they help to guide you through the confusing maze of a new world.
I also want to share some links with you. They are mostly welcome information and the rules that govern the site. If you have not had a chance to look through them, please take a moment:
Once again, welcome to Susan's. Look around, ask questions and join in.
With warmth,
Joanna
Welcome to the site. Your descriptions sound pretty similar to me. It was a little over a year ago at 50 when I came to the conclusion, myself. I am out to all my medical providers, my wife, my oldest of three and a few friends. However, I am pretty much closeted in day to day life too. I was in a very nervous spot when I was where you are.
We have members from all over the world, as well as of many ages and all over the trans spectrum. You must be full of questions. That's part of what this site and all those members are for. Put us to work for you.
Do you have a therapist. They are really important. In particular a gender therapist. They don't tell you what you are but they help to guide you through the confusing maze of a new world.
I also want to share some links with you. They are mostly welcome information and the rules that govern the site. If you have not had a chance to look through them, please take a moment:
Things that you should read
Site Terms of Service & Rules to Live By (https://www.susans.org/forums/index.php/topic,2.0.html) | Standard Terms & Definitions (https://www.susans.org/forums/index.php/topic,54369.0.html) | Post Ranks (including when you can upload an avatar) (https://www.susans.org/forums/index.php/topic,114.0.html.) |
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Once again, welcome to Susan's. Look around, ask questions and join in.
With warmth,
Joanna
Title: Re: Hi, I'm Ellen
Post by: Thea on June 17, 2016, 02:00:35 PM
Post by: Thea on June 17, 2016, 02:00:35 PM
Hi Ellen,
I'm 55 and have come to the same realizations as you this week. Life is too short to stuff ourselves into somebody else's ideas about who and what we should be. I think we have found a good place to start our new journey.
All the best,
Tina
I'm 55 and have come to the same realizations as you this week. Life is too short to stuff ourselves into somebody else's ideas about who and what we should be. I think we have found a good place to start our new journey.
All the best,
Tina
Title: Re: Hi, I'm Ellen
Post by: SueNZ on June 17, 2016, 04:20:12 PM
Post by: SueNZ on June 17, 2016, 04:20:12 PM
Hi Tina and Ellen,
Welcome to Susan's.
Please jump on board as soon as you can with subscribing or donating.
Susan has worked hard to create a place for us to find support and we should support her.
Sorry for the request but this site needs our support.
Cheers
Sue
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Welcome to Susan's.
Please jump on board as soon as you can with subscribing or donating.
Susan has worked hard to create a place for us to find support and we should support her.
Sorry for the request but this site needs our support.
Cheers
Sue
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Title: Re: Hi, I'm Ellen
Post by: V M on June 17, 2016, 05:04:10 PM
Post by: V M on June 17, 2016, 05:04:10 PM
Hi Ellen :icon_wave:
Welcome to Susan's :) Glad to have you here, join on in the fun
Hugs
V M
Welcome to Susan's :) Glad to have you here, join on in the fun
Hugs
V M
Title: Re: Hi, I'm Ellen
Post by: EllenP on June 17, 2016, 11:46:58 PM
Post by: EllenP on June 17, 2016, 11:46:58 PM
Wow, thank you everyone. Jpanna asked if I have a therapist. I do but not for gender issues - depression and anxiety. Imagine that! I think I will be able to talk next session. Thank you all for everything, and I will do my homework, LOL