Community Conversation => Significant Others talk => Topic started by: SIngularity on August 01, 2016, 09:22:05 AM Return to Full Version
Title: whoo hoo!
Post by: SIngularity on August 01, 2016, 09:22:05 AM
Post by: SIngularity on August 01, 2016, 09:22:05 AM
Cant find my old thread, since i have not posted an update to it in a while. so here goes..sorry its so long.
Excitement, adventure and finally opening up!
We have talked, and dated even spent a weekend together camping. though she mostly did her own thing and it got a little weird at times. We still had fun. people loved her self made outfits and she was quite honestly treated like a goddess. lots, and i mean lots of guys hit on her. You better believe it made me nervous, and i did not know how to handle it because even at this point her and i are not officially together. All I can do is trust her. One person out of the 1,000 or so that were there made a comment about her bring trans. Something inside me just snapped. I let loose a fury of words and they backed off immediately. It still hurt me deeply. How could someone say something like that about someone whom I see to be absolutely beautiful? everyone has flaws, sure..For the first time in my life I see past those flaws...this didnt even happen when i was married!
i've been helping her work on a music video for some time now. Her music, her voice and my photography. Though for me to call my self a photographer would be a reach. I'm just very creative. I hope its ok if i post the link. she is so proud of this and I am incredibly proud of her and in total awe of what she has accomplished.
here is the link >>> https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OuxkzaZQ4CY <<<
after she released the video i took her out for a drink, the bar comped the champagne! totally made her feel like a star!
we got back and as she was leaving to go home, there was this moment...you know the one where you feel that spark between the two of you and feel drawn to kiss the other person. Well she kissed me! I held back at first because the last few months have been so casual, and I do not want her to feel uncomfortable. But she kissed me! so i spent the next 30 or so minutes in a brain coma barely knowing how to handle how happy i was. lol.
so that is where we are at, I couldn't be happier finding someone like her
Excitement, adventure and finally opening up!
We have talked, and dated even spent a weekend together camping. though she mostly did her own thing and it got a little weird at times. We still had fun. people loved her self made outfits and she was quite honestly treated like a goddess. lots, and i mean lots of guys hit on her. You better believe it made me nervous, and i did not know how to handle it because even at this point her and i are not officially together. All I can do is trust her. One person out of the 1,000 or so that were there made a comment about her bring trans. Something inside me just snapped. I let loose a fury of words and they backed off immediately. It still hurt me deeply. How could someone say something like that about someone whom I see to be absolutely beautiful? everyone has flaws, sure..For the first time in my life I see past those flaws...this didnt even happen when i was married!
i've been helping her work on a music video for some time now. Her music, her voice and my photography. Though for me to call my self a photographer would be a reach. I'm just very creative. I hope its ok if i post the link. she is so proud of this and I am incredibly proud of her and in total awe of what she has accomplished.
here is the link >>> https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OuxkzaZQ4CY <<<
after she released the video i took her out for a drink, the bar comped the champagne! totally made her feel like a star!
we got back and as she was leaving to go home, there was this moment...you know the one where you feel that spark between the two of you and feel drawn to kiss the other person. Well she kissed me! I held back at first because the last few months have been so casual, and I do not want her to feel uncomfortable. But she kissed me! so i spent the next 30 or so minutes in a brain coma barely knowing how to handle how happy i was. lol.
so that is where we are at, I couldn't be happier finding someone like her