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Title: Love
Post by: Xirafel on November 25, 2016, 08:37:49 AM
Urm, so... I don't know... Super adorable... and a nice person, mhm.
When I see them, my heart speeds up and I get super, super excited. But, they totally don't feel the same way  :(
And the stupid feelings won't go away. Stupid feelings. How do I get rid of them? They keep making me feel jealous x.x
Title: Re: Love
Post by: Lily Rose on November 26, 2016, 10:10:51 AM
  why would you want to get rid of your feelings of love? who are you jealous of?
Title: Re: Love
Post by: Xirafel on November 26, 2016, 08:26:19 PM
The rival.
Title: Re: Love
Post by: Tessa James on November 26, 2016, 09:05:02 PM
Love is so completely wonderful and maybe you can demonstrate a higher love (if there is such a thing) by being glad that the object of you affection has someone who shares your admiration?

Love often seems to make little sense or be rational.  Why are we drawn to someone who may not even notice us?  What kind of crazy love leaves us breathless for someone who might even treat us poorly?  Why does every sense in our body longingly ache for loves fulfillment?

Love can be the inspiration for art, music, poetry and epic travails.  Everything works out great in my fantasy love life but a real, shared and lasting love seems to require another hand reaching out for yours.

One well known love potion antidote is finding another one to love and they could be around any corner. ;D  Wishing you more and enduring love.
Title: Re: Love
Post by: Lily Rose on November 27, 2016, 09:32:06 PM
personally i am happy for those you find happiness and i think tessa is exactly right.

Quote from: Tessa James on November 26, 2016, 09:05:02 PM
One well known love potion antidote is finding another one to love and they could be around any corner. ;D  Wishing you more and enduring love.
Title: Re: Love
Post by: Xirafel on November 28, 2016, 01:02:46 AM
That will take an entire decade or longer. Too long.
I'll need another method.
Title: Re: Love
Post by: Kylo on December 18, 2016, 10:35:17 PM
Concentrate on all their bad points.

Title: Re: Love
Post by: Xirafel on December 19, 2016, 09:11:00 AM
Quote from: Kylo on December 18, 2016, 10:35:17 PM
Concentrate on all their bad points.
Their bad points are cute too.
Title: Re: Love
Post by: Little Cloud on December 21, 2016, 03:02:41 AM
Try giving your love unconditionally. If you let it be known that you don't expect anything in return, you can be as good a friend as they let you be, while still enjoying the euphoric feeling you get when in their presence.
Trying to make someone love you back is usually not worth attempting, as it often requires you to pretend to be someone you aren't.