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Title: Do y'all think a guy would lie to you about being their first transgender?
Post by: Angélique LaCava on December 01, 2016, 01:37:01 PM
Post by: Angélique LaCava on December 01, 2016, 01:37:01 PM
Let's say you ask a guy if they have fooled around with a transgender before, do y'all think a guy would lie to you about it or be truthful?
Title: Re: Do y'all think a guy would lie to you about being their first transgender?
Post by: Denise on December 01, 2016, 01:43:43 PM
Post by: Denise on December 01, 2016, 01:43:43 PM
If this was a binary question "lie" or "truth" I would lean towards the "lie" for this one.
Now the gray area - It depends upon how comfortable they are with themselves and what your relationship is with this guy.
Now the gray area - It depends upon how comfortable they are with themselves and what your relationship is with this guy.
Title: Re: Do y'all think a guy would lie to you about being their first transgender?
Post by: Angélique LaCava on December 01, 2016, 01:47:03 PM
Post by: Angélique LaCava on December 01, 2016, 01:47:03 PM
Quote from: Denise on December 01, 2016, 01:43:43 PMlets say you just met them and they consider themselves open minded. (From personal experience) say something on the lines of "there's a first for everything".
If this was a binary question "lie" or "truth" I would lean towards the "lie" for this one.
Now the gray area - It depends upon how comfortable they are with themselves and what your relationship is with this guy.
Title: Re: Do y'all think a guy would lie to you about being their first transgender?
Post by: Angélique LaCava on December 01, 2016, 02:17:47 PM
Post by: Angélique LaCava on December 01, 2016, 02:17:47 PM
wouldnt a guy think in most cases someone would want someone with experience?
Title: Re: Do y'all think a guy would lie to you about being their first transgender?
Post by: Jill E on December 01, 2016, 02:24:41 PM
Post by: Jill E on December 01, 2016, 02:24:41 PM
I think some would lie; some women do too.
Be careful of anyone who comes across as a ->-bleeped-<- or anyone that you feel is fetishizing you. It can get creepy AF and even feel degrading as the relationship continues. In general, if something throws up a red flag for you, pay attention to it.
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Be careful of anyone who comes across as a ->-bleeped-<- or anyone that you feel is fetishizing you. It can get creepy AF and even feel degrading as the relationship continues. In general, if something throws up a red flag for you, pay attention to it.
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Title: Re: Do y'all think a guy would lie to you about being their first transgender?
Post by: Angélique LaCava on December 01, 2016, 02:44:37 PM
Post by: Angélique LaCava on December 01, 2016, 02:44:37 PM
Quote from: Jill E on December 01, 2016, 02:24:41 PMwhat would you consider a red flag?
I think some would lie; some women do too.
Be careful of anyone who comes across as a ->-bleeped-<- or anyone that you feel is fetishizing you. It can get creepy AF and even feel degrading as the relationship continues. In general, if something throws up a red flag for you, pay attention to it.
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Title: Re: Do y'all think a guy would lie to you about being their first transgender?
Post by: DawnOday on December 01, 2016, 03:11:06 PM
Post by: DawnOday on December 01, 2016, 03:11:06 PM
Quote from: Angélique LaCava on December 01, 2016, 02:44:37 PM
what would you consider a red flag?
An erection is usually a good indicator. Wanting to leave after just meeting, Let's go somewhere private.
Mod Edit- no Bashing. Bashing is against TOS 10.
Title: Re: Do y'all think a guy would lie to you about being their first transgender?
Post by: Devlyn on December 01, 2016, 03:24:08 PM
Post by: Devlyn on December 01, 2016, 03:24:08 PM
:police: Locked for review.
Title: Re: Do y'all think a guy would lie to you about being their first transgender?
Post by: Mariah on December 01, 2016, 04:46:26 PM
Post by: Mariah on December 01, 2016, 04:46:26 PM
:police:
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Okay folks I can understand sharing things to watch out for, but off hand remarks that bash one gender or another is against TOS 10. It's bashing, plain and simple. Lets please Remember TOS 5, 10, and 15. Thread unlocked.
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