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Title: Bashful and happy clerk at a store?
Post by: Wild Flower on December 02, 2016, 06:40:55 PM
Post by: Wild Flower on December 02, 2016, 06:40:55 PM
The clerk said, "You're must had like it", as I pick up the beef jerky, and I realize she must had remember my face before since I purchase it few weeks prior. Curly brown hair draped over shoulders as she smiled but then there was slight hesitations in her facial muscles. She gaze into my eyes longer than people should, and I feel I had to look away ever so often to avoid it being awkward like Ashlee Simpson doing a ho-dance when she forget her lyrics. But I think she was attracted to me, because she said, "Are you married?" when talking about work. And then she said, I wouldn't marry money though, but my better half what not.
She said, "You go girl get that money." when telling her my job prospective. I look, talk as a man, but I guess there was something unconscious in her response because it was so automatic, she must not had thought it before saying it, and she didn't take it back.
She then ask me, "Are you coming back soon?"
I said, "Yes, but sometime next week"
and then said, "Oh, I work mornings, well goodbye."
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Do you think she said, "you go girl" because she thought unconsciously I was a woman??
She said, "You go girl get that money." when telling her my job prospective. I look, talk as a man, but I guess there was something unconscious in her response because it was so automatic, she must not had thought it before saying it, and she didn't take it back.
She then ask me, "Are you coming back soon?"
I said, "Yes, but sometime next week"
and then said, "Oh, I work mornings, well goodbye."
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Do you think she said, "you go girl" because she thought unconsciously I was a woman??
Title: Re: Bashful and happy clerk at a store?
Post by: Angélique LaCava on December 02, 2016, 06:49:03 PM
Post by: Angélique LaCava on December 02, 2016, 06:49:03 PM
You did say you haven't started living as female. Maybe she just thought you was a gay guy. I know many girls who say "you go girl" to their gay friends.
You seriously read way too much into situations. So I'll say it again.... look into getting a therapist to help with everything your going through.
You seriously read way too much into situations. So I'll say it again.... look into getting a therapist to help with everything your going through.
Title: Re: Bashful and happy clerk at a store?
Post by: Shauna89 on December 02, 2016, 09:06:48 PM
Post by: Shauna89 on December 02, 2016, 09:06:48 PM
Quote from: Angélique LaCava on December 02, 2016, 06:49:03 PM
You did say you haven't started living as female. Maybe she just thought you was a gay guy. I know many girls who say "you go girl" to their gay friends.
You seriously read way too much into situations.
I'm leaning towards this ... I still dress/present as male and a lot of people greet me with "hey baby doll / boo boo / precious / what's up buttercup" ext... and I just assume they're reading me as gay.
Title: Re: Bashful and happy clerk at a store?
Post by: Wild Flower on December 02, 2016, 11:47:19 PM
Post by: Wild Flower on December 02, 2016, 11:47:19 PM
Quote from: Angélique LaCava on December 02, 2016, 06:49:03 PM
You did say you haven't started living as female. Maybe she just thought you was a gay guy. I know many girls who say "you go girl" to their gay friends.
You seriously read way too much into situations. So I'll say it again.... look into getting a therapist to help with everything your going through.
Thank you. I need too. :)
Title: Re: Bashful and happy clerk at a store?
Post by: Wild Flower on December 02, 2016, 11:53:54 PM
Post by: Wild Flower on December 02, 2016, 11:53:54 PM
Quote from: IDONTEVENKNOW on December 02, 2016, 09:06:48 PM
I'm leaning towards this ... I still dress/present as male and a lot of people greet me with "hey baby doll / boo boo / precious / what's up buttercup" ext... and I just assume they're reading me as gay.
I never thought of it like that.... I get the buttercup one (not too often), but some people tell me dear, sweetheart (that's been a while).
I also gave her a dull princess wave *which is what I do without thinking*.
She probably did read me as gay. I am just assuming she read "my mind" lol. Oh gawd lol.
Title: Re: Bashful and happy clerk at a store?
Post by: Angélique LaCava on December 03, 2016, 12:11:21 AM
Post by: Angélique LaCava on December 03, 2016, 12:11:21 AM
Quote from: Wild Flower on December 02, 2016, 11:53:54 PMsweetheart, and dear dosnt mean they read you as gay.
I never thought of it like that.... I get the buttercup one (not too often), but some people tell me dear, sweetheart (that's been a while).
I also gave her a dull princess wave *which is what I do without thinking*.
She probably did read me as gay. I am just assuming she read "my mind" lol. Oh gawd lol.