Community Conversation => Transsexual talk => Male to female transsexual talk (MTF) => Topic started by: rose on January 02, 2017, 06:37:42 AM Return to Full Version
Title: Is this safe place to talk ?
Post by: rose on January 02, 2017, 06:37:42 AM
Post by: rose on January 02, 2017, 06:37:42 AM
Hi everyone my name is rose
I'm Mtf from Saudi Arabia
We don't have websites like the Susan's place in Arabic to talk about ts topics (because it forbidden by the Islamic law)
I'm happy to found this website so I can discuss and talk freely
But I'm very scared that my government know about me being trans this will send me to death
I want to know how safe this website is
Do I need to remove my pic from the avatar to be anonymous or it still put me in danger
They raise the punishment of LGBT who appear in social media to death
I don't want to die or put my self in danger but still I don't want to be blindness about the important topic related to my situation as trans :(
I'm Mtf from Saudi Arabia
We don't have websites like the Susan's place in Arabic to talk about ts topics (because it forbidden by the Islamic law)
I'm happy to found this website so I can discuss and talk freely
But I'm very scared that my government know about me being trans this will send me to death
I want to know how safe this website is
Do I need to remove my pic from the avatar to be anonymous or it still put me in danger
They raise the punishment of LGBT who appear in social media to death
I don't want to die or put my self in danger but still I don't want to be blindness about the important topic related to my situation as trans :(
Title: Re: Is this safe place to talk ?
Post by: Cindy on January 02, 2017, 06:45:04 AM
Post by: Cindy on January 02, 2017, 06:45:04 AM
Hi Hon, I would remove your avatar.
You are gorgeous.
Try if you can to leave your country
You are gorgeous.
Try if you can to leave your country
Title: Re: Is this safe place to talk ?
Post by: Harley Quinn on January 02, 2017, 07:58:45 AM
Post by: Harley Quinn on January 02, 2017, 07:58:45 AM
By all means, stay and chat. There are a lot of wonderful and very intelligent people here with invaluable advice. You've found a wonderful group of people here. :)
Title: Re: Is this safe place to talk ?
Post by: stephaniec on January 02, 2017, 08:36:23 AM
Post by: stephaniec on January 02, 2017, 08:36:23 AM
I'm very interested jn what you have to say. as long as you don't reveal your name or picture.
Title: Re: Is this safe place to talk ?
Post by: JoanneB on January 02, 2017, 11:48:43 AM
Post by: JoanneB on January 02, 2017, 11:48:43 AM
Totally safe and filled with plenty of others who have and are dealing with many of the same issues you have that love sharing their knowledge and experience
Title: Re: Is this safe place to talk ?
Post by: Kylo on January 02, 2017, 12:07:20 PM
Post by: Kylo on January 02, 2017, 12:07:20 PM
I have friends in Saudi and they say most attention is paid on social media to things written in Arabic, but that doesn't mean there might not be someone from the government reading English sites. Definitely don't put up any images of yourself on the public board, would be my advice.
Actually I'm surprised you could get on here. I'd have thought a site like this would be blocked there.
Actually I'm surprised you could get on here. I'd have thought a site like this would be blocked there.
Title: Re: Is this safe place to talk ?
Post by: SophieD on January 02, 2017, 12:11:42 PM
Post by: SophieD on January 02, 2017, 12:11:42 PM
Using a virtual private network might be a good idea; otherwise your internet communications are available on local servers, unencrypted (or so I understand - I am no expert).
Title: Re: Is this safe place to talk ?
Post by: Steph Eigen on January 02, 2017, 12:34:28 PM
Post by: Steph Eigen on January 02, 2017, 12:34:28 PM
Even better, access the site via a highly secure, distributed routing browser such as Tor:
https://www.torproject.org/
This will make it less likely your activity on the site would be traceable to a given IP address such as your home or work, leading to discovery of your activity on a site not viewed favorably by local officials.
Steph
https://www.torproject.org/
This will make it less likely your activity on the site would be traceable to a given IP address such as your home or work, leading to discovery of your activity on a site not viewed favorably by local officials.
Steph
Title: Re: Is this safe place to talk ?
Post by: Steph Eigen on January 02, 2017, 12:42:27 PM
Post by: Steph Eigen on January 02, 2017, 12:42:27 PM
Also...
Other than potential for discovery of the activity on the site, something use of Tor should prevent, this is a very safe place. Trolls free; you will be welcomed by psychologically healthy, intelligent, insightful people eager to help. It's like joining a very large family for the most part.
Speak freely. As long as you are respectful and earnest, you will be received with warmth and grace here. No thought police, no political correctness trolls in my experience. We collectively bring some of our deepest concerns here for discussion and the helpful insights from other members as well as discuss some fun, sometime more frivolous things. It's a pleasant mix.
Steph
Other than potential for discovery of the activity on the site, something use of Tor should prevent, this is a very safe place. Trolls free; you will be welcomed by psychologically healthy, intelligent, insightful people eager to help. It's like joining a very large family for the most part.
Speak freely. As long as you are respectful and earnest, you will be received with warmth and grace here. No thought police, no political correctness trolls in my experience. We collectively bring some of our deepest concerns here for discussion and the helpful insights from other members as well as discuss some fun, sometime more frivolous things. It's a pleasant mix.
Steph
Title: Re: Is this safe place to talk ?
Post by: Jill E on January 02, 2017, 01:01:55 PM
Post by: Jill E on January 02, 2017, 01:01:55 PM
There really no such thing as secure. However, your best bet is as Steph said, using Tor. It works by relaying your encrypted traffic anonymously through other users' nodes/ relays. Tor is free to use and run.
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Title: Re: Is this safe place to talk ?
Post by: SarahElizabeth1981 on January 02, 2017, 05:24:56 PM
Post by: SarahElizabeth1981 on January 02, 2017, 05:24:56 PM
HI welcome to Susans. as has been said this is safe place for you to talk learn and meet others. I also suggest you use a vpn or TOR to protect your activities from monitoring that is currently in place or that may happen if the future. and of course don't post any information that could be used to identify you for the same reasons..
I hope you find everything you are looking for here.
Sarah
I hope you find everything you are looking for here.
Sarah
Title: Re: Is this safe place to talk ?
Post by: Brooke on January 02, 2017, 05:39:52 PM
Post by: Brooke on January 02, 2017, 05:39:52 PM
Also if you are technically inclined you could consider using a Linux distribution such as Tails. This had Tor built in, and can be used to not have data stored on your hard drive. You can use a cd/DVD or use a USB thumb drive that you can hide/destroy if need be.
I believe the site is also hosted out of Susan's home, so gaining physical access through legal means would be difficult.
Welcome to Susan's, we are happy to have you!
Hugs,
~Brooke~
I believe the site is also hosted out of Susan's home, so gaining physical access through legal means would be difficult.
Welcome to Susan's, we are happy to have you!
Hugs,
~Brooke~
Title: Re: Is this safe place to talk ?
Post by: AnonyMs on January 02, 2017, 05:45:01 PM
Post by: AnonyMs on January 02, 2017, 05:45:01 PM
Id remove all references to where you live and never mention country, region, culture or religion by name. You don't want to give anyone any incentive to track you down. Be invisible among the thousands of others here.
Title: Re: Is this safe place to talk ?
Post by: Susan on January 03, 2017, 12:45:49 AM
Post by: Susan on January 03, 2017, 12:45:49 AM
Tor is frequently blocked as people use it for abusive purposes :(