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So I've always wondered about it but what is it like using an stp? Atm I'm too scared to use the men's room bc of how I look lmao..
I've considered getting one and I'm a bit stuck [emoji848]


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It's fairly convenient, provided you can find one that works for you consistently. I have owned several different products and have only found 2 that work for me. I honestly prefer to sit unless I'm out and about. I wouldn't spend a lot of money on one until you know what style would work best with your anatomy.

Quote from: FTMax on January 24, 2017, 06:42:40 PM
It's fairly convenient, provided you can find one that works for you consistently. I have owned several different products and have only found 2 that work for me. I honestly prefer to sit unless I'm out and about. I wouldn't spend a lot of money on one until you know what style would work best with your anatomy.

Alright!
I'm short as hell (5'2) so I don't want a massive one 🤣
Do you know of any websites?


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FTM Essentials, Tranzwear, Toolshed Toys. Those all have a variety of stuff you could look at with a good range of prices.

Quote from: FTMax on January 24, 2017, 07:40:39 PM
FTM Essentials, Tranzwear, Toolshed Toys. Those all have a variety of stuff you could look at with a good range of prices.

Bless u


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i'm 5'2 and use a modified peecock.  I bought a silicone measuring cup set on amazon and used the smallest one to silicone inside the reservoir to contain the pee.  I also used some silicone to create a small lip at the back end to keep pee from rising over the back.  It works pretty good most of the time but I still have to control my pee until I'm sure it is in the right position and then I can pee like a big dog.  I am interested in the jimmy STP it appears to already have the reservoir built in.  I must say that it is great to go into the men's room go into the stahl "whip it out" and do my business.  Good luck to you.

I would also suggest watching a few of uppercasechase  videos on youtube. He does a really good job of reviewing STP's and modified packers.

Ok, so I ordered my STP. I decided to go to a uk site called UberKinky and ordered the Mr fenis. It's coming tomorrow and I've never been happier in my life. It certainly will be interesting to see the results, not to mention it will help me prepare for future surgeries.
All in all, it's a good choice!
;D ;D ;D

It came!!
I'm so happy the colouration is good even if there is a slight nick but it's nowhere near the base or anywhere else


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Just to let you know although the stp helped massively with my dysphoria; more so than a packer; I quickly stopped using both due to them causing more bottom dysphoria  :P. I hope that doesn't happen to you though and you're happy :)

Quote from: Elis on January 27, 2017, 12:51:20 PM
Just to let you know although the stp helped massively with my dysphoria; more so than a packer; I quickly stopped using both due to them causing more bottom dysphoria  :P. I hope that doesn't happen to you though and you're happy :)

Aw sorry to hear that:C *hugs*
Um, it feels incredibly natural and a bit weird, but I've been having issues with it. I can't pee standing up. Like, wtf body???
The most I can do is squat.

ghostbees, peeing standing is entirely different, feels altogether different. It seems like you are using different muscles, take some practice before you can easily go.  Start at home with go one around until you can easily, then in a public restroom in a stall, then in urinal with no one around.     

Quote from: mm on January 27, 2017, 01:09:42 PM
ghostbees, peeing standing is entirely different, feels altogether different. It seems like you are using different muscles, take some practice before you can easily go.  Start at home with go one around until you can easily, then in a public restroom in a stall, then in urinal with no one around.   

huh I didn't know that.
Guess what after how many tries, I peed!! and I didn't get it all over myself. I kinda go in a forward squat with my knees bent. It seemed to work!
oh man I'm never going back to sitting  ::) ::) ::)

I used an stp with a funnel and had no problems with it even though I was new to using an stp. Although it took some adjustment and I had to pull my jeans all the way down  ::). Also you could try practicing peeing standing up in the shower  ;).

And yeah it's strange how amazing it feels to pee standing up; you wouldn't think something as seemingly minor as that can affect your mood and self esteem.

Quote from: Elis on January 28, 2017, 12:29:13 PM
I used an stp with a funnel and had no problems with it even though I was new to using an stp. Although it took some adjustment and I had to pull my jeans all the way down  ::). Also you could try practicing peeing standing up in the shower  ;).

And yeah it's strange how amazing it feels to pee standing up; you wouldn't think something as seemingly minor as that can affect your mood and self esteem.

lol I still have to pull my jeans down since mine isn't a packerstp [emoji12]
I start to miss it when I have to put it away. Did you ever get that?


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Quote from: ghostbees on January 28, 2017, 04:58:03 PM
lol I still have to pull my jeans down since mine isn't a packerstp [emoji12]
I start to miss it when I have to put it away. Did you ever get that?


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I used a packer stp and still had to pull my jeans down  :-\. I don't get how other guys don't need to do that. Maybe I cut too much off the tubing off but even so you'd think you'd need to adjust it before peeing. Anyway I bought the Mr Limpy with a funnel attachment from Tranzwear if you ever want one with a packer. It was suprisingly affordable as well at I think around £20 including postage.


Yeah I got that feeling too; followed by a huge amount of dysphoria  :-\

UGH!!!
I hate it
I'm having problems using the stp rather less stp more I find it hard to pee with like.. this is super gross but how do you like get going? It seems I have to wait awhile even to pee.... >:(

I definitely have to intentionally relax to pee. It a mixture of confidence in the STP I'm using and taking a deep breath and just relaxing. I use a Pstyle and have full confidence that I won't leak so the rest is just taking a deep breath and letting go. It 100% conscious I can never just go like I can on the toilet. It's like if I'm sitting I can just completely zone out and the muscles are trained to pee in that position but I think because we have not grown up STPing, our body is not used to relaxing those muscles in that position.

I would even say try peeing when you have nothing better to do. Nobodies home/ not bothering you. You're not rushing out the door. You're not in the middle of a show ect.

If you're standing up, you're going to have to relax your muscles differently than if you were sitting. At least that's how it feels to me anyway.

One of the complaints I had for many years was errr performance difficulties when attempting to pee standing up with the original equipment. I am not sure if everybody had that issue and if it was just being uncomfortable or if the muscles work a little different when standing.

I find peeing standing does take different muscles and the way you relax.  This is the case for whether I am in the shower with no stp or when using a stp.  it is best to have lots of time and no one around when you try using an stp so you can feel relaxed.  My problem is using my stp through the fly in my jeans, the zipper doesn't seem to go down far enough to get it the end low enough to have good flow out.  It goes better if I loosen my belt enough so I can pull my jeans down about 2 in, then I get good flow out and keep it up tight against me so not to leak or back flow.