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So, for 27 years I have taken advantage of just about every opportunity I have had to grope, touch, tweak, motorboat, attack, etc., my wife's breasts.  For the last few years she has been paying me back with increasing frequency and intensity.  These days I cannot let my guard down at all because I will get paid back!  Admittedly, I only have few moments where it is wanted and it freaking annoys me most of the time!!  Rawr!!  When I complain about it, she tells me I have years of payback coming.  And, OMG, I have no argument...zero!...to rebut hers with.  She has this uncanny sense to know when I am in the bedroom and changing clothes.  She will just come boppin' in and start paying me back.  I mean, I know I deserve it, and a occasion I won't resist, but good grief, I had no idea how annoying I was to her for almost 3 decades. LOL  OMGoodness, was I a stinker to her over the years...hahahah.

Just thought I would share some of the serious ramifications of transition from mtf whilst remaining with your spouse.  Be warned!!

Suck it up, buttercup!  :laugh:

Hugs, Devlyn

LOL... turn about is fair play

What a problem to have... at this point in my own development I wouldn't be complaining.

Hugs,
   Laurie

Hahaha... after years of making fun of my wife's hormonal food cravings, I set myself up for payback. And I get it big time since I am on hormones...

Yes, it has been an acute educational process to be a person with breasts in this boob obsessed culture.  I was also another libido fueled pursuer and am learning by experience how that objectification can feel.

Your situation seems to also have an element of light hearted fun, however, while others may only dream of what it would be like to feel so very desired.  Another one of those be careful what we wish for situations?  My learning curve is getting better and my sense of being a self directed feminist a welcome change and response to this new reality.

Having waited forever to have these lovely breasts I love em!.... even as they do influence how people interact with us

Lol, I can somewhat relate.  My wife is practically doing daily "checks" of my development, which at this point they are VERY sensitive.  She takes evil pleasure in that fact :)

Quote from: Tessa James on June 08, 2017, 12:37:08 PM
...Your situation seems to also have an element of light hearted fun, ...

Very true.  It is a dichotomy, inasmuch as, I find it more often than not very annoying, but like you said, it is very nice to be desired.  And here I am complaining about it. lol...

Quote from: staciM on June 08, 2017, 12:48:09 PM
Lol, I can somewhat relate.  My wife is practically doing daily "checks" of my development, which at this point they are VERY sensitive.  She takes evil pleasure in that fact :)

Yes, there is definitely evil pleasure being taken!!

I mean, since GRS she has been paying me back in other areas, too.  I will not go into specifics, but I am getting my comeuppance in every aspect, to be sure. ;)  I mean, when I am in traffic driving with a skirt or dress on, and mind you my MINI Cooper is a stick shift, I do not have a hand to fend her off.  She thinks it is hilarious!  I for the life of me cannot figure out where she got the idea to do this ... >:-)

Ha - I know this feeling, my girlfriend is loving how sensitive my budding breasts are :)

How lucky are you to have that kind of playful relationship with your spouse. Many here would kill for that kind of symbiosis with a long term spouse. Count your lucky stars, Hon!

My wife is doing the same, and has told me the same thing as well.  She does seem to get a bit of perverse pleasure in making my boobs feel uncomfortable.  When I actually want them played with a bit, she is no where to be found.  I just make the same faces she did at me when I did it to her.

you can tell her to wait until they're done growing, since she must know they're painful when growing.

My wife has always had a thing for my armpits.  But I grew quite a butt from the hormones and she likes to swat it as payback for all my years of pinching hers.

Hmm, makes me wonder if our wives are conferring behind our backs and trading stories.  I'm accepting her affections as  an important part of my breast development.   :o

Erin

Whenever I might pull-back my wife will say something along along the lines of "Hey, that's what they are for" or "You wouldn't be growing them if you didn't like them being touched".

Plus, for me, there are other factors. Of course the ever present internalized transphobia. Beyond that is sill not, perhaps never will be, comfortable in my body, which tends to make my head explode when I derive pleasurable feelings from it. It took a while for me to come to enjoy my wife's breast play during sex, which was the sure fire way to conclude that encounter. Now with me at a whole new level of transness, plus the guilt and the shame still lingering, especially when I see and experience more and more of my wife's acceptance of the real me, I have some getting used to do